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So sad- newbie

tiara8585tiara8585 member
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Hello everyone! So sad that we are all in this place, but happy to be around those experiencing the same thing.

The hubs and I found out we were pregnant on New Year's Eve and we were ecstatic.  Unfortunately, I started spotting two days ago and we lost the baby yesterday (5-6 weeks).  With it being so fresh on my mind, imagine me going to get some blood work done this morning and the first thing the lady asks me when I come in is if I'm there for the pregnancy class.  I nearly burst into tears right there. Luckily DH was there and held me close to him.  Then I got to see the class of about 12 expecting women walk right by.  I unfortunately couldn't hold it in anymore.  This is so hard...


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  • luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and you had to see the pregnancy class. ((Hugs))
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    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • tigerlynx31413tigerlynx31413 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm sorry you had to be in that situation in seeing the pregnancy class, but I'm glad your dh was there for support.

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

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  • IfMamaAintHappyIfMamaAintHappy member
    I'm so very sorry. Please use this board as another place of support. Without these ladies, I wouldn't have been able to do as well as I have been. MH has been so great too. I'm glad you have yours to hold you.

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    Me:  36

    DH:  42  (w/ 2 children from prior marriage)

    Us:  TTC for our 1st together since August 2013

    1st BFP:  November 2013  (m/c at 7 wks)

    2nd BFP:  February 2014  (m/c at 6 wks)

    RPL Panel started in March 2014

    3rd BFP:  May 2014 (m/c at 5 wks)

    4th BFP:  June 2014 (CP at 4 wks)

    RE appt in June 2014 (all RPL panel tests are normal...it's likely egg quality due to my age and borderline DOR)

    Baseline AFC: 8 follies

    2 IUI cycles (July and August 2014- both BFN)

    IVF #1 w/ ICSI & PGS- October 2014 (AFC: 8 follies; ER Oct 20:  5R/3M/2F;  the 2 only made it to day 3 and stopped growing before biopsy)

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    IVF #2 EPP w/ ICSI & PGS- AFC:  13 follies!   10R/6M/6F-  5 biopsied for PGS- 1 normal embryo

    FET scheduled for February 2015 delayed in order to do one more ER in hopes of getting at least 1 more normal embryo

    IVF #3 EPP w/ ICSI & PGS:  7R/5M/5F-  2 biopsied for PGS- 1 normal embryo

    FET #1 April 23, 2015:  1 PGS tested embryo transferred - BFN

    FET #2 June 30, 2015:  1 PGS tested embryo transferred- BFP!! 

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  • this+gamer+chickthis+gamer+chick member
    I'm so sorry you had to see that, and for your loss...
    MC 13w2d D&C 01/03/2014.  Miss you, my little butterfly.
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  • tiara8585tiara8585 member
    Thanks everyone! 
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  • babynicababynica member
    I'm sorry for your loss and sorry that happened. This group is great and very supportive.
    Me 31 / DH 30
    DS born 6/12/12

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    TTC #2 started Oct 2013
    BFP #1 10/30/13 - m/c 01/02/14 @ 9 wks
    TTC #2 resumed Mar 2014
    BFP #2 8/17/14 - EDD 04/26/15 - it's a girl!!

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  • anglndsguse44anglndsguse44 member
    I am very sorry for your loss. 








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  • aezimmermanaezimmerman member
    I am very sorry for your loss. When I strongly suspected I was having a miscarriage (12/26/13), I was sobbing like a fool. I walked into the ER barely able to speak. For about a week following the m/c I would cry anytime I was reminded about my pregnancy (e.g. maternity clothes I had purchased) or others' pregnancies (e.g. A Baby Story on TLC). It got better with time. Last night while hanging out with friends for the Golden Globes I told them about the m/c. They were understanding. However, anytime one of the mommies needed someone to hold their baby, I was their go to. It was rather interesting. I am happy to report that it did not make me sad. In fact, I enjoyed it. A good sign for me. I guess the moral of my story is that it is going to be hard, but it will get better.
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