TTC after 35
Samuelismomma
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Warning!! Waiting to ttc (3 months) after D&C
Samuelismomma
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The re nurse said to wait 3 months ttc after D&C ...my H is all for that so lining is good. My worry is each month my clock is ticking because I'm 41. I can get pregnant easy but haven't held them since son. My husband thinks it's my lining..so that's why he wants to wait...any ladies here wait or just went a head when able?...any thoughts?
***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !!
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Re: Warning!! Waiting to ttc (3 months) after D&C
I don't think you'll find many on these boards who would ever recommend going against doctor's orders, it could be a dangerous thing to suggest. I truly understand the urgency you're feeling, but you have to weigh that against the guilt you would inevitably feel if you went ahead and then had another loss. Over on the TTCAL board where everyone is there dealing with the aftermath of loss, many with multiple losses, the common theme seems to be that those who went ahead too soon and had another loss feel incredible guilt about their decision to defy doctor's orders. Ultimately no one can tell you what to do, it's your decision, but I don't believe doctors tell women to wait for no reason - whether you're 41 or 21, your body needs to heal. And having had three losses in around 6 months, your body has been through so much, I'm sure your doctor isn't suggesting a three month wait lightly - he knows your history and is doing what he thinks is best for you, your body, and your future fertility.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
You're a youngin' at 41 compared to me, lol j/k. I personally wouldn't go against the RE's orders. Why take the chance that something bad could happen?
I was recently at a doc visit after my loss and my RE said that a few months doesn't make or break your chances. So try and stay positive that the couple of cycles you have to wait will make no difference in your fertility. Hey just think you get to go back to BDing just for the shear pleasure of it. At this point, I barely remember what that was like
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
SAIF/PAIF Welcome
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They did testing on the tissue and maybe something will be found that is correctable. Give your body and heart time to heal. I know it's hard but you have a very supportive husband and us so three months will fly by.
Taking up yoga and going away sound wonderful. I wish I could do that.
Big (((hugs))) to you.
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome