So I found out I have to have surgery to remove gallstones which were pregnancy induced. Only 12% of women have this issue and I happen to be one of the lucky few...
I am having huge anxiety and no one seems to understand the fact that I have a baby to take into consideration.
The pain is getting worse by the day. My options are surgery in the 2nd trimester or surgery after the baby gets here. Here are the cons of each:
* If I have surgery during the 2nd trimester- they cannot administer pain meds until they make sure me and baby are ok- which will mean I will wake up from surgery in excruciating pain and I won't know how long until they give me meds. I've heard from a blogger that when this happened it sent her into preterm labor, which they were able to stop, but it's still scary. It may also take me longer to heal of the baby is kicking on my stomach where my laparoscopic incisions are.
* waiting until after baby gets here could risk the gallstones getting larger, resulting in more stress on me and the baby as well as pain. It could also mean my gallbladder rupturing, releasing toxins and pain into my system, causing issues for me and baby. I also cannot lift anything after surgery, so lifting my baby is a no no and it will take awhile to heal because of the lack of rest I will be getting when baby arrives.
I know my husband will be great and my mom as well- will be helpful either way. It's scary to think about surgery and my baby. The pain is bad now, but will only Get worse as the stones grow and the baby starts crowding my insides and kicking my organs.
What would you do if you were me? Tons of people say "get it out now" ...while they have had the surgery- they didn't have a growing fetus to consider.
Re: Gallbladder removal surgery
ETA: Ask your doctor what they will be doing to monitor your baby. During my surgery an OB was in the OR with the surgeon to deliver my DD if she started having problems. I realize you're not as far along as I was but I imagine they'd still do something to monitor your baby.
For what its worth, I was just released from the hospital the other day with kidney stones and they gave me pain medicine that was ok for pregnancy (I was at a women's labor & delivery hospital) and they helped immensely. They also monitored the baby the entire time and she is perfectly fine. I don't know how bad your pain is but is it something that they could monitor and manage with medication until after you deliver? I'm sorry you have to go through this & make this decision. Don't rush your decision though. Maybe see a specialist (gastroenterologist, another OB, surgeon) and get a second opinion about your options. I wish I would've done that.
I actually took less than half my pain meds and was back to work in less than a week.
It was a hard recovery but I made it! Scars are hurting a bit, from my skin stretching- but I keep palmers
Cocoa butter swivel stick on my purse and rub it on when they start hurting. They're not pretty but at least I healed fine and most importantly- our baby is OK!
Thanks everyone!
Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses....
All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!
Baby Dust To All!!!