January 2014 Moms

This is going to be a looong week

peanutmusepeanutmuse member
edited January 2014 in January 2014 Moms
As you probably know (because my lovely LB @mrsjenni has been so fantastic), induction started for me in the evening on 1/13.

TL;dr version: I don't think I'm dilating, it looks like I might officially have pre-e now, and my regular doctor is on call for the most week and said that if I need a c-section, to tell the OB dept here that she is doing it.

Here's my overview of everything so far:
- 1/13: it became clear my hypertension was not being controlled well. The attending MFM at the hospital made the decision that induction should begin. I was given Cervidil. A few hours later, I had a mini hypertensive crisis -- BP shot up to 165/121 (not the worst it has been, but pretty bad for being given a dose of meds approx 2 hours prior). Sudden onset nasty headache, vision blurry & doubled, and then a lovely nosebleed. They gave me a shot of hydro-something -- I was pretty out of it -- through my IV, and then it came down too fast. So that was a sleepless night. Fun times.

- 1/14: Removed cervidil, zero dilation. They tried to do a Foley balloon, but the attending could not even reach the end of my cervix. I have a very long vagina, apparently. I told them I didn't want the Foley balloon until I had least started dilating a tiny bit, so I ended up getting my way anyway. I was put on Pit from 8:30am to 5pm-ish. I started at level 2 and went up to 28. It doesn't look like it did anything but make me a horrible, emotional mess all day long.

Overnight, I was given 2 rounds of miso overnight last night. The fourth round will be coming in about 3 hours.

The overnight nurse told me that I have pre-eclampsia. It has not been confirmed by any doctors yet, but I'm going to ask about it when they do their rounds. I don't understand why they withhold info from people. It irritates the shit out of me. I just looked at my online chart, and apparently they've had the results since Monday night and never told me. WTF. It's just creatinine clearance that I can see so far, so I'm going to bring it up when they come in to discuss today's plan.

But if it is pre-e, it really doesn't change much other than the fact that a c-section will be more likely if I start to get worse. The good news is that my regular OB is on call during the day this entire week and also on Thursday night. Apparently both of her partners are out of town this week. She'll be busy, but she'll be the one making the decisions. That makes me happy. And she told me that if I need a c-section, no one is to perform it except for her. So that's good too.

Sorry for the novel. I think I'm going stir crazy. I'll update @mrsjenni if anything changes. :)

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  • Sending you all the good dilating vibes for LO! I'd like to hold off until Tuesday, so you can have all my contractions too ;)
    @jessicabcairns -- yeah.....unless your contractions are dilating you, I don't need your contractions, ha. I've been having plenty of my own for the past 12 weeks. They can't believe that the intensity of my contractions is not dilating me at all. I'm an anomaly. Maybe my body is just too used to them.
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  • Sorry about all the crap you've been going through! T&P that your LO comes safely and quickly and preferable via the vagina!
  • Sorry about all the crap you've been going through! T&P that your LO comes safely and quickly and preferable via the vagina!
    Yes, FX for the vag!! @cnwilbur1030
  • jessicabcairns said:
    Mine were dilating me on a nice steady schedule, until being in the hospital. Now, were just on a stand-still. I'm hoping it means baby will wait until Tuesday, and my MIL will have arrived.
    @jessicabcairns -- well then, I take that back. I want them! ;)
  • I feel like I am always saying the exact same thing to you, but I am so freaking sorry how difficult the last couple months of your pregnancy has been. I am sending you lots of positive vibes that you start dilating ASAP, but in case you have to go down the C/S route if you need any advice or have any questions, I am always here!

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  • Thank you, @ccip82. I have kind of resigned myself to the fact that the c/s is an inevitability. I would be lying if I said I am not feeling absolutely crushed by that. I know it's not the end of the world, I do, but I really thought I deserved at least something to go right for me in this process. (Pity party, table for 1, right?) I am worried about it because of my tolerance to the pain meds. My OB thinks I will need to be in the hospital longer than a traditional c/s would be for recovery, due to that. I think that's why she is insisting that only she do it if it becomes necessary.
  • I hope for a safe (& speedy) delivery no matter if it is a c/s or vaginal. But I hope your body gets with the program and starts opening up your cervix!!! Good luck, peanut!
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  • Thank you, @ccip82. I have kind of resigned myself to the fact that the c/s is an inevitability. I would be lying if I said I am not feeling absolutely crushed by that. I know it's not the end of the world, I do, but I really thought I deserved at least something to go right for me in this process. (Pity party, table for 1, right?) I am worried about it because of my tolerance to the pain meds. My OB thinks I will need to be in the hospital longer than a traditional c/s would be for recovery, due to that. I think that's why she is insisting that only she do it if it becomes necessary.
    :(  I just want to give you a big hug. I know a C-section is not ideal and not at all what you want. I hope that if you do end up having one that it is better than you anticipate. I'll be thinking of you today.

  • Thanks for taking the time to update us @peanutmuse. I am so very sorry you are going through this. Sending positive thoughts and vibes.
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  • So sorry to read your update peanut - I had really been hoping that something would be going right for you by now.  Sending you good thoughts for lots of quick dilation or, if it needs to happen, the easiest possible recovery from a c-section known to man.  Just think - by the time you have this baby, there will be nothing you cant face. 

    I know its hard to stay positive when nothing seems to be going the way it should but if there is anything we can do to lift your spirits J14 is here. 




  • Good timing with your OB being on! Sorry about the pre-e, I don't understand why they would feel the need to withhold that information either. Here's hoping you start to dialate!
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  • Sending lots of positive thoughts and dialation vibes your way! I hope things turn around and you are able to welcome Brennon into the world on your terms. We're all pulling for you!


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  • Oh, Peanut, I'm sorry. I was thinking about you around 2:30 this morning. I was really hopeing that something was actually going right for you and that LO would be here already. Keep your head up and give those Dr's what for. I can't believe they would keep your own results from you. If it keeps up I would be talking to the head of the department and sending a letter. Sending some more good cervix vibes and ((hugs)).
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  • I was thinking of you this morning and I'm so glad you updated!  I can't believe, after such a rough pregnancy, that you can't even get an "easy" birth!  This has to be the longest labor ever and I feel terrible for you!  I wouldn't blame you if you called your OB right now and asked for the c/s... you poor thing!

    Hang in there mama, you're doing so great.  Has your DH been there the whole time with you?  This has to be so hard on both of you!
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  • I am thinking of you!  Tons of positive vibes coming your way!

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  • Hoping for the labor gods to suddenly start shining down on you very soon! Good luck and sorry you've had such a hell-ish time. Hang in there and I'm rooting for ya. 
  • Wishing you the best. Hope things start kicking into gear.

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  • I'm appalled by the quality of healthcare you have received throughout your pregnancy. I'm so sorry. I always get a sick pit in my stomach when healthcare causes more harm than good. I know you're a smart woman and it's not the case for you, but I feel like it forever ruins people's perception and trust of healthcare and healthcare providers. You should never have to question their decisions or question if information is being withheld.

    Stay strong!! I hope you're getting some kind of rest throughout all of this.
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    I'm so sorry that all the crap you are going through hasn't stopped and just keeps getting crappier. I seriously am having a hard time grasping why the doctors have not done a satisfactory job taking care of you, at least some of the time. I'm sending you and your cervix good dilating vibes and hoping for the best (i.e. you get out of there without that c/s you are resigned to, and you have the most easy birth story starting like now). 

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  • I am so sorry you are having such a terrible time. Like pp have said, after such a tough pregnancy, it seems you should have gotten an easy labor and delivery. Sending you thoughts and prayers that things turn around for you quickly.
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  • ugh wow! this is looking like a really long week! I hope today brings more progress and better communication between you and the medical team.  Come on baby Muse!
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  • Here's to hoping and wishing spontaneously your vag decides to dialate soon and a c section won't be required.
    I'm sorry that even after the last several months of pain and problems you don't get an "easy" delivery.
    Hoping Mr. Muse is being supportive and greatful though that your regular OB is around frequently enough to be there to deliver this LO!
    Thinking of you @peanutmuse
  • @peanutmuse, I really hope *something* starts going smoothly for you. You've dealt with so much this pregnancy. I completely understand why the thought of a c-section is crushing. Intellectually, I knew it was the only safe way to deliver my daughter, but I still cried a few times over it because it wasn't what I'd imagined. I hope it doesn't come to that and your cervix gets its act together!

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  • What a horrible situation on top of everything else you've been through in the last few months. I hope that your body gets with the program and you're able to have a vaginal birth. I think it's really hard to accept change when things don't go the way we want with a pregnancy and baby, because it's easy to take the stance that somehow our body failed us and our baby. However your baby boy arrives means that you're able to hold him in your arms, love him, and be an amazing mom.
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  • @mrsjenni & others -- Mr. Muse has been here the whole time except for two quick trips home.

    @wilburbud - When I was talking about the misoprostol, that is actually the same thing as Cytotec. Cytotec is just a brand name, if I remember correctly.

    So yeah, I've now had one 12 hour cervidil insert, ~9 hours of pitocin which reached a dosage of 28 for 2.5 hrs, 3 rounds of misoprostol/Cytotec (the 4th one was cancelled)... and still had zero effacement or dilation. I am now on round 2 of the 12-hour cervidil insert.
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    My BFF had a similar experience with her induction. Went in on a Wed, finally had baby in the wee hours of Sat morning after several rounds of Cervadil, I think some pitocin, and maybe other meds. The on call OB gave her a hard time and pushed a section but she eventually did manage to have a vaginal birth once her Fort Knox cervix gave in! I don't think she made any progress until the Friday either.

    A c section with your own doctor isn't terrible either though,
    IMHO. If it does come to that. It definitely gave me peace of mind during my emergency c section with DS to know it was my OB, whom I trusted.

    I hope you get to hold your baby soon either way! Seems like it's been a rough go for you.

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  • Still thinking of you @peanutmuse. I hope this stressful disaster starts moving, in one direction or the other :(
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  • I'm glad to hear your OB is on call this week and you can trust them to only do csection if absolutely necessary. Continued best wishes!!
  • Thinking of you @peanutmuse! I hope "Fort Knox" decides to open for business after this round of cervadil!
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  • Sending big hugs.  That's so frustrating.  I'm hoping you've seen more progress since yesterday.

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