Not a good way to start a Monday

Re: Not a good way to start a Monday

• aezimmerman member

  January 2014

  I am very sorry for your loss. I have only had one pregnancy which resulted in a m/c. At this point, I am not even sure how to move forward, so I have no clue what to do after multiple losses. I must admit I envy you for having at least one successful pregnancy. I would love to have one. Anywho, I would say you shouldn't make any decisions just yet. The hurt is fresh and it will color your judgment. Find a way to take care of yourself, let yourself heal, and then think about the future. Just my 2 cents.

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• gabbagal member

  January 2014

  I agree with the previous poster, you will go through so many emotions as you probably know from your first m/c and you will know if and when it feels right to try again. After my first pregnancy ended in a m/c in Jan 2013, I waited awhile to start trying again, I wasn't ready emotionally. Then when I got the next BFP last month, I told my DH that if this one didn't take I wouldn't want to try again b/c it would be too hard. When I started to m/c two weeks later, I began to rethink my previous statement, but will wait and see how I feel when the initial shock is over. Give yourself time to mourn and heal, and see how you feel later. Don't rush it, and whatever you choose will be right for you. Good luck and I hope the women here can help you feel less alone
  

  Me: 41, DH: 42, married 2009
  BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
  BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)

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• aschultz9 member

  January 2014

  I just had my 2nd mc since sept amd my 3rd overall. I do have living children. I wanted another..a lot. but cannot do this again so we won't be trying again. It is too difficult to go through. I am very sorry for your losses.

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