"Your baby’s cold is lasting 10 days. Your toddler’s earache persists all weekend. Your teenager’s cough lingers for weeks. When should you worry? That is to say, when should you really worry, going a step beyond generalized parental anxiety to actual, galvanizing concern? How long is too long?A paper recently out in the BMJ offers some welcome answers to that eternal question, and we’ve converted them into the simple bar chart above. The lead author of the paper, Dr. Matthew Thompson, professor of family medicine at the University of Washington and researcher at Oxford, says he’d be happy to see it posted on many a fridge.
With one important proviso, however: Just because the duration of a child’s illness is within the expected range, that’s no reason to ignore other causes for concern. “If you’re still worried, if your child is getting sicker and sicker, and there’s something else going wrong — they’re not feeding well, having difficulty breathing, extremely high fever — you do need to take those things seriously,” Dr. Thompson said. “As parents, as doctors, we’re not just interested in duration of illness, we’re also interested in how severe the symptoms are.”"
Re: Interesting study: When To Really Worry? How Long Kids’ Coughs and Colds Tend To Last
People definitely overreact and overprescribe medication for children. And sometimes I think the medications actually prolong things because they suppress the symptoms, like fever, that help the body rid itself of the sickness.
Our family doc comments at every well child visit about how my kids never get sick because she only sees them around their birthdays. I always tell her that just because she doesn't see them, it doesn't mean they are never sick. It just takes a whole lot to get us worried and warrant a trip to the doctor, I guess.
Eli 6.18.09 35.5w
Silas 1.25.13 35.4w 10 days NICU, allergies/asthma, gluten intolerant
I get that she had a virus and there was nothing they could do, BUT dd hasn't been able to keep anything down and by the time I took her in, she hasn't gone to the bathroom at all in two days. I was very worried about dehydration and the dr blew me off.