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Part of the club no one wants to be in...

Kalidawn523Kalidawn523 member
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I posted about a week ago that I had been bleeding and had been seen in OB triage. My betas rose but didn't double but there was still hope of a vanishing twin. Well I laid in bed with crazy intense cramping all weekend and today was my viability scan. Beta went down from 2599 to 914 and uterus was empty on scan. I'm officially a member of this club no one wants to be in. I am relieved to finally have some answers after a week and a half of torturous limbo but sad that we lost an angel. Hoping that the doctor gives us good news about trying again soon. Thank you all in advance for your support.

Me: 28 
DH: 34

IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
BFP 12/29/13
Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
NMC 1/26/14

Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
12/3/14 BFP!!!
No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

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Re: Part of the club no one wants to be in...

  • MissErika16MissErika16 member
    Sorry to hear. My scan didn't go good either. Still no heartbeat and Dr says no way I could have a positive pregnancy test on 12/27 and only measure in the 6th week.

    I've started spotting brown blood and have lower back pain but nothing major yet. Have to decide natural, miso or D&C. What are you going to do?
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  • Kalidawn523Kalidawn523 member
    Just posted for you on the sept board too. My us showed my uterus was empty already. So those contractions I had this weekend was my natural mc. It wasn't as bad as I expected. I didn't really bleed much at all. I had a couple big clots that fell out this am that I believe was the end of it. I only ever measured at 5w4d at the most so there wasn't much tissue anyways. The cramps were aweful but they came in waves so there was some occasional relief and then eventually it was over. My hcg dropped from 2599 on weds to 914 today so it still has a bit to drop. How far along are you? Are you already having any cramping or bleeding?

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

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  • aezimmermanaezimmerman member
    Sorry for your loss. I hope you can try again soon. My OB benched me for 2 cycles.
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  • IhopeIhope member
    I'm so,sorry
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  • MissErika16MissErika16 member
    Sorry you had to go through that. I know how hard it's been to wait and hope in limbo. I would hope that with resolution there's closure to just grieve the loss. My thoughts are with you.
    I wish mine would resolve naturally. I've started spotting over the weekend but ultrasound today still showed everything in tact despite minor cramping over the weekend. I should be 8w4d but looks like everything came to a halt around 6w2d. There's a yolk sac with fetal pole(no HB) and that's about it in there. Dr feels 100% sure that I couldn't have had a positive (and I mean the pg indicator line turned blue before the test line kind of positive!) pg test on 12/27 and only be measuring 6w2d. :( I was hoping I was just WAY off but I knew better. My dr said he didn't recommend waiting more for the emotional side of it but that I certainly could. I don't know what to do but he scheduled me for a D&C Thursday as he sai even at my size it would be like a mini-labor. I don't so much care about that though. Just hoping a decision comes to me.
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  • Kalidawn523Kalidawn523 member
    Yeah I was planning on choosing a d&c if given the choice but my body took care of it on it's own yesterday. I'm kind of glad it was out of my hands. I've heard pretty good things about the d&c tho so hopefully it will all be over with soon and you can begin to move on. I know how distressing it all is. I'm so sorry for your loss. We unfortunately are linked together for really sad circumstances. I'm hoping that we can try again soon and move on with a new pregnancy. For me I think that will help. I will pray for your healing and that you can find some peace. There is nothing like this and only we can understand it. I'm here for you!❤️

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

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  • ItsGreenItsGreen member
    edited January 2014
    Right there with you. I am trying to stay optimistic. I agree with you Kalidawn523. We're together in this and hopefully we can support each other and keep each other in good spirits while we all try again. 
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  • Kalidawn523Kalidawn523 member
    Argh my doctor was supposed to call to confirm what the ultrasound and hcg said. I have access to my medical files since I work at the hospital so I've looked it all up. So my OB, despite several messages, forgets to call me today of all days. I'm so mad. Cue waterworks. All the pent up emotion comes flooding out. This all just sucks.

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

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  • ItsGreenItsGreen member
    Same here, I called Friday to get my Thyroid results. Still haven't called me with them. 
    What was the Ultrasound confirmation for? My waterworks are usually in the middle of the night, and then I can't go back to sleep. 
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  • Kalidawn523Kalidawn523 member
    I haven't actually had a doctor tell me that it's a miscarriage. It's pretty obvious since my hcg dropped and my us was empty but the tech didn't have to tell me and if I didn't have access to my results I wouldn't know anything. I didn't see my doc today because she said that we could just talk over the phone about whatever happened. So then she didn't call and it makes me feel like my little miscarriage didn't even register on her OB doctor radar.

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

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