This will probably be a TL;DR.
Leo is almost 5 months old. He has a congenital defect in his airway that makes it hard for him to breathe flat on his back. He's had two surgeries not to repair, but to alleviate some of his distress.
Up till now, he has slept swaddled, in a RnP, on his sides. He is quickly approaching the weight limit of the RnP (21lbs now), and we can barely swaddle him. So we are going to transfer to his crib soon. Tonight is night one of no swaddle. He made it 50 minutes in the RnP, and woke up frustrated. I was able to calm him back down and laid him on my bed on his belly. He's been sleeping there since.
Leo is fully capable of rolling tummy to back and he has amazing upper body control. I'm a PICU nurse and I know all about back sleeping is safer, but for him it may not be. Would you feel comfortable tummy sleeping your LO in this circumstance?
The Mob Boss
Birth: 10lbs 11oz, 21.5 inches <> 1 mo: 14lbs 7oz, 23.5 inches2mo: 18lbs 15oz, 25.5 inches <> 4mo: 26lbs 8oz, 27.5 inches6mo: 29lbs 8oz, 30 inches <> 9mo: 32lbs, 32 inches12 mo: 37lbs, 34.5 inches <> 15 mo: 38lbs 6 oz, 36 inches. 20.5 inch noggin18 mo: 43lbs, 37.75 inches 21 inch head2yr: 47 lbs, 42 inches. 21.5 inch head. Woah.
Re: Tummy sleeping
Yes, I would. If it's best for him to sleep not flat on his back and he can move his head and roll around if he wants then I would do it. DD was sleeping however she was most comfortable by 5 months, which was normally on her tummy.
My cousin (who is also PICU/NICU RN) bought one of the Angel Care monitors for her son who would only sleep on his tummy. It gave her a little bit of relief so she didn't have to worry as much and could get some sleep herself.
I have slept E on his tummy since he was about 8 weeks old. He could not sleep on his back due to reflux, he would wake up choking and gagging every 30 minutes give or take. He needed proper rest and so did I.
I was nervous at first but I did get an Angelcare monitor. I know they say it can't prevent SIDS but it makes me feel better that I would know right away if he did stop breathing, and I don't have to go into his room at night to check him.
I'm still nervous about it sometimes, but he sleeps great. I have tried putting him on his back or sides but he still won't/can't sleep that way.
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The Mob Boss
Birth: 10lbs 11oz, 21.5 inches <> 1 mo: 14lbs 7oz, 23.5 inches2mo: 18lbs 15oz, 25.5 inches <> 4mo: 26lbs 8oz, 27.5 inches6mo: 29lbs 8oz, 30 inches <> 9mo: 32lbs, 32 inches12 mo: 37lbs, 34.5 inches <> 15 mo: 38lbs 6 oz, 36 inches. 20.5 inch noggin18 mo: 43lbs, 37.75 inches 21 inch head2yr: 47 lbs, 42 inches. 21.5 inch head. Woah.