My husband and I both grew up as only children. Originally we both weren't thinking that we would have a baby, unless there was a surprise. Then later in life (36 yrs) I finally started getting the feeling that we should try and husband also felt the same way. We were blessed with a beautiful baby girl and I LOVE being a mom!! I wish I could kick old me for waiting so long. Now that she is 6 months (and I'm 37) we are deciding if we should have another baby. It's funny to go from thinking I would never have kids to potentially having 2! My husband and I both work and I think we have a flow down for our morning, evenings and weekends with our DD. It just seems from the outside looking in that having 2 (or more) is game changing. That there is a LOT more to it than just managing the needs of one LO.
So I wanting to hear from you, what was it like going from 1 to 2. Was it harder/easier than you expected? Any tips or things you realized along the way? I know that you can't prepare for everything, but I just want to be realistic about this decision that it may be a bigger change than just having our first child, if that makes sense. Thanks!
Re: Deciding on trying for 2nd
Thanks for sharing that! My DD is how you described your DS (sleeping issues), which I guess has me expecting that again or worse. I guess I didn't consider that it could go the other way and our next baby turns out to be a great sleeper. And I also need to keep remembering that as they get older they would have each other like you said. That would be so cute to see!!
PRs:
5K 19:50 (8/10)
4M 26:16 (11/10)
5M 34:34 (7/10)
10K 43:21 (11/10)
7M 54:27 (7/11)
12K 54:01 (5/11)
15K 1:08:03 (6/10)
HM 1:35:26 (9/10)
FM 3:24:14 (10/10)