Our baby girl has arrived

CarolinaGirl2014 · January 2014

My sweet, beautiful baby girl came into this world Wednesday morning, 1/8 at 4:01 AM weighing 7 lb 6 oz at 20 3/4 inch long 33 hours after my water breaking and going into labor. Her Mommy and Daddy were there for most of those hours and her Daddy caught her while her Mommy encouraged me. She even grasped her Mom's finger the whole time we were skin-to-skin and nursed like a champ. After that, they both got to hold her and love on her while we all napped. The following two days in the hospital were difficult, but amazing to see her Mom and Dad take care of her. It reminded me of why I made this decision when I needed it most. Friday morning I signed TPR and nursed her before we were discharged from the hospital.

My heart aches more than anything I've ever experienced and I miss her desperately, but I know with every part of my being that I made the best decision for her. Despite the pain, I feel so blessed to be her Mom and to have an important role in her life. Her Mom and Dad are adjusting to life with a newborn and sleep deprivation but madly in love. Her favorite spot is snuggled up on her Dad's shoulder.

I will see her again on Tuesday or Wednesday to take her pumped milk supply and probably once a week after when we're able to coordinate as long as I'm pumping. Thoughts and prayers are appreciated for the healing process, for my baby girl as she adjusts to life without me and transitioning from breast milk, and for her Mom and Dad in their transition as well.

pleasebeonsale · January 2014

I will definitely keep you in t&ps. You are amazing and I'm grateful to you for sharing your experience.

IRR · January 2014

@Carolinagirl, what you have done is truly a blessing and you are the reason we thought adoption would be an easier process. Its so nice to hear from BM's that really do want what is best for the baby and your love for her will always be known. I know your heart must be breaking and I am sure your DD parents are sad for you too, but through your open adoption you will get to watch her grow. Giving you a big (HUG) for the journey you have been so gracious to share with us.

maryoosa · January 2014

I will definitely send thoughts and prayers. Much love for you and be tender with yourself- you've made a super hard decision!

Dr.Loretta · January 2014

Sending lots of love to you all

bumpuser794640 · January 2014

Praying for the best for all of you. Thank you fir sharing your experiences with us!

MileHighMaam · January 2014

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

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emca · January 2014

Thank you for sharing your experience. You will be in my thoughts and I truly hope the best for you, your baby, and her adoptive parents.

adoptmommy · January 2014

Thank you for updating us & posting on here! I love to see the BM's side of adoption as it's such an emotional journey for both birth and adoptive parents. Thoughts and prayers for you as you heal from the physical part of birth and the emotional part as well!

annalisel · January 2014

You are an amazing, mature woman. Thinking good thoughts for you during this most difficult time.

msditz00 · January 2014

I hope you continue to find peace with your decision and that you will be able to maintain a relationship with the family.

JoaPata · January 2014

Praying for you and your little girl. Thank you so much for sharing with us and please know we are here to support you.

IdigDirt · January 2014

You are such a wonderful woman. I wish you nothing but the best. Thank you for including us on your journey.

daniandbri · January 2014

Sending thoughts and prayers to you all. Thank you for sharing with us.

Chele · January 2014

You are an amazing young woman! All the best to you. You have been a joy to read on this board.

MagickalNarwhal · January 2014

Chiming in late to say a huge CONGRATULATIONS on the birth of your baby girl! I'm so thrilled that you got to meet her and spend some good time with her and her other parents in the hospital. I hope that you are finding yourself surrounded with love and support as you ease into your new life and that your adjustment is as smooth as possible. I am sure you miss her so much and I'm thinking of you and of her and holding you both in my heart so much these days. xo

sugardumpling · January 2014

Thank you for sharing your story. My prayers are with you all.

CarolinaGirl2014 · January 2014

Thanks all! Your support has been amazing throughout this process and the information I've gained here has been invaluable. I look forward to continuing to follow you all in your adoption journeys.

davidandheather · January 2014

You are an amazing, selfless woman. Your little girl will always know how much she is loved by her birth mom and adoptive mom. Be kind and gentle with yourself.

lorifromwi · January 2014

As an adoptee myself, what you have just done for your baby girl is the most selfless and loving thing a mom could do. I was reunited with my BM after 32 years and while I can't understand what you are going through, I am close to someone who has. She has loved me every day of her life and she put my needs ahead of her own at the time. Perfect Grace!

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