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Mrs Nice
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Welcome to the checkin! I am sorry to have to welcome new loss moms this week but am so glad that you have found us. I hope we can bring each other some much needed comfort and support. Please feel free to join in when you are ready and share as much or as little as you wish. Also, if you have any questions you would like answered, just ask! Any lurkers out there please don't be shy, we would like to be able to support you too.
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week?
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard?
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week?
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard?
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
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Re: Loss Check In
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal? Keep losing weight. Get pregnant!
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard? friends, family, warm baths, time off from work, crying, journaling, visiting my daughter's grave, talking about my daughter, visit friends, go for rides/walks
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?My baby girl..we're coming up to a year right around the corner and I cannot believe it
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BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013
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Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week? I'm praying alot for peace in my heart.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? To spend extra extra time With my kids .
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard?
God, my husband, and my kids.
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week my baby girl.
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week? I've been sticking to my New Years resolutions - and have been exercising regularly, which has really been helping me feel better lately.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal? No major goals. Just trying to continue getting healthier.
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard? Writing on my blog, snuggling with my kitties, playing with DS, talking with DH or my close girl friends, praying, listening to worship music.
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? I'm struggling with the fact that it feels like people in my life are ready for me to get over it and stop being so sad. When I say I think l'll be sad forever, at least a little bit, some have made me feel like I am being selfish or ungrateful. That somehow I have to be happy happy happy again, and I honestly don't see how that will happen. I can't just think about Colton and the happy memories. No matter how hard I try, I will always be thinking about how he should have been with us or done this or that, and it is sad that he isn't here with us. I know I have much in my life to be thankful for and happy about, but I feel like this sadness is part of me now.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal? Try and get physically healthy again. I decided to train for a Short triathlon this summer. I've always wanted to do it, so why not now?!
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard? My faith in God. My husband who is incredibly patient and always ready to help me talk through things and tell me, yes it will always be hard, but that I will be okay and that there will be better days ahead.
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? We recieved Zedekiah's death certificate finally this week. Cause of death was officially deemed as Sudden Unexpected Neonatal Death. In the comments it stated that baby "sleeping with adult in adult bed" as a condition that may or may not have contributed to death. I was nursing him. He was not sleeping in the bed with me... I just feel frustrated and angry that this is what they put on the certificate. It just makes it so much harder to convince myself that it was not my fault.
I started back to work. So I'm trying to figure out how that is going to go. I am working a split shift so I will be out of the house from 7-5:30 and spending the time in between at my brothers. So we will see
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
Make sure that I go to the gym. I am working on my tumblr, trying to do some research on early education. I have been debating signing up to do my masters but Im not sure yet.
QOTW: What helps to keep you going when things are unbearably hard?
My DH. He is SO supportive and is always assuring me that we will figure this out. Whether that means we have a baby or not, we will do it. He is SO amazing.
Hi everyone...hope everyone had a peaceful weekend. thinking of you all.
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week? still trucking along...trying to be mindful and thankful for what I have and the time I had with her.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to achieve it? continuing to run and work towards running a 10k in a few months...also just getting through my RPL testing right now...AF is due in less than 2 weeks so we will be unbenched soon...I'm starting to get flashbacks again and really anxious. ughhhhh.
QOTW?my DH and just the hope that there is goodness after this.
What's on your mind this week?just getting anxious about trying again...getting really scared about me continuing to lose pregnancies. I really want to be hopeful and I want to trust my new dr. but I feel myself trying to control everything once again and being afraid that my RE is going to not do something right. i guess I am just stressed right now and need to relax.
8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)
-5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)
11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13
8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF
IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties
12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!! One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15
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@marylaurena - ((hugs)) as you get ready to come off the bench. I was having a lot of trust issues with my doctor as well, and I know it can be hard to trust someone else with our children. I will thinking of you.