Sex. The kind that made the baby, not baby's gender.

Re: Sex. The kind that made the baby, not baby's gender.

• tbmadeamistake member

  January 2014

  Make him give you a back rub. It always puts me in the mood and relaxes me enough that some of the discomfort doesn't matter. Doesn't have to be a long. Hell, DH got laid last night because he rubbed my neck the right way.

  Married DH 7/30/11
  

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• hopin4babies member

  January 2014

  I have the opposite problem. Poor DH doesnt get it very often. I'm just not in the mood at all. Part of it is that I'm still having morning sickness quite a bit so my stomach still doesn't feel right if that makes sense. Most of the time when he mentions it I'm just like blahhhh, but if he can get me in the mood I'm good to go if that makes sense. I'm hoping my sex drive returns soon because I feel kinda bad for my hubby but he's been pretty understanding.
  

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• ChristineBaker23 member

  January 2014

  hopin4babies said:

  I have the opposite problem. Poor DH doesnt get it very often. I'm just not in the mood at all. Part of it is that I'm still having morning sickness quite a bit so my stomach still doesn't feel right if that makes sense. Most of the time when he mentions it I'm just like blahhhh, but if he can get me in the mood I'm good to go if that makes sense. I'm hoping my sex drive returns soon because I feel kinda bad for my hubby but he's been pretty understanding.
  

  I was totally in your boat during my three months of morning sickness jail. Last pregnancy I was not in the mood at ALL. This time I'm "horny" but not in the mood if that even makes sense.
  

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• scarlettepixis member

  January 2014

  I am mentally horny all the time, but physically I'm exhausted all the time too. It's awful. I can't bring myself to start anything in fear that i'll LEGIT FALL ASLEEP because i'm so tired. And when I am awake and ready to go, BF is at work! Just doesn't sync up, you know?

  

  

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• ChristineBaker23 member

  January 2014

  scarlettepixis said:

  I am mentally horny all the time, but physically I'm exhausted all the time too. It's awful. I can't bring myself to start anything in fear that i'll LEGIT FALL ASLEEP because i'm so tired. And when I am awake and ready to go, BF is at work! Just doesn't sync up, you know?

  This happens a lot.

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• ChristineBaker23 member

  January 2014

  @joules235 I went and creeped your sex position post. Looking forward to trying one or two later unfortunately our schedules are another factor for sex being difficult. I work 8-noon he works noon-9. We don't have daycare thanks to this schedule so we switch off with our daughter at work (we work in the same building)at noon. And by the time he gets home at nine I'm usually completely wiped out from chasing around my terrible two year old for 8 hours and cleaning house. and our daughters bed time is not until 8:30 or 9 because we like her sleeping till 8 or 9 in the morning so she's not pestering us while I'm trying to get ready and he is still sleeping because he works late (ish). I have thought about waking him up a couple times in the morning but his morning breath is UNGODLY lol. I gag if he snores in my direction. So if I want morning sex I have to plan it the night before and leave gum in his nightstand haha. Kind of takes the fun out a little.
  I'm starting to think we just need a good stay at home date night while our LO is overnight with grandparents so we can just have a good f***ing. Cause if we go out for a date I'm too tired by the time we make it home.

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• ChristineBaker23 member

  January 2014

  Wow that was long. My bad guys.

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• katekat8721 member

  January 2014

  Read my bitch in the BM post, our resident sex therapist (@joules235) gave great tips!
  
  -signed,
  the girl who got lucky last night

  
  

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• MollySm member

  January 2014

  I am on pelvic rest, and it pretty much makes me want to have sex all the time!  Maybe not a helpful solution, but thought I'd share

  

  BFP 3.8.16  EDD 11.20.16

  
  
  

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• MissBHaven1024 member

  January 2014

  Suggestions: Bubble bath for 2, romantic dinner, sexy movie
  
  Positions: doggy-style, girl on top, spooning

  

  
  
  
  
  
  

  
  

  
  

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• coffee-saur member

  January 2014

  I'd be in the mood more often if it wasn't so much WORK!

  DS 6/6/10
  DD 3/15/12
  DD 6/3/14
  #4 Due 10/26/18!

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• bebemac member

  January 2014

  Oh man. No sex here since BFP. I am exhausted and have MS like the rest of you, but I just don't want anybody all up in my bidness right now. Especially one-eyed monsters. Maybe in July I'll feel differently. H had hernia surgery so I am totally off the hook. Score!
  
  Sorry, no advice here. Hope you get your sexy time, though!

  
  
  
  
  

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• wtfisup member

  January 2014

  We just had our first awkward pregnancy sex the other day. I was on top, but it was too strenuous and I was too tired. Then he got behind me, but we could both feel him bumping my cervix hard. So then he got on top, but it was hard not to squish my belly.

  
  

  
  
  

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• MrsRage member

  January 2014

  Doggy style seems to work best for us,. And I feel bad for my hubby too. He only gets action on the weekends because I'm too tired after work.

  

                    DH and I in front of our first house - Aug 2013

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• babyglo350 member

  January 2014

  That's my problem too. Our timing is so off. Mornings seem to be good for me but buy the time I open my eyes H is out the door. By the time I get home from work, cook, clean and decompress all I want to do is sleep. Hoping our clocks sync up sooner rather than later. I miss sex

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• TonyaCody06 member

  January 2014

  oh man…I can't get enough of it! My hormones make me crazy when I'm pregnant. We actually ordered some fun lingerie that should be arriving soon that we can't wait to try out. 

  
  

  You won't squish the baby. Your SO won't hurt the baby. Try not to focus on being pregnant while in the act. Turn off the lights if you are self conscious of your pregnant body. Mine loves it - the boob growth is amazing

  
  

  My favorite position anyways is being on top, which works out well being pregnant with a big belly. GL & have fun! 

  
  

   

  
  

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• katekat8721 member

  January 2014

  lyracelesti said:

  I want sex but then i don't like it when we're having it.

   

  But i had to share my lawl at the title of this post; my other PAIF ladies may get me here, but it has been a few years since I associated baby making with sex!

  lol, yes. Sex is just for fun, "baby making" involved these guys!
  
  
  
  

  
  

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