Secondary IF

~~~making a home Smonday ~~~~~

do you have all of your Christmas decor down?

Nope. We still have lights on the roof. But, we do not turn them on. The weather hasn't been good enough for DH to take them down yet.

Are you (or DH!) a product junkie (i.e. Do you have a ton of products in the bathroom?)

Yes. My mom works for a beauty supply company :) so I struggle keeping my 9,000 body sprays, hair sprays, conditioners, lotions, etc. organized and off the counter. Not to mention I buy my razors in bulk!



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Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF


Re: ~~~making a home Smonday ~~~~~

  • Umm.. Yea, it's all been down since Christmas night. Shit it is damned near Feb. 

    Certain products I am obsessed with, like Sugar lip balm for ex. and certain perfumes, so in the case I guess, yea I have ton of products- they're all over my house, not just in the bathroom. 


    P.S I know everyone wants to know: How are you feeling @KC1212? How's the recovery going? I've been thinking of you! 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • That is sweet of you to ask. I got home late yesterday evening. I was supposed to go home straight from the surgery (I begged my doctor to release me and was adamant that I wanted to recoup on my couch with netflix) but, after the surgery I was in more pain than I anticipated (it felt similar to a c-section) and I was DRUGGED. Like whoa. I remember telling a nurse "my crotch burned" and to give me more pain medicine.

    I remember falling asleep on the toilet with the IV pole nearby.

    And I remember telling my mom to look for the that "little pan to puke in".

    Anyway, because I was puking - they made me stay overnight in the MOTHER / BABY UNIT!

    Physically- I'm doing great. I'm moving around, etc. I've been better emotionally, as I'm sure you can imagine but, time will heal.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • KC1212 said:
    That is sweet of you to ask. I got home late yesterday evening. I was supposed to go home straight from the surgery (I begged my doctor to release me and was adamant that I wanted to recoup on my couch with netflix) but, after the surgery I was in more pain than I anticipated (it felt similar to a c-section) and I was DRUGGED. Like whoa. I remember telling a nurse "my crotch burned" and to give me more pain medicine. I remember falling asleep on the toilet with the IV pole nearby. And I remember telling my mom to look for the that "little pan to puke in". Anyway, because I was puking - they made me stay overnight in the MOTHER / BABY UNIT! Physically- I'm doing great. I'm moving around, etc. I've been better emotionally, as I'm sure you can imagine but, time will heal.

    ((hugs)) You are one tough woman!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • KC1212 said:
    That is sweet of you to ask. I got home late yesterday evening. I was supposed to go home straight from the surgery (I begged my doctor to release me and was adamant that I wanted to recoup on my couch with netflix) but, after the surgery I was in more pain than I anticipated (it felt similar to a c-section) and I was DRUGGED. Like whoa. I remember telling a nurse "my crotch burned" and to give me more pain medicine. I remember falling asleep on the toilet with the IV pole nearby. And I remember telling my mom to look for the that "little pan to puke in". Anyway, because I was puking - they made me stay overnight in the MOTHER / BABY UNIT! Physically- I'm doing great. I'm moving around, etc. I've been better emotionally, as I'm sure you can imagine but, time will heal.
    Omg! It all sounds brutal! Just know that everyone is continuing to send you tons of positive thoughts (big hugs) 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • KC1212 said:

    (((HUGS)))

    As for smonday- everything but tree.. Dd keeps asking where Santa is?

    Supply hoarding, I've been throwing away a ton bc I wasted so much by not using during pregnancy and breastfeeding for so long. Just heard too much against fragrance in products... Sadly trying to use what hasn't gone bad and hubs is all like, "wow! That is strong!!!" Bc u haven't used anything he is now sensitive. Ugh. I guess chucking it all.
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • KC1212- glad you are feeling better physically. I'm sure you must be mentally and physically exhausted - hope you are able to rest. I am so sorry for all you have been through!

    Christmas stuff is all down. We just put up our Mardi Gras wreath last week!

    I love to take bubble baths so I have tons of bath products!
  • @KC1212 That sounds like it was more invasive surgery then I though it would be.  Glad you are doing better

    As for Christmas stuff it was all down on NewYears.

    I don't keep many products other them soap and lotion I don't wear makeup or do my hair or anything so not much on the counter. DH uses even less

    Me DOR amh .64 ng/mL  
    DH Brain Cancer
    BFP #1 12/11/08 DS born 8/23/09
    BFP#2 10/13/11 DC 11/4/11
    BFP#3 12/6/13 Lost 12/29/13
    Told IVF is the only option and have not found a clinic that will take me.



  • All of the Christmas stuff is down except for the lights on the outside of the house - way too cold lately for MH to climb up on the roof.

    I have a few certain products that I always use, but I don't think I come close to being considered a junkie.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image


  • Yes all Christmas stuff is done. 

    I am definitely a product junkie, I put 5 products in my hair alone BEFORE blow drying it.  I am a lotion and lip junkie too.  



      


  • All Christmas stuff is long packed away.  DS's birthday is early January, so I couldn't wait to take down Christmas stuff and start decorating for his party.  His party was Saturday and our house still looks like it. 

    Product junkie?  I would say no, but my husband might disagree.  I have my routine that I stick with and replenish as needed.  I'm not always trying new things or anything, but I do have a pretty extensive collection of items that I use daily.  
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
  • Yes- that is the one thing I do in a timely manner!

    I do- I am impulsive about products and will buy on a whim. Shampoo, conditioner, and face wash are the major problems for me.
  • All of our Christmas decor is down and has been for quite a while but we didn't do outdoor lights, so our clean-up was pretty easy.

    I'm with @momarazzi007 on switching away from fragrances and other "bad" ingredients during pregnancy and breastfeeding.  I'm now the one that can't tolerate scents; they actually make me feel sick (same with air fresheners).  I've found alternative products that I like well enough, so I just have a bunch of old products around that I don't use.  I feel too much guilt about throwing them away which I know is ridiculous because I know I won't use them again, particularly with us trying to concieve.  This post actually makes me want to go home and start chucking things because now that I typed this out, I realize just how ridiculous hoarding old products is.  So I'm deeming myself a recovering product junkie with a boarderline residual hoarding problem.

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • All of our Christmas decor is down and has been for quite a while but we didn't do outdoor lights, so our clean-up was pretty easy.

    I'm with @momarazzi007 on switching away from fragrances and other "bad" ingredients during pregnancy and breastfeeding.  I'm now the one that can't tolerate scents; they actually make me feel sick (same with air fresheners).  I've found alternative products that I like well enough, so I just have a bunch of old products around that I don't use.  I feel too much guilt about throwing them away which I know is ridiculous because I know I won't use them again, particularly with us trying to concieve.  This post actually makes me want to go home and start chucking things because now that I typed this out, I realize just how ridiculous hoarding old products is.  So I'm deeming myself a recovering product junkie with a boarderline residual hoarding problem.

    Get out of my brain!!! Lol, the guilt!!! The "I bought you!" The knowing they should've gone home with someone else... Or maybe I'm a little crazier than I thought before I started typing...

    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


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