Our sex life part 2

Re: Our sex life part 2

• arschm02 member

  January 2014

  Ours is about the same (around 1x per week). DH and my schedules are so opposite that we never had sex a lot to begin with. I'm. Morning sex person and he's a night sex person. Either way, I'm saying we have it enough considering #2 is on the way. @melandjames14 I agree with you though... No sex drive here either... (Besides a racy dream I had a couple nights ago).

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• ClandestineX member

  January 2014

  melandjames14 said:

  Ours is less because: A) MH is now gone weeks at a time for work I still have zero sex drive. Poor guy.

  Hey! This exactly. My husband works for 2 weeks straight every other two weeks.

   

   

  
  

  
  

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• JSS1002 member

  January 2014

  I screwed up the last poll. We went from almost every day, pre-kids, to 1-2 times a week during pregnancy / since James...and now that I'm pregnant again, nada for the last two weeks (HUGELY unusual for us, hoping to solve that problem today).

     

  
  

  
  

  

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• MrsHartman7 member

  January 2014

  We went from 1-2/wk to about once a month right now.  Its totally my fault, but dealing with the PPA/D that popped up a couple months ago I have no interest whatsoever.  I need to start turning things around pronto!
  

  

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• shadysladyWed98470 member

  January 2014

  Hey @JSS1002 you solve that problem girl and solve it good!

  
  

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• JSS1002 member

  January 2014

  shadysladyWed98470 said:

  Hey @JSS1002 you solve that problem girl and solve it good!

  That's what Saturday nap times are for. ;-)

     

  
  

  
  

  

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• KrisM86 member

  January 2014

  Ours is less. Pre-babies it was usually 4-5 times a week. Now we average once a week. When we just had our DD, it was probably 3-4 times a week, but it's a lot harder to find the time/energy with 2 kids and DS still waking 1-2 times at night.

  

  
  

  

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• wendalsue member

  January 2014

  I voted SS because we've only had sex once since LO was born. There are a lot of reasons for that but I really wish we could work on it. Sometimes I really worry that our marriage is unfixable. I hope not.

  
  

  
  

   

  
  

  
  

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• JBDamonM member

  January 2014

  I said this on the other poll- but I'll say it again. My sex life sucks post baby. I am also trying to work on this because I think it's important but I totally blame the f-Ed up hormones and then the lack of sleep over the past 9.5 months

  
  

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• Debbie0580 member

  January 2014

  Pre baby it was 3 or more. Post baby it's 1-3/week. Every 2-3 days is our "norm" anything more frequent than that DH is excited about "back to back"...days. Not in the same day/night.

  

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• Aisak member

  January 2014

  Geez. I think two or three times since DD was born. I had a third degree tear so we waited for a couple months. I feel bad for the guy as we were also not allowed to have sex for the last several months of my pregnancy (low lying placenta). However I haven't had a proper sleep in about a year and he gets to sttn all the time. Soon enough he'll be complaining that I'm making him perform in demand when we ttc #2, haha b

  
  
  

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• Mommymorticia member

  January 2014

  It's strange because during pregnancy I think we had more sex than ever before, I wanted it all of the time. Now I don't have much desire. Maybe 2 or 3 times a month. 

                              

  
  

  

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• suedell member

  January 2014

  jthree said:

  We have 5 times since she was born I think. And not at all while I was pregnant. We were 1-2x a week before though. But while I was pregnant I had some bleeding issues at the beginning and we had a hard time getting pregnant so we wanted to be extra careful... Then when I got bigger he was kind of freaked out about the belly. As for after, like @andertrr said it doesn't feel dysfunctional. Our marriage is as strong as ever. I know my lack of interest is probably due to nursing, and our schedules are crazy. We communicate about it a lot and make sure that each of us are ok with things, and we are intimate in other ways. I have no doubt that it will come back also, and I'm not really worried about it.

  Very similar situation here.
  

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  January 2014

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