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JackoftheBox · January 2014

CONFESS YOUR SINS!! LOL

JackoftheBox · January 2014

I am totally going to tell my cousin that DS is sick so that I can cancel going shopping with her tomorrow. I am just not in the mood to go anymore and i know she will get butthurt if I just say that.

eyenigh · January 2014

I'm going to tell our housekeeper that I need my key back because we have a housesitter coming next weekend but really I'm just going to get the key and then fire her because she sucks. I was supposed to do this last week but got busy at work and forgot to call her while she was there.

Chapter79 · January 2014

I judge the mother that lives across the street. I honestly think she just flat out sucks as a mother. Like pretty badly. I don't typically like to judge other mothers, and I'm not judging her for petty reasons. Truly, I think she's not meant to have kids. I wouldn't be surprised if CPS came someday to their house, and deep inside I will feel super happy for this.

JackoftheBox · January 2014

Chapter79 said:

I judge the mother that lives across the street. I honestly think she just flat out sucks as a mother. Like pretty badly. I don't typically like to judge other mothers, and I'm not judging her for petty reasons. Truly, I think she's not meant to have kids. I wouldn't be surprised if CPS came someday to their house, and deep inside I will feel super happy for this.

I was the same way with my sister in law. But then CPS did come and take her kids and they live with other family. It all worked out.

JackoftheBox · January 2014

OH another. DH has been wanting some nookie. I haven't been in the mood. Last night i told him i was going to bed early b/c i didn't feel good. Really i just played on pinterest in bed!

Chapter79 · January 2014

JackoftheBox said:

Chapter79 said:

I judge the mother that lives across the street. I honestly think she just flat out sucks as a mother. Like pretty badly. I don't typically like to judge other mothers, and I'm not judging her for petty reasons. Truly, I think she's not meant to have kids. I wouldn't be surprised if CPS came someday to their house, and deep inside I will feel super happy for this.

I was the same way with my sister in law. But then CPS did come and take her kids and they live with other family. It all worked out.

It's super sad when this happens, but sometimes (well usually) it's for the better.
I'm so sick of the way she talks to her kids. She has a daughter my age and at the bus stop yesterday all I heard was "stop stepping on the f*ucking ice, put your mother effing feet on the concrete and stand still" and "stop yawning, if you weren't going to bed so late and whining all effing day and night, maybe you could effing sleep so you're not a crank shit all day at school" .. in front of all the other kids. I always kinda walk away, after I give her a look of hell. There's just no need. She also leaves her 2 year old in the house constantly to bring the older kid to the bus. The other week he walked out of the house and into the road. No joke! She's always fighting with the people who live below her... in the street, for us all to hear. She has even punched a lady once. And the husband is no better. They're just gross and tacky. That's just 2% of what I could tell you.

michelle615 · January 2014

@OhBenji, Good for you. Seriously, sometimes it seems like they just don't think.

Chapter79 · January 2014

OhBenji said:

Last night after dinner I went downstairs to our basement with DS. I was in the laundry room sorting laundry and he was playing and somehow lost the TV remote.
DH came downstairs and started yelling at me and saying how DS always loses stuff when he's with me and that I don't take good care of him. So basically he said I'm a bad mom. This isn't the first time he's said that and I got super hurt and pissed.
Instead of arguing with him I went upstairs locked our room and read a book. I feel super guilty about not putting DS to bed but I just couldn't deal with seeing H's face. He's been acting like a total jerk. He slept in the guest room. I went to work this morning without speaking to him.

Oh geez! I am so sorry, what a crappy thing of him to say

JackoftheBox · January 2014

Chapter79 said:

JackoftheBox said:

Chapter79 said:

I judge the mother that lives across the street. I honestly think she just flat out sucks as a mother. Like pretty badly. I don't typically like to judge other mothers, and I'm not judging her for petty reasons. Truly, I think she's not meant to have kids. I wouldn't be surprised if CPS came someday to their house, and deep inside I will feel super happy for this.

I was the same way with my sister in law. But then CPS did come and take her kids and they live with other family. It all worked out.

It's super sad when this happens, but sometimes (well usually) it's for the better.
I'm so sick of the way she talks to her kids. She has a daughter my age and at the bus stop yesterday all I heard was "stop stepping on the f*ucking ice, put your mother effing feet on the concrete and stand still" and "stop yawning, if you weren't going to bed so late and whining all effing day and night, maybe you could effing sleep so you're not a crank shit all day at school" .. in front of all the other kids. I always kinda walk away, after I give her a look of hell. There's just no need. She also leaves her 2 year old in the house constantly to bring the older kid to the bus. The other week he walked out of the house and into the road. No joke! She's always fighting with the people who live below her... in the street, for us all to hear. She has even punched a lady once. And the husband is no better. They're just gross and tacky. That's just 2% of what I could tell you.

That's horrible. I would say something to her about speaking that way in front of my child!

JackoftheBox · January 2014

OhBenji said:

Last night after dinner I went downstairs to our basement with DS. I was in the laundry room sorting laundry and he was playing and somehow lost the TV remote.
DH came downstairs and started yelling at me and saying how DS always loses stuff when he's with me and that I don't take good care of him. So basically he said I'm a bad mom. This isn't the first time he's said that and I got super hurt and pissed.
Instead of arguing with him I went upstairs locked our room and read a book. I feel super guilty about not putting DS to bed but I just couldn't deal with seeing H's face. He's been acting like a total jerk. He slept in the guest room. I went to work this morning without speaking to him.

I'm sorry this happened. Maybe your DH is just stressed about something your unaware of. You should talk to him about how the things he says can be hurtful.

BTW you are in no way a terrible mom (from what I know). Hell I lose the remote all the time! I don't blame you for what you did. I would have done the same thing.

tifdaski84 · January 2014

OhBenji said:

Last night after dinner I went downstairs to our basement with DS. I was in the laundry room sorting laundry and he was playing and somehow lost the TV remote.
DH came downstairs and started yelling at me and saying how DS always loses stuff when he's with me and that I don't take good care of him. So basically he said I'm a bad mom. This isn't the first time he's said that and I got super hurt and pissed.
Instead of arguing with him I went upstairs locked our room and read a book. I feel super guilty about not putting DS to bed but I just couldn't deal with seeing H's face. He's been acting like a total jerk. He slept in the guest room. I went to work this morning without speaking to him.

If your kid losing the remote makes you a bad mom, add me to the list. Sheesh. What a nasty thing for him to say. I agree with PP that he may be stressed about something and you got the backlash of it. Are you going to talk to him about what he said? You really should. Even if he doesn't apologize, at least you spoke up.

I don't really have anything to confess. Even though I knew it would make me late for work, I hit up the Second Cup drive-thru this morning. Mmmm, white hot chocolate.

JackoftheBox · January 2014

OhBenji said:

There's so much OaD talk in FFFC thread in Parenting!

I saw that! lol I am just going to lurk over there from now on. I think i fit in more here.

tifdaski84 · January 2014

Thought of another one - a girl at work announced that she's pregnant the other day and my first thought was one of sympathy. Of course, I didn't say that to her. I congratulated her and asked about due date, etc, etc, like a normal person but I couldn't help but feel a little bad for what she's in store for. I guess this is just another reason to be OAD.

JackoftheBox · January 2014

I never feel sorry for anyone. It's their choice, and I wouldn't want them to feel sorry for me for only having 1 child.

tifdaski84 · January 2014

OhBenji said:

Possum2011 said:

Thought of another one - a girl at work announced that she's pregnant the other day and my first thought was one of sympathy. Of course, I didn't say that to her. I congratulated her and asked about due date, etc, etc, like a normal person but I couldn't help but feel a little bad for what she's in store for. I guess this is just another reason to be OAD.

I feel like this as well. One of my FB just announced that she's expecting her 2nd child, her son is only 15 months.
I liked her post but I cant help but feel sorry for her.

I'm glad I'm not alone

tifdaski84 · January 2014

JackoftheBox said:

I never feel sorry for anyone. It's their choice, and I wouldn't want them to feel sorry for me for only having 1 child.

Which is why I'd never say anything to anybody. It's just by gut reaction because babies are hard and turn things WAY upside down. Or, that's how it was for me anyway.

JackoftheBox · January 2014

Possum2011 said:

JackoftheBox said:

I never feel sorry for anyone. It's their choice, and I wouldn't want them to feel sorry for me for only having 1 child.

Which is why I'd never say anything to anybody. It's just by gut reaction because babies are hard and turn things WAY upside down. Or, that's how it was for me anyway.

This is totally true. Feel free to let it out here! LOL

JackoftheBox · January 2014

YellowWallpaper12 said:

The only people I've really felt sorry for was a couple my husband knows who had three kids in the same calendar year. One kid followed by twins around 10 months later. That is a big adjustment in a short period of time!

OMG I might die. Seriously.

eyenigh · January 2014

Possum2011 said:

OhBenji said:

Possum2011 said:

Thought of another one - a girl at work announced that she's pregnant the other day and my first thought was one of sympathy. Of course, I didn't say that to her. I congratulated her and asked about due date, etc, etc, like a normal person but I couldn't help but feel a little bad for what she's in store for. I guess this is just another reason to be OAD.

I feel like this as well. One of my FB just announced that she's expecting her 2nd child, her son is only 15 months.
I liked her post but I cant help but feel sorry for her.

I'm glad I'm not alone

You're so not alone. Most people know how terrible my pregnancy was and combined with my inability to stifle anything that pops into my head, I've openly grimaced and even told one girl at work "Yuck, gross. I'm so sorry."

tifdaski84 · January 2014

YellowWallpaper12 said:

The only people I've really felt sorry for was a couple my husband knows who had three kids in the same calendar year. One kid followed by twins around 10 months later. That is a big adjustment in a short period of time!

OMG, that's tough! How old are the kids now? I hope she made/makes it out of the baby/toddler stages with her wits still intact.

PB102012 · January 2014

My DH is leaving for five days beginning next Thursday, and I cannot wait.

Tink112011 · January 2014

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

Possum2011 said:

Thought of another one - a girl at work announced that she's pregnant the other day and my first thought was one of sympathy. Of course, I didn't say that to her. I congratulated her and asked about due date, etc, etc, like a normal person but I couldn't help but feel a little bad for what she's in store for. I guess this is just another reason to be OAD.

OMG. Me, too. I don't feel excited for people, I feel a sick sense of "just wait till you're up for the third time overnight and haven't showered in three days...muahahaha..."

I don't feel bad for expecting moms, but I do laugh inside at their naivety. FTMs really have no idea what's in store for them. I sailed through 9 months of pregnancy eagerly awaiting my little bundle of joy. My little bundle of never sleeping joy....

Tink112011 · January 2014

I'm so glad that I met DH in college and never had to do the "dating" thing. As my friends are just inches away from 30, the single ones are getting a little crazy. I watch how obsessive and oddly awkward it can be, and I think to myself "I'm so glad I married young"

JackoftheBox · January 2014

Tink112011 said:

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

Possum2011 said:

Thought of another one - a girl at work announced that she's pregnant the other day and my first thought was one of sympathy. Of course, I didn't say that to her. I congratulated her and asked about due date, etc, etc, like a normal person but I couldn't help but feel a little bad for what she's in store for. I guess this is just another reason to be OAD.

OMG. Me, too. I don't feel excited for people, I feel a sick sense of "just wait till you're up for the third time overnight and haven't showered in three days...muahahaha..."

I don't feel bad for expecting moms, but I do laugh inside at their naivety. FTMs really have no idea what's in store for them. I sailed through 9 months of pregnancy eagerly awaiting my little bundle of joy. My little bundle of never sleeping joy....

OMG this is so true, and I myself was a victim! There are so many things I would have changed and done differently. Like changing pad covers. You know the fluffy ones. I insisted I needed several. Mostly b/c I just knew DS would NEED them. After 3 blow outs and a pee a palusa all in one day I threw them all out. NO ONE HAS THAT MUCH TIME TO DO LAUNDRY!

JackoftheBox · January 2014

OR to add on the the last comment. Whenever DS would nap i would clean the house, cook, and do laundry bills whatever. I never slept or showered b/c I felt so guilty like I wouldn't be living up to my wifely motherly duties. You know what that got me? Prolonged bleeding and pain and PPD. I would take all of the naps if i had another (when they were napping of course).

PB102012 · January 2014

YellowWallpaper12 said:
The only people I've really felt sorry for was a couple my husband knows who had three kids in the same calendar year. One kid followed by twins around 10 months later. That is a big adjustment in a short period of time!

I am exhausted just reading that!!! Yikes!

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