Monday B!tchfest

kimberlymacrae · January 2014

Let's here it. I am sure there are plenty out there.

kimberlymacrae · January 2014

I applied for this position that is two pay grades above mine. Well I got "routed" in the system (resume sent to the hiring manager) so I was stoked. Then I just saw this morning they opened the position back up for another 7 days, so people can apply. I am still routing in the system so I am still being considered but I am on pins and needles trying to explain to myself why they did that. WTF.

313Meg · January 2014

Good luck @kimberlymacrae!!

Mine is my stomach disease is acting up and I feel like crap. I just want to lay in bed. I have to act like it's not as bad as it is for DH bc work is crazy for him and his boss is a jerk. I have no family around and lo doesn't want to sleep or eat. He just wants to cry.... so do I.

Ok bitch over.

wlux · January 2014

still no sex............ sadface.

noelani42 · January 2014

Why does my husband thinks he needs a nap when he gets to sleep uninterrupted every night!!! No, I need a nap!!! Jerk! Then he acts like he's doing me this grand favor when he does take her for a bit so I can rest...ugh

Violet1372 · January 2014

@kimberlymacrae - that would stress me out! I wish you good luck & hope you get it!

My biggest bitch today is that my laundry isnt going to do itself. Wah waahh..

PrettyInPearls23 · January 2014

I placed a big order of Urban Decay stuff from Macys.com last week and it's arriving in two shipments. NBD, I work in logistics so I know things come from various warehouses/distribution centers. But whyyyyy does the shipment arriving today have 1 item in it and the other shipment arriving on FRIDAY have the other 5 items? Boo.

FWP, right?

jackdaniels13 · January 2014

whitneylux said:

still no sex............ sadface.

Same here. Tried again last night and no dice. Doctor's appointment tomorrow and I am scared shitless as to what they will tell me.

kimberlymacrae · January 2014

@sabrinakurtz: I feel ya sister. Sleep is a tough subject. We both pretty much sleep through the night but on Saturdays I get to sleep in and on Sundays he gets to sleep in.

Saturday: 6:30a "Hun will your watch LO, I have to use the bathroom (for 30 min.s) the bottle is warming, do you want a coffee?" Sounds nice, but no I do not want a coffee. I want to sleep. I don't want to get out of bed and shuffle to the kitchen to get LO's bottle, feed him, play with him, change his diaper for 30 min. I get to sleep in. He finishes his business and I go out to the living room to put LO in the swing and return to sleeping. THEN... THEN!!! He barges in at 9:00a singing and cheerful and goes "hun it's like 10:00, you need to get up!" what. the. hell.

Sunday: I pick LO up when he starts to fuss at 6:30a, close the door behind me. I feed him, change him, play with him, put him down for his 9:00a nap, poop on my own, make myself food (he claims I need to watch LO while he makes breakfast) etc. DH wakes up (on his own) joyful at 9:30a and balks at me when I ask to go lay down for 30 min.s??? WTF?

Last night I broke, I finally told him I needed a "real sleep in" or his parents need to come down (they take LO in the morning)

Whoooooo /vent.

noelani42 · January 2014

@kimberlymacrae men can be so dense :P

renee6465 · January 2014

Thank you for this thread. And these are all just me complaining about mostly stupid things but still.

I missed all the fun last night on TB.

Work has been stupid busy today so I haven't got to catch up on TB, my yahoo stories, or check all the apps on my phone.

DH grandma who watches LO is now unable to because his grandfather has fallen ill and is in the hospital. Now we are frantically trying to find a replacement. I'm in no way bitching about the whole situation, it is not any thing that can be helped by anyone and I am sad his grandpa is sick. I just hate that I feel we a rushing to find someone else. Which is probably our own fault for not having a backup.

I woke up about eight times last night and they were not all because LO woke me up. Talk about annoying.

I haven't gotten to eat lunch yet and it's 2:00. I'm about to waste away to nothing.

Pity Party over.

renee6465 · January 2014

@kimberlymacrae you just let your work know if they need any references, they can just log onto the bump and we will let them know how awesome you are.

You poor thing @whitneylux obvs your DH has forgotten what he's missing!

wlux · January 2014

@renee6465 : It's almost a joke between us now.... He can't stay awake long enough to finish a meal these days.

le sigh.

VitaLuna · January 2014

My supply has been crap since last week, and my freezer stash is almost gone. And I will probably have to work on a different unit this week, which means I won't be able to pump as much as I need to. I'm not a happy camper.

blondii428 · January 2014

Oh man it has definitely felt like a Monday! I spent my morning pump session crying my eyes out haha.

1. I took longer than normal to get ready because I was trying to get my hair to do something that it didn't want to do, so I ended up bolting around the house in order to get everything together and make it to work on time.

2. Realized that I left my badge/keys on my desk Friday but only the keys were still there the badge is missing. That meant I couldn't get into the 12th floor to pump! I asked a co-worker to use her badge but hers wasn't authorized (guess admin has to set up floor access per badge). The admin is out of the office today so I was totally SOL. Luckily I found the other girl that uses the pump room and was able to borrow her badge.

3. My micro-manager is being extra finicky today. First he didn't like that I didn't show on my timecard from last week that I came in late on Monday and made up for it with a short lunch. Then when I entered it, he didn't like that I only took a 10 min lunch when we are required to take 30. And he didn't like that he came by my desk last week at 4:15 and I had already left (5 freaking minutes early!!) and that I didn't log that on my timesheet. THEN he didn't like that even though he has me scheduled to stay late on Thursday because he thinks we will be busy, I may not make it because I may have jury duty.

AHHHHHHH. Oh and in my haste this morning I forgot most of my lunch in the fridge so I'm starving. Ready to go home and snuggle with LO!

PrettyInPearls23 · January 2014

I have a "friend" on FB who posted a picture of Twizzlers and a Red Bull with the caption "Breakfast of Champions!" In the comments she said that she has this at least once a day. I know it's unhealthy but the bitch has the best body ever and she can still eat this crap! I'm jealous.

kimberlymacrae · January 2014

@blondi428: Forgetting your badge puts a jinx on the rest of your day. I work for DOE and we have to have badges to get into our building. THe worst is when I get into the parking lot and notice I forgot it. I used to have DH meet me half way with the badge but now with LO it's all me. OR you have to get a stinking visitor's badge and then you basically can't leave the building because to get back in you have to call someone you know to let you in... each. time. GUH worst. Today I was only 2 blocks away when I noticed I forgot mine.

ocnfish4 · January 2014

sabrinakurtz said:
Why does my husband thinks he needs a nap when he gets to sleep uninterrupted every night!!! No, I need a nap!!! Jerk! Then he acts like he's doing me this grand favor when he does take her for a bit so I can rest...ugh

I could post this same thing! He thinks that keeping DS on Saturday morning when I work means he took care of him for the week and now it's my turn. Wtf, DH?

GermanShredders · January 2014

I just spent 2 hours and 48 mins on hold with Blue Cross to get our insurance reinstated after f'ing Obamacare jacked our premium up and a computer glitch was not taking the proper payment each month. I got the warning notice we were about to be cancelled two days AFTER they cancelled us.

munchkinsmama · January 2014

I finally made up a new bump screen name (my old knot one had personal info, I never posted with it) and was excited to finally give an intro only to find the crazy @kirstenviola intro... not cool (but crazy entertaining). I have been lurking for about a month and love this board!!!! You ladies make horrible days better and give great advice, I wish I would have checked it out earlier during my pregnancy. So I guess I'm bitching because the bump made me wait 3 days before I could post and I feel like crazy town jacked up my first day of posting on the bump. Also DS has decided that he wants to poop every morning right after I dress him for the day, even though I keep switching the time.

kimberlymacrae · January 2014

@munchkinsmama: Welcome!

redfallon · January 2014

Emily's nickname today is "won't nap for shit".

Violet1372 · January 2014

I have something to bitch about:

Yesterday we took Sophie to the Shedd aquarium. We over all had a nice time. But I did not realize how rude other mother's were. We all had to go to the restroom so I figure hey while we are at the bathroom might as well change Soph. Well there was a line ( NBD there was only one changing table so I did not mind waiting) We were patiently waiting for th 2 people ahead of us to use the station. Then when it was finally our turn this stupid bitch walked out of the adult stalls right in front of us to put I kid you not like her 5 year old child on there. I was LIVID I felt my face turning bright red and decided the best thing to do was just walk away and change her in her stroller. I WAS SOOOO PISSED. how do you not have the common decently to look and see there is a line to use the SINGLE changing station.
Also people are such assholes when you are pushing a stroller in a public place. next time I am literally running into them if they cut me off.

mrsmoxie · January 2014

On the FFC thread last Friday, I said that my MIL messaged my husband asking why I hate her, and asking him to confront me about it. He stood up for me, and that was the end of that, or so I thought. Sunday, his sister called me a stuck up bitch. Because she was complaining about her teenage son, and my husband stood up for him. He loves his nephews. I have no idea why she brought me up? We live 5 hours away from them.

I always had a feeling his family never liked me, but now it's confirmed. And honestly I think it's because I "took their little boy away from them." When in reality we moved so far away for his college education. In fact, I encourage my husband to talk to his family more, he just doesn't want to. I guess it's easier to blame me.

My husband even sent this text to his mom "My wife doesn't have anger problems, drinking problems, and has never started a meth lab, but she's the one who is under scrutiny?" (All those traits are what my SILs boyfriends have done)

Anyway, my bitch about it is, I really want to stoop to their level and give them a peace of my mind. Really, really badly. I'm hoping that if I write about it here, that'll help.

Edited for grammar

sunshine2929 · January 2014

sabrinakurtz said:
Why does my husband thinks he needs a nap when he gets to sleep uninterrupted every night!!! No, I need a nap!!! Jerk! Then he acts like he's doing me this grand favor when he does take her for a bit so I can rest...ugh

Omg my SO is a serious napper too... drives me crazy.

hmlynch84 · January 2014

whitneylux said:
still no sex............ sadface.

Me either. I have an appointment on Wednesday with my doc.

llybeck · January 2014

My antidepressants are causing sex to do absolutely nothing for me. Nothing. At all. And I used to have an incredibly high drive and it was always amazing. Now my fiance thinks he doesn't even turn me on anymore, this sucks for everyone.

VitaLuna · January 2014

@blondii428: I hear you on forgetting the badge. I haven't yet, but my work just put in a no replacement policy. So now, instead of issuing you a temporary ID for the day, you have to drive home and get it. If I ever left mine, that would mean driving 90 miles before even starting work for the day. Lame.

HBirdie · January 2014

My kid has been refusing the boob (read: punching me) at our normal eating times, and then screaming bloody murder five or ten minutes later until I give it to him. I mean, really? You were somehow stuffed only moments ago and couldn't possibly eat any more, and now you're starving? Come on kid.

bermybabe68 · January 2014

DD has cut her first two teeth. I mostly nurse her to sleep for naps, bed time and during the night. Because of this I get bitten every friggen time! It's like needles being stuck into my nipples. Even worse in the middle of the night when I'm groggy ... what a way to wake up. Also I can't jump and startle her otherwise she wakes her and I have to start all over again. I hate it but I don't want to stop nursing.

imakeeff0rts · January 2014

DH starts the last part of his training on Wednesday. It goes until July. It's going to be me, myself, and I with DS pretty much until then (with a break here and there on weekends). I'm petrified.

ocnfish4 · January 2014

This conversation just happened...

Me:This room (our laundry room where the cats sleep) is a mess. I hate this room.
DH: Maybe you should do something about that.
Me: Sure, when do you think I have time to do that?
DH: I get that. I do. But you have to figure out a way to keep him and run a household too.
Me: I'm trying my damnedest.
DH: You can't just let the house go to hell.

He expects me to be supermom, superwife, housekeeper, cook, etc. And he plays his videogames. When he does the dishes, he makes it seem as though he's cleaned the whole house and needs a break. I didn't get to shower last night until midnight. I'm not sure where he thinks I can find the time to do even more. I'm barely scraping by as it is.

redfallon · January 2014

@ocnfish4 said:

This conversation just happened...

Me:This room (our laundry room where the cats sleep) is a mess. I hate this room.
DH: Maybe you should do something about that.
Me: Sure, when do you think I have time to do that?
DH: I get that. I do. But you have to figure out a way to keep him and run a household too.
Me: I'm trying my damnedest.
DH: You can't just let the house go to hell.

He expects me to be supermom, superwife, housekeeper, cook, etc. And he plays his videogames. When he does the dishes, he makes it seem as though he's cleaned the whole house and needs a break. I didn't get to shower last night until midnight. I'm not sure where he thinks I can find the time to do even more. I'm barely scraping by as it is.

GermanShredders · January 2014

ocnfish4 said:
This conversation just happened...

Me:This room (our laundry room where the cats sleep) is a mess. I hate this room.
DH: Maybe you should do something about that.
Me: Sure, when do you think I have time to do that?
DH: I get that. I do. But you have to figure out a way to keep him and run a household too.
Me: I'm trying my damnedest.
DH: You can't just let the house go to hell.

He expects me to be supermom, superwife, housekeeper, cook, etc. And he plays his videogames. When he does the dishes, he makes it seem as though he's cleaned the whole house and needs a break. I didn't get to shower last night until midnight. I'm not sure where he thinks I can find the time to do even more. I'm barely scraping by as it is.

Oh heeeeell no. Homeslice needs a come to Jesus talk.

jlp0528 · January 2014

jdoud77 said:

I called DH this morning as soon as I got into the office to let him know our driveway is completely iced over and to lay salt out. I get home for lunch to find out it hasn't been done and my Durango got stuck in the driveway. I was spinning the tires for a few minutes and honked the horn but he didn't come out. After a couple minutes and finally being able to get into the garage, he opens the door. I was so pissed. I let him know why I was pissed with passion in my voie! He didn't like my passion and slammed the door on me. I salted the driveway myself. We got into an argument and I ended up storming back outside also slamming the door and finishing my lunch elsewhere.
I was also very disappointed he didn't go grocery shopping this morning like he said he was going to do and there were no groceries in the house. It's like he sat on his ass all day and did nothing. I'm running on 2-3 hours of sleep because LO doesn't want to sleep and I have to work all day. Coffee isn't cutting it and I am counting the time so I can go home so I can make an effort on ignoring my DH and cleaning house today because I know for a fact it won't be done. If I could, I would love to scream right now.
edited for spelling

@jdoud77 I was just wondering how things were with you and DH today. You've been on my mind; I hope things get better. <3interwebz hugz<3

jlp0528 · January 2014

My bitchfest--

1. Shit does not pack itself.

2. Shit will not unpack itself when we move.

3. It takes a good solid 1 -1 1/2 to get LO down and I feel like this is not normal. GAH!!

4. We paid $350 to go to Deep Creek for my cousins 30 birthday and stay at a house for the weekend last weekend but we all had the flu. F U flu.

5. Homeland won't be on again until May at least and they killed off Brody. WTAF!?

6.@kirstenviola whatever sucks at life.

7. I cannot gif mobile and I have a hard time being on the laptop with LO as she's kind of an AW.

That is all.

Nukke · January 2014

1. I hate my small apartment
2. I hate how easy it is to mess up my small apartment
3. I want to move
4. My apartment is too small
5. The rent is too damn high!

6. If my apartment were a country, it would be Singapore. 'cause that country is tiny as fuck
7. I hate bitching about how small my apartment is, but my whole life is spent in here
8. I need to GTFO of my small apartment.
8. Counting? Ain't nobody got time for that when you live in a tiny apartment!

Salemkitty13 · January 2014

DH, DS and I went to lunch with some of my ILs (MIL, SIL, Aunt, some cousins (from a different aunt) and their wives). DHs aunt organized the lunch and wanted a picture of everyone. Especially DS because he is the newest family member. She makes a big deal of this and then asks me to take the photo. Hmmm? Guess I'm not family. Oh well :-/

SoCalBrandi · January 2014

sabrinakurtz said:
Why does my husband thinks he needs a nap when he gets to sleep uninterrupted every night!!! No, I need a nap!!! Jerk! Then he acts like he's doing me this grand favor when he does take her for a bit so I can rest...ugh

This and more! I've been fighting a cold for days & it's finally taken hold. I feel like crap and when DH asks what's wrong, I say I feel like crap. He's sorry to hear that & goes up to the game room to watch TV for 2hrs while I try to care for myself & LO. Then he comes downstairs & has the nerve to ask if ill rub his head. I nicely remind him that I'm the one who's sick (& no I do t rub his head!). And for the last hour now he's been snoring so loud right next to me on the couch. Sigh. I'm sure tomorrow will bring more fun self-centered DH behavior. Vent over.

bumpuser10024844 · January 2014

@nukke - I would "love" your post a million times if I could. I have the same feelings about our house. TOO SMALL. It's like you leave two things out and everything is a mess. We don't have elbow room, and we are always bumping into each other trying to get in and out of the front door. It's maddening.

edited because the quote button didn't work

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