I voted SS because I'm not quite ready to have no doubts about it, but I'm climbing to that side of the fence.
This is me for sure. DH has had such an issue with the adjustment we have made for LO, that I wouldn't want to listen to him complain if we had a second. LO is probably one of the easiest babies ever and he still complains if she fusses even for a second now. Hoping he comes around soon, but that was definitely one of my decoding factors.
Re: OAD?