DS is 49 weeks 1 day and since the advice we're seeking is looking ahead to 1 year I thought this might be the place to post. DS LOVES his solid meals. His diet consists of primarily fruits and veggies, with some meat proteins, fish, beans, and cheeses thrown in as well. We do not serve many carbs as we ourselves don't eat many, but he will occasionally have pasta, bread, or rice (especially while dining out as they are neater options and he exclusively wants to feed himself).
1. That established, how much is too much food? He eats A LOT! This morning for breakfast, for example, he had a whole banana, a whole kiwi fruit, and an organic cheddar cheese stick. The dr keeps insisting he will stop when he is done, but he rarely stops. Basically our rule of them has been we will put food on his toddler size plate (full, but not PACKED) and he can have up to that much, but we don't offer him more when he's done with it. He seems to eat more than most other babies I have seen and as obesity runs in my family (including myself having had struggles with weight) I just want to be sure I am not unwittingly establishing unhealthy habits.
2. On whole cows milk... I've started offering a little bit of whole cows milk here and there as a way of introducing it for the transition at one year. So far it is a no go. He will take a sip, literally spit it out and throw the cup. I keep having people tell me how important it is for brain development, so I want him to get it, but how do you get them to take it if they don't seem to like it? I tried mixing it up 75% formula and 25% WCM, but that got just as harsh a reaction.
TIA and sorry for the length!
Re: Quantity of Food & Whole Cows Milk
2. WCM isn't necessary - your child can get healthy fats from certain fish, whole milk yogurt or other foods if it turns out he doesn't like WCM. DD drinks about 8 oz of milk a day because she likes it. If she didn't I wouldn't stress about it since DH & I pretty much *hate* milk (and really wish our parents hadn't forced us to drink it as children).