DH came home from work last night and we got on the topic of cheating spouses. Because I watch trash like scandal and betrayal haha. As we were talking I stated that I don't think that cheating is a reason to end your marriage. Now hear me out. I would not cheat, never had, blah blah. But I have seen one night stands rip marriages apart.
I think that having a one night stand is not something that should break up a marriage/family. I don't know that if I found out my husband went away and cheated with a stranger one time I would feel as though it was worth giving up everything we built. (Clearly he would have to be remorseful and it be a one time occurrence, not like he has one night stands weekly). If he was emotionally involved with another person and developing a relationship with them I would be much more upset and I don't know if I could move on from that.
He simply said that if he found out I cheated he would walk out of the house and never look back. No matter what the situation. Oh, he may have also said he would have me killed haha. He can be dramatic.
So now this morning we joked that I can never cheat but he knows he gets a free pass... Lol
Am I alone in how I feel? Is a cheating spouse definite cause for divorce. Does it depend on the situation.
Don't flame my opinion. I just am curious as to others thoughts.