March 2014 Moms

Stupid DH

So he just said to me that my belly is making my boobs look small. Normally he tells me he loves my boobs bc they are huge (right now they are a HH so I know they are ginormous). Yeah....no words for how this comment makes me feel!

What stupid things has your DH done or said recently?

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  • Luckily my DH hasn't said anything real bad the only thing that he has said that I cried he was talking about our oldest daughter and how she is going to be 18 when Sira our soon to be LO will be 5! I burst into tears, I still get choked up about it. 
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  • Mine isn't really thinking about the pregnancy at all. He's so focused on his busted leg, how hard it is to use crutches, asking me to get him stuff...His surgeon said yesterday at his post-op that he needs to stay off that leg for another five weeks...no weight bearing at all. Then maybe he can 'graduate' to a cane instead if crutches for the NEXT 6-8 weeks before he can try normal walking. So yeah, stupid ass husband. I'm due March 16, lol...
  • My belly button grosses him out (cause it sticks out).
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  • Everything he says or does bothers me. Currently I am pouting in bed while he is having a drink and playing cards with his buddy. His biggest mistake was when he started talking about hot chicks with awesome bods. I am currently fantasizing about throat punching him and than kicking him in the gut. Here I am in all of my Buddha shaped glory with our third kid and he is being an ass. I don't usually have anything bad to say about him since we have been together for 14 almost 15 years but he is an ass today and I needed a vent lol thanks :)
  • My dh has told everyone that this baby wasn't in his plans and that he's definitely getting his nuts cut. What a dbag.
    He constantly asks me what I'm cooking or how long its been since I made him dinner. Of course there's all when was the last time we had sex comments. Not a single back rub, foot rub, help picking baby names this entire pregnancy. We will be fortunate to make it another month together.
  • My dh has told everyone that this baby wasn't in his plans and that he's definitely getting his nuts cut. What a dbag. He constantly asks me what I'm cooking or how long its been since I made him dinner. Of course there's all when was the last time we had sex comments. Not a single back rub, foot rub, help picking baby names this entire pregnancy. We will be fortunate to make it another month together.
    I'm sorry you are dealing with this. You deserve so much better :( he does sound like he's being a dbag. Good luck :(


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  • When I told him my back was killing me yesterday I got the usual "Welcome to my world. Mine hurts everyday" Thanks DH, but maybe a little sympathy would be nice I am growing your child in my uterus after all :)

                          

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  • Just curious why it's ok for you to call your husband stupid? That seems so much worse to me than what he said to you. 
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  • Laura8388 said:
    I said to DH last night before bed "look how massive and round my boobs are!!!! (Milk came in) and he looked up and said "eww they look gross with all those veins". :-w He then laughed and said he was just kidding and tried to kiss me, but we aren't friends now.
    he won't think they look gross when you wake up engorged and they are ROCK HARD (this started happening when LO first started to STTN or at least longer stretches. My H was mesmerized by them.
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  • Just curious why it's ok for you to call your husband stupid? That seems so much worse to me than what he said to you. 
    Who are you talking to?

    I assume OP .. Title of post was Stupid DH
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  • My dh has told everyone that this baby wasn't in his plans and that he's definitely getting his nuts cut. What a dbag.
    He constantly asks me what I'm cooking or how long its been since I made him dinner. Of course there's all when was the last time we had sex comments. Not a single back rub, foot rub, help picking baby names this entire pregnancy. We will be fortunate to make it another month together.

    I'm sorry you're dealing with this, he does sound like a douche bag! I really hope that you can get things worked out and settled before LO gets here! Stay strong, mama!
  • Just curious why it's ok for you to call your husband stupid? That seems so much worse to me than what he said to you. 
    Who are you talking to?

    I assume OP .. Title of post was Stupid DH
    Yes, was talking about OP since the title of post was Stupid DH. 
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  • jfb29 said:

    jessher said:





    jessher said:

    Just curious why it's ok for you to call your husband stupid? That seems so much worse to me than what he said to you. 

    Who are you talking to?




    I assume OP .. Title of post was Stupid DH

    Yes, was talking about OP since the title of post was Stupid DH. 

    Sorry if you found my title offensive for some reason. DH even admitted he was stupid for saying it though. Believe me, I know my DH isn't stupid, what he said was stupid.


    Didn't say I found it offensive. I was curious about the name calling.
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  • jessher said:





    jessher said:

    Just curious why it's ok for you to call your husband stupid? That seems so much worse to me than what he said to you. 

    Who are you talking to?




    I assume OP .. Title of post was Stupid DH

    Yes, was talking about OP since the title of post was Stupid DH. 

    Sounds like someone is being a bit bitchy.. But whatever.
    (Edit: not op)

    I guess so...seems like it's just me that found it strange. Guess I should have refrained and let it go.
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  • My dh has told everyone that this baby wasn't in his plans and that he's definitely getting his nuts cut. What a dbag.
    He constantly asks me what I'm cooking or how long its been since I made him dinner. Of course there's all when was the last time we had sex comments. Not a single back rub, foot rub, help picking baby names this entire pregnancy. We will be fortunate to make it another month together.

    I'm sorry you're dealing with this, he does sound like a douche bag! I really hope that you can get things worked out and settled before LO gets here! Stay strong, mama!
    Oh springbaby03 this makes me sad for you. How many children do you have? Do you think he will turn around once LO is here? It must be horrible to not have a partner who is supportive or excited about the pregnancy etc.
  • KayCee85KayCee85 member
    edited January 2014
    Wait, we're not allowed to call our husbands stupid? Damn. I call mine worse than that....right to his face!
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