August 2014 Moms

Sad to go… trying to stay positive. **UPDATE**

LupeVallejoLupeVallejo member
edited January 2014 in August 2014 Moms
I had an ultrasound this morning, and although I was excited… something was telling me to be nervous/anxious more than anything.  The baby stopped growing at 7 weeks 1 day and there was no heartbeat detected.  

I am sad, and I am scared for the d&c scheduled for this evening… but trying to stay as positive as I can, so before you just say "I'm so sorry for your loss" please think of something cheerful to say.  I will likely get back on and check… I just don't want it all to be so grim.  


I really appreciate the support the group has offered for the short time I was here, and I truly hope I am the last one from the group to have to leave.

***UPDATE***

Thank you ALL so much for the kind words… The D&C went as good as one can go, and as I was recovering last night, I took the time to read everyones replies.  I am so grateful I was part of such a great group, even for a short period of time...  The replies really brightened my day.  As a token of my appreciation… I am going to have a glass of wine for EACH.ONE.OF.YOU.  (Oh and probably sushi, beef tartare, and deli meat too) :)

Have a happy and healthy 9 months… and I'll hopefully you'll be seeing me back on the bump in no time.  I'll definitely be sneaking back over here come delivery time… I can't wait to see all of your squishes.  Lots of love!
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Re: Sad to go… trying to stay positive. **UPDATE**

  • Good luck with the d&c and best of luck to you in the future. You will be missed!
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  • Good luck this evening!  I am sure we will see you back on here in a new month before too long. (Hugs)
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  • Enjoy your amazing travels! Take the time to recharge.
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  • You'll be back in no time! It was great to get to know you (: 
    If you need anything, we're here. 


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  • There are new studies that show that after a miscarriage it's not only easier to conceive, but likely that it will be a healthier pregnancy as well. I wish you all the best, I know how difficult it is to lose a very loved and wanted pregnancy.
  • Good luck and God bless! I enjoyed getting to know you!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss :( My thoughts are with you and your family
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  • Im so sorry! Try not to be too scared of the D&C, honestly I thought it was a lot better because it was over faster, and there is no physical pain at all. Sending t&p
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  • I loved seeing your pics of your daughter- she's beautiful! I hope you enjoy the trips you have coming up and you will be greatly missed!
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  • Good luck and can't wait to see you back on the BM boards again soon. I've really enjoyed reading your posts.
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  • I am truly sorry. After our loss just before Halloween I had a few friends offer to take our son off our hands so that we could grieve, but having him there to love on and hold was one of the best things I could have done. You have a beautiful daughter and sound like you're in a very happy place in your life. Cry until the tears run dry, but then squeeze your family and let them walk you forward.

    You've got too much fire to let this slow you down for long. I wish you the best of luck!
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  • Sad to see you go, but wishing you all good things moving forward!
     
    Married since 8.2.08
    DS born 8.11.14
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  • Hug your daughter tight and soak up her joyfulness! 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Many hugs to you. 
    2 kiddos and 3 precious angels 
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  • I wish you a speedy recovery.  Also, your daughter is TOO CUTE!  Give her lots of hugs.
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  • You will be missed! T&P for a speedy recovery!
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  • Best wishes to you and your family as you continue your international adventures, you will be missed around here.


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  • Good luck tonight. I'm sure you will be back before you know it. Enjoy that sweet little girl and go give her a big hug!
  • Have a blast with your family, especially that beautiful little girl, on all of your amazing adventures.  Hope to see you back on here soon!
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  • Take care and make sure your family does something to pamper you when you are feeling a lite better.
  • Seeing the picture of your daughter always made me smile. Thinking of you and wishing you all the best!! 
  • Good luck and sending prayers to you and your family
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  • So sad to see this! You will be missed! I really enjoyed reading your posts and learning a little about your life in Ecuador. Your daughter is so cute and will make a wonderful big sister very soon. Hugs!
  • You have been a supportive and lovingly snarky member of our board and I wish you all the best!
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    Me: 06/12 Dx w/ IR PCOS (rx 2000 metformin) DH: SA all clear; looking good
    06/12-10/12- Clomid/Femara + trigger + TI + P4 = 3 BFNs, hysteroscopy, polypectomy, D&C
    11/12 - 7.5 mg Femara + trigger + IUI + P4 = BFN
    12/12 - Surprise BFP ectopic (MTX 01/13)
    04/13 - Off the Bench! 7.5 mg Femara + trigger + IUI #2 + estradiol + P4 = BFN
    05/13 Clear HSG-5 mg Femara + Menopur + trigger + IUI #3 + P4 = BFP ectopic (MTX 07/03 & 07/11)
    07/23 emergency lap to remove ectopic mass and left tube
    10/13 5mg Femara + Menopur + trigger + TI(follie on left/no IUI)=BFN
    11/13 Same as above but BFP!
    Beta #1 12dpo-51     Beta #2 15dpo-178
    12/5- There's something in my ute!!
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  • Best wishes to you! Good luck.

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  • So sorry, T & P your way!

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  • Thinking of you! You are blessed to have your beautiful daughter and will be blessed again.
  • May your rainbow baby come shining very soon. Many many hugs!
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  • I will miss seeing you around. Hope things went okay this evening!
  • lckcdc3 said:
    Go hug your daughter.  She is a beautiful little girl! 
    I second this...give her extra hugs and kisses. Good luck with everything, I hope it all goes smoothly.
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  • I'm sad you are leaving... I can't help it. You are my fellow Sept 11 BMB friend! I will miss you! Praying all goes well.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Your little girl's smile is beautiful.
    Grab a glass of wine if you're into that, put a chocolate chip cookie on a plate in the microwave for 15 seconds, add a scoop of chocolate ice cream, rinse, repeat.
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  • I'm sorry you will be leaving us, you are a beautiful and bright person whose presence I have enjoyed on this board and although you're going thru this I know you have the strength to face the future and look forward to the future as well. Best wishes for you and your family!
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  • Resilience builds character and deepens loving relationships, but it does not happen instantaneously. Take a long bubble bath and give yourself permission to mourn. As your pain gradually subsides, let the experience remain in your mind. Not as a sadness, but as a solace to remind yourself of your strength and resilience in times of need. And if you become pregnant again in the next 7 months, your ass better come say hi to your August14 amigas!
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  • Lots of rainbow dust for you and know your rainbow baby will come soon.  I hope you can plan a fun day with your daughter very soon and look forward to you checking in when you are able!
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