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FET Cancelled *Update* At bottom

freakyfastfreakyfast member
edited January 2014 in Secondary IF
Well ladies, after some tears and a pep talk I am letting you all know that I have been cancelled for my FET. 

I went for my appointment, and they wouldn't tell me anything about my lining and I knew something was up, since I was told I would get a trigger shot at the appointment.  When they called me, they told me I was cancelled because my lining was .. wait for it... too thick!  16.8.  So I was told to stop everything, and my nurse will call me on Monday to set up an appointment with the doctor.   

Thank you all for the thoughts, prayers and support.  Hopefully I will be able to just get back up on the bike again.  

xoxo



  


Re: FET Cancelled *Update* At bottom

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    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
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  • OMG! I didn't even know that was possible! What the crap? Oh, I am so so sorry. Words cannot express... Big hugs!! <3
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • KC1212 said:
    OMG! I didn't even know that was possible! What the crap? Oh, I am so so sorry. Words cannot express... Big hugs!! <3

    I don't even know... I didn't realize it was so possible to be too thick, you always hear not thick enough.  I had to ask her twice what she said.  She said they don't like to see it too much over 10 at this point.  Thanks @KC1212 your hugs mean a lot!  :-*



      


  • Ugh I am so sorry!
  • So sorry. That seriously sucks.
    Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it.  We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011. 
    Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.  
    Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.
  • OMG so sorry!! Hopefully, like you said, you can get right back to it.

    TTC for 1.5 years with a crappy RE. 12 cycles with clomid (11 too many)
    New RE, 3 failed IUI's moving to IVF with ICSI
    IVF#1 BFP EDD 1/10/13
    Beta#1 51  Beta #2 148
    A/S 8/20/13 Team Pink
    Induced week 39 due to severe GD
    Baby girl born 1/4/13

           TTC #2 2 failed IUI's moving on to FET 3/2014
    ET 3/25 
    Beta #1 127
    Beta #2 845
    U/s 4/22 It's TWINS!!
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  • Oh no. I am so incredibly sad for you. Huge ((hugs)) girl! Hopefully it'll be easy to prevent when you try again.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • So sorry @freakyfast, I hope you don't have to wait long for the appt and get the show back on the road.
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

  • (Hugs and love girl!)
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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  • So sorry!  I can't imagine how disappointing this must be for you :(  Lots of good thoughts coming your way!
  • Oh no, I am so very sorry!! How disappointing. I didn't even know that could happen either. Sending you big hugs, I know this was tough news.
  • I am so sorry! I can't even imagine prepping for all of that and being ready to go in a few days only to have it all called off and have to go back to square one (minus retrieval of course). Sending you lots of ((hugs)). And giving the universe the middle finger in your behalf.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I am so sorry, that seriously stinks. Sending you big ((hugs))!
  • I'm so sorry :( and I have had a thick lining before but not in the fertility sense, made me have a longer heavier period so I hope that doesn't happen to you!
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  • Although I'm not very familiar with FET cycles, I am still very surprised that too thick of a lining would be a problem.  I'm so sorry you're canceled.  Are you able to try again next month or is your RE having you wait?  
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
  • I am so sorry! I hope they can figure out a fix! I am always questioned about what cycle day I am on because the nurses always comment about how thick my lining is. I have wondered if it is affecting implantation.

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • Disappointing. I'm so so sorry!
    Me: 32, DH: 33
    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  • Oh girl I am so sorry. I am still pulling for you


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
  • I'm so sorry.  Hopefully you can jump right back and try again.  I didn't know there could be to think of a lining.
    Me DOR amh .64 ng/mL  
    DH Brain Cancer
    BFP #1 12/11/08 DS born 8/23/09
    BFP#2 10/13/11 DC 11/4/11
    BFP#3 12/6/13 Lost 12/29/13
    Told IVF is the only option and have not found a clinic that will take me.



  • I'm so sorry that sucks!! Haing cycles cancelled blow chunks- Hang in there and hope this delay is short lived and you can get started again soon.

    TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

    Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

    TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

    Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

    Back with RE as of January 2014...

    5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

    April 2015 IVF#1

    5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

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  • Thank you everyone! I am waiting for the call today from my nurse, since I got cancelled over the weekend. The nurse that called on Saturday said I would have to schedule a meeting with my RE.   I will let you all know what is said and what happens.  



      


  • So good to see your update! Glad they will be monitoring you closely. Fingers crossed for you!!
  • The triple line thing makes total sense! Just sorry it didn't work out this time. But am excited you basically get to jump right back in! Keep keeping us updated! :)
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

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  • Triple stripe? Is that something they see on ultrasound? Either way, glad you have a plan. I'm happy they are monitoring more closely this time, definitely more peace of mind that way.
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

  • Sounds like a good plan! You're always in my prayers! [-O<
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • cerad5 said:
    Triple stripe? Is that something they see on ultrasound? Either way, glad you have a plan. I'm happy they are monitoring more closely this time, definitely more peace of mind that way.

    Yes it is seen on the ultrasound.  Would have been nice if that twit of a weekend nurse would have told me that, instead that my lining was 'too thick'.   



      


  • Sounds like a great plan of attack! What is the estimated transfer date? Or is it too soon? Cycle buddy????? My ER and ET is estimated for the first week of March.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image

  • Jen071407 said:
    Sounds like a great plan of attack! What is the estimated transfer date? Or is it too soon? Cycle buddy????? My ER and ET is estimated for the first week of March.
    Too soon. It all depends on when my period gets here.  I have no idea since I am taking that permetrium (sp) to jump start it. She said anywhere between 3 and 10 days, but I have already started feeling crampy.  



      


  • Jen071407 said:
    Sounds like a great plan of attack! What is the estimated transfer date? Or is it too soon? Cycle buddy????? My ER and ET is estimated for the first week of March.
    Too soon. It all depends on when my period gets here.  I have no idea since I am taking that permetrium (sp) to jump start it. She said anywhere between 3 and 10 days, but I have already started feeling crampy.  
    Gotcha. Well hopefully it comes and goes quickly so you can get the show on the road! 

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • I'm sorry you got canceled, but I'm glad you were able to get some answers and a plan!

  • Jen071407 said:

    Sounds like a great plan of attack! What is the estimated transfer date? Or is it too soon? Cycle buddy????? My ER and ET is estimated for the first week of March.

    Too soon. It all depends on when my period gets here.  I have no idea since I am taking that permetrium (sp) to jump start it. She said anywhere between 3 and 10 days, but I have already started feeling crampy.  


    Sounds like we may be on the same cycle. I start provera today to jump start AF, then start the lupron plan for a FET. Hopefully it will be a great month for all of us!

    TTC for 1.5 years with a crappy RE. 12 cycles with clomid (11 too many)
    New RE, 3 failed IUI's moving to IVF with ICSI
    IVF#1 BFP EDD 1/10/13
    Beta#1 51  Beta #2 148
    A/S 8/20/13 Team Pink
    Induced week 39 due to severe GD
    Baby girl born 1/4/13

           TTC #2 2 failed IUI's moving on to FET 3/2014
    ET 3/25 
    Beta #1 127
    Beta #2 845
    U/s 4/22 It's TWINS!!
    Team Purple!!

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  • Jen071407 said:
    Sounds like a great plan of attack! What is the estimated transfer date? Or is it too soon? Cycle buddy????? My ER and ET is estimated for the first week of March.
    Too soon. It all depends on when my period gets here.  I have no idea since I am taking that permetrium (sp) to jump start it. She said anywhere between 3 and 10 days, but I have already started feeling crampy.  
    Hope your period isn't too bad :)
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

  • cerad5 said:

    Hope your period isn't too bad :)

    Thanks.  But I am preparing for a doozer! (This cow is saying doooozer!) 3:-O



      


  • cerad5 said:

    Hope your period isn't too bad :)

    Thanks.  But I am preparing for a doozer! (This cow is saying doooozer!) 3:-O
    Haha, I can totally see that!
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

  • Depends!!! Cause they got some sexy styles now!!! (Just trying to make you smile!)
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

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  • Freaky glad to hear you can move forward somewhat quickly and hope its not a bad period, but I highly reccomend drinking through that sh*t, I have rarely been sober during a period in months...   (Just kidding, ok well maybe only kinda kidding) :-\"

    @chrissynena I'm sorry to see that you didnt get your BFP, but hopefully you and freaky can be productive cycle buddies and both score BFP this cycle. 

    Good luck to both of you!!!

    TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

    Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

    TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

    Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

    Back with RE as of January 2014...

    5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

    April 2015 IVF#1

    5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

    Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd :)

    Silly mugglesimage

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  • Freaky, I'm so sorry!!! Hugs!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • Total bummer!! As for your lining I understand it as having the 3 lines means you're ready to ovulate & if it's "too thick" or the lines are gone that's how they want to see the uterus post-ovulation.
    TTC since July 2010
    Me 26 (unexplained), DH 28 (SA GREAT!)
    Charting since April 2011
    Nurse Practitioner Fertility Specialist 9/11 Provera, Clomid for 3 months with no response.
    Metformin 1/12 to 3/12 with no regularity
    took break until 10/12
    CD1 11/9 + clomid 150, 4 follies (1 - 22mm) + hcg, progesterone level 9.3, put on progesterone supps, BFN 12/7
    CD1 12/9 + clomid 150, 2 follies 12mm & 13mm + no trigger, +OPK 12/23 + progesterone supps CD18, progesterone blood test=14.4, BFN 1/9
    CD 1 1/11, clomid 150 CD3-7 & dexamethasone CD 3-12, u/s 1/23 showed 3 follies 20+, triggered w/ hcg, started progesterone supps 1/25, 7dpo bw sched for 2/1
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