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Our sex life part 1

shadysladyWed98470shadysladyWed98470 member
edited January 2014 in April 2013 Moms
So this is a time I wish I could put two polls in the same thread, so if there's a way I don't know how. I definitely feel as a FTM that our sex life has taken a back seat to everything baby. And I knew it would. I'm just curious as to how your sex life has changed as well. So take the second poll after this one. Before we had the baby, we were having sex.....(and by sex I mean intercourse! Playing around doesn't count! Hehe)
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Our sex life part 1 129 votes

3 or more times per week
14% 19 votes
1-2 times per week
44% 58 votes
Once every 2weeks
17% 23 votes
Once a month
13% 17 votes
Once every couple months
2% 3 votes
Once every 6 months
2% 3 votes
Other / SS
4% 6 votes
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    Um,except the past two weeks... slowed down since BFP.
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    Apparently I should have coffee before doing this. I answered wrong.  I put 1-2, but I read it as since kids... we were almost daily before kids. 
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  • pinottoparenthoodpinottoparenthood member
    JSS1002 said:
    Apparently I should have coffee before doing this. I answered wrong.  I put 1-2, but I read it as since kids... we were almost daily before kids. 
    I did the same thing! We have gone from 1-2 times a week to 1-2 times a month. I feel bad.
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  • sunflower92sunflower92 member
    oops, i also read it wrong!
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    pinottoparenthood said:
    JSS1002 said:
    Apparently I should have coffee before doing this. I answered wrong.  I put 1-2, but I read it as since kids... we were almost daily before kids. 
    I did the same thing! We have gone from 1-2 times a week to 1-2 times a month. I feel bad.
    Pinot, my drive did not come back until I stopped BF'ing -- honestly, it was too painful for me until I stopped. And then I went back to normal...and now that I'm KU'd again, no interest. ;-)
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  • JBDamonMJBDamonM member
    Shit - I also read it wrong. My sex drive sucks post baby. I'm not sure when it is going to come back full speed, but I totally blame the lack of sleep...pre baby we were 1-3 times a week, now we are 1-3 times a month :( I'm working on this though.....I don't want our sex life to suck - I think it's important.


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  • ClandestineXClandestineX member
    Before we moved to MIL's house it was 2+ times a day, every day.

    After moving into MIL's it was 4 times a week.
     
     
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  • bumpuser5078523bumpuser5078523 member
    We were and still are 2-3 times a week. But it's only on the weekend, usually. Nothing changed before baby, after and during.

    He tried joking that I wasn't going to get any while I was pregnant. I told him he wouldn't enjoy a bitchy wife that hasn't been laid for almost a year. ;)
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  • superTootssuperToots member
    ClandestineX said:

    Before we moved to MIL's house it was 2+ times a day, every day.


    After moving into MIL's it was 4 times a week.
    Damn!!

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  • pinottoparenthoodpinottoparenthood member
    @jss1002 That makes me feel a little better since I'm still nursing! I hope I get back to normal... I have to basically force myself to do it a couple times a month just because I feel like it's the right thing to do, but it's definitely uncomfortable!
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  • Debbie0580Debbie0580 member
    ClandestineX said:

    Before we moved to MIL's house it was 2+ times a day, every day.


    After moving into MIL's it was 4 times a week.
    Holy shit that's a lot of sex. Good for you.
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  • ClandestineXClandestineX member
    Lol thanks, it's probably why I'm burnt out. I can honestly see why some people just don't have sex now. I can also see why my husband acts like he is starved of attention. 
     
     
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  • JSS1002JSS1002 member
    Debbie0580 said:
    Before we moved to MIL's house it was 2+ times a day, every day.

    After moving into MIL's it was 4 times a week.
    Holy shit that's a lot of sex. Good for you.
    I am exhausted just thinking about that.
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  • Jomama71291Jomama71291 member
    I wish I had that much sex!!
    We're at once every couple weeks, to once a week. 
    We had a pretty decent sex life, but now that i'm getting so big it's getting difficult to be comfortable, and feel sexy. =/   less than 3 months to go!
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  • shadysladyWed98470shadysladyWed98470 member
    Wow good for you for having that much sex while pregnant! I think you are looking for the April 14 board! But kudos! Have all the sex you want and sleep while you can girl.....it's all gonna change!
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