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`*`*` GTKY & YK(s) Friday `*`*`** Would you Rather addition Part 1

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Good Morning All! Happy Friday, we made it through another week! Hope everyone is doing well, and has a great weekend!

Would you rather... 
Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal? 

Would you rather... 
Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex OR A horrible relationship and GREAT sex? 

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Would you rather... 
Your kid be the most popular kid in school and lacking intelligence OR Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends.

Would you rather... 
Your kid(s) going to school far away and only seeing them 3 months a year, but being able to talk to them everyday. OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? 

Weekend Plans?!?! 




  


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Re: `*`*` GTKY & YK(s) Friday `*`*`** Would you Rather addition Part 1

  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Would you rather... 
    Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal? 

    Would you rather... 
    Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex - LOL I don't even know what sex is these days. 
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    Would you rather... 
    Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends. I say this because hopefully the smarts would outweigh the need for popularity, and he can have friends when he is older. 

    Would you rather... 
    OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? Probably this, because I am thinking non-verbal communication could still happen.  

    Shit those were kinda hard... sorry. 

    Weekend Plans?!?! - I have my final lining check tomorrow, and if over 8mm they will trigger me.  Then my mom, sister and I will be going for a free facial that I won tomorrow.  Sunday a baby shower. H is in Vegas this weekend for a convention, so hopefully all goes well with shots this weekend.  Think about me tomorrow for a good appointment! 



      


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  • cerad5cerad5 member

    I am so bad at these things, it's the over-analyzer in me that wants to tell you why I think each has their positives. But if I HAVE to choose ;)

    Richest person in the world.

    Great relationship with bad sex. Luckily DH and I have great chemistry, but at the times when sex was not happening I've been happy to fall back on the love and friendship we have. Don't get me wrong, I just think sex doesn't make the relationship. Especially after going through this 2IF journey.

    Smartest with no friends. I agree, friends when older.

    Talk every day. Just seems better to me.

    Weekend plans: My nephew's 12th birthday party.

    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

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  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    edited January 2014
    Richest, so I could pass it on and know family is taken care of.
    Great relationship, like freakyfast said! Need something to grow on!
    Smartest, I can't stand dumb ppl (lol)
    See everyday. ASL!!! I just can't imagine being apart right now, but she is still young.
    Plans for weekend- recovering from strep and bronchitis and teacher training seminar!
    Edited- accidentally hit post button before finished typing.
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!     February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image    imageimage Potato Love!

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  • designer303designer303 member
    Would you rather... 
    Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal? Rich, unless my family was immortal too, I couldnt stand to watch everyone I love die.
    Would you rather... 
    Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex OR A horrible relationship and GREAT sex? 
    Would have to pick great relationship
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    Would you rather... 
    Your kid be the most popular kid in school and lacking intelligence OR Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends.  Got to go with the smart kid, popular kids usually suck anyway
    Would you rather... 
    Your kid(s) going to school far away and only seeing them 3 months a year, but being able to talk to them everyday. OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? Guess I'll take the seeing them everyday
     
    those were hard :-/
     
    Weekend Plans?!?! We have a birthday party for a girl that G goes to school with and then we had dinner plans, but I'm pretty sure we are being cancelled on. 

    TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

    Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

    TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

    Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

    Back with RE as of January 2014...

    5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

    April 2015 IVF#1

    5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

    Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd :)

    Silly mugglesimage

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  • Jeffreysmom24Jeffreysmom24 member
    Richest person in the world so that we could afford to try ivf!

    Great relationship

    Smartest kid

    See every day

    Weekend plans: I just came down with a cold - third one in a row, I have been sick since before thanksgiving! :(
    So other than music class tomorrow, we probably won't do much other than sex since I got my first trigger shot ever yesterday!
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Richest person in the world unless my loved ones are immortal, in which case I choose that one. @freakyfast, I feel like you might've had Damon Salvatore on your mind when you answered. :)

    Another vote for great relationship and bad sex.

    Smartest kid.

    And the last one is too hard. Either one break my heart but I guess I'll go with talking to him every day.

    I'm traveling to see family this weekend and going to a 90th birthday party for my grandpa.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    CheesyPeas said:
    Richest person in the world unless my loved ones are immortal, in which case I choose that one. @freakyfast, I feel like you might've had Damon Salvatore on your mind when you answered. :)


    Maybe ;)  But I would choose Immortality anyway.  



      


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    freakyfast said:
    CheesyPeas said:
    Richest person in the world unless my loved ones are immortal, in which case I choose that one. @freakyfast, I feel like you might've had Damon Salvatore on your mind when you answered. :)


    Maybe ;)  But I would choose Immortality anyway.  
    By the way, happy Klaus stuff was goin down last night. It'll make you smile if you havent watched it yet.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    CheesyPeas said:

    Maybe ;)  But I would choose Immortality anyway.  
    By the way, happy Klaus stuff was goin down last night. It'll make you smile if you havent watched it yet.

    No! I haven't, but I will for sure this weekend.  <3<3 



      


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Would you rather... 
    Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal? Richest - too sad watching everyone else grow old and pass away. Also, money buys happiness, right?

    Would you rather... 
    Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex OR A horrible relationship and GREAT sex? Great relationship. Much more important in my eyes, and if the sex is horrible I'll just do without.

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    Would you rather... 
    Your kid be the most popular kid in school and lacking intelligence OR Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends. I'm way over-thinking this one. Clearly I want my kid to be intelligent, but I also don't want them to have serious self-esteem issues that lead to depression, etc, that haunts them for life. 

    Would you rather... 
    Your kid(s) going to school far away and only seeing them 3 months a year, but being able to talk to them everyday. OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? If we're talking college-age, they can go far away and call their mother everyday. 

    Weekend Plans?!?! 
    DD1 has a Bday party tomorrow, both DDs have a dance showcase, then they're going with my ILs for an overnight. Hubs is on call Sunday, so that means DAY TO MYSELF!!! 

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Would you rather... 
    Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal? 
    Shit, most definitely richest- but both of these seem annoying. Who would want to out live everyone they love? That seems miserable. 

    Would you rather... 
    Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex OR A horrible relationship and GREAT sex? 
    Great relationship 
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    Would you rather... 
    Your kid be the most popular kid in school and lacking intelligence OR Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends.
    Smartest, if she's anything like her Mommy, she won't care about friends until she's in her 30s anyway, then she'll meet them all online. TEEEEEHEEEEEEEEE
    Would you rather... 
    Your kid(s) going to school far away and only seeing them 3 months a year, but being able to talk to them everyday. OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? 
    This shit is just weird Steph? If I can see her every day, how am I not talking to her? I'm gonna go with see anyway, I'll be able to just look at her and know what's up. :-?

    Weekend Plans?!?!  Idk? 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Mrs Castillo said:

    This shit is just weird Steph? If I can see her every day, how am I not talking to her? I'm gonna go with see anyway, I'll be able to just look at her and know what's up. :-?

    Weekend Plans?!?!  Idk? 

    I know the shit is weird.. that is the point.  /:)



      


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    @jimbobcooter, I'm so sorry to see your plans for tomorrow. So sad. :(
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • sailorgalsailorgal member
    Would you rather... 
    Be the richest person in the world OR Immortal?

    immortal

    Would you rather... 
    Have a GREAT relationship, and horrible sex OR A horrible relationship and GREAT sex? 

    great relationship and bad sex

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    Would you rather... 
    Your kid be the most popular kid in school and lacking intelligence OR Your kid be the smartest kid in school with no friends.
    most popular and lacking intelligence - my friends are what makes my life so fun so i'd be so sad if he didn't have any.

    Would you rather... 
    Your kid(s) going to school far away and only seeing them 3 months a year, but being able to talk to them everyday. OR them going to school close where you see them every day, but only get to talk to them one day a year? 
    i went to boarding school and loved it so i'll with the school far away, seeing them 3 months a year and talking to them daily.

    Weekend Plans?!?!
    new gymnastics class for DS which he loved yesterday. today we're going to his school mate's house. the parents invited all the kids over and their families to get to know each other, etc. she's hired a yoga instructor and babysitters for the kids so the parents can mingle! should be great fun.
    Me: 32, DH: 33
    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
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