I never had any friends that lived close that EBF. My husband was my support but my LC, the bump and www.kellymom.com is where I got all the information I needed.
Ugh... I hear ya! I have plenty of mama friends, but none of them stuck with nursing! It made me feel like they assumed I was judging them for it. Just try to get any support you need on forums like this, or from older family members who have "been there, done that".
Ugh... I hear ya! I have plenty of mama friends, but none of them stuck with nursing! It made me feel like they assumed I was judging them for it. Just try to get any support you need on forums like this, or from older family members who have "been there, done that".
Most of my friends don't have kids, let alone breastfeed. When we moved, I found the BFing group at our local hospital, and now I have a great group of breastfeeding moms around. I really recommend finding a group, whether it's LLL, BreastfeedingUSA, or at a hospital. It's great to have that support, even when you are nursing a toddler.
I looked up breastfeeding groups near me through Facebook, LLL, and Meetup. I live in a pretty remote area (people drive 45 miles to go to a mall that has more than a Barnes and Noble and Macy's...and we just got the Macy's last year. Haha) so the groups are all roughly an hour drive away through a mountain pass that, quite frankly, I hate driving.
I feel like the queen of excuses. Maybe I haven't looked far enough. Haha.
So glad I'm not alone, though. I swear it is a rare sight to hear of a mom that breastfeeds past the first couple of weeks, let alone months.
Ugh... I hear ya! I have plenty of mama friends, but none of them stuck with nursing! It made me feel like they assumed I was judging them for it. Just try to get any support you need on forums like this, or from older family members who have "been there, done that".
I swear I feel the same way! I almost feel guilty nursing and talking about nursing when I'm with them. But then I remember that that is ridiculous to even think about feeling guilty. Haha
Maybe you could try going to a few LLL meetings, And see if there are moms close to where you live. And form a play date or whatever?
TTC since August 2011 (Me-29, DH-32). 4/28/2012 - SA: 5% motility. 5/21/2012 - SA: same results. Only shot is IVF (ICSI) 5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear 6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary. 8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment 8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer) 8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS 8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle 10/12/2012 - FET one embryo 10/24/2012 - Beta #1: 442 10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947 10/29/2012 - Beta #3: 2900! 11/15/2012 - first u/s: baby measuring perfect, heart rate is right on target 2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice! 7/6/2013 - Baby girl born after 44 hours of un-medicated labor, 2 hours of pushing, and emergency c-section due to transverse head. DD was perfectly healthy at 6 pounds, 14 ounces. We are thrilled!!
Re: No EBF friends
TTC since August 2011 (Me-29, DH-32).
4/28/2012 - SA: 5% motility.
5/21/2012 - SA: same results.
Only shot is IVF (ICSI)
5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear
6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary.
8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment
8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer)
8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS
8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle
10/12/2012 - FET one embryo
10/24/2012 - Beta #1: 442
10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947
10/29/2012 - Beta #3: 2900!
11/15/2012 - first u/s: baby measuring perfect, heart rate is right on target
2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice!
7/6/2013 - Baby girl born after 44 hours of un-medicated labor, 2 hours of pushing, and emergency c-section due to transverse head. DD was perfectly healthy at 6 pounds, 14 ounces. We are thrilled!!