We are going to try to have 3. I'm just not sure about the spacing. I like the age difference between my two, but that means I'd have to get pregnant next month to do that again, and I'm not ready to be pregnant again (and that would give me 3u3!). I'd like to wait until S turns 1 and then try for #3.
No, I had an emergency c with DS1 and everything about it was really scary (his initial APGAR was 3). I was hoping to have a vbac this time around, which my doctors supported 100%, but DS2 is transverse and it doesn't look like he's moving. We know that if I have 2 c sections, it will be very hard/impossible to have a vaginal delivery and we're leery of the risks of 3 sections. So, yeah, lots of emotions right now.
~ Married 10.30.04 ~ DS1 born 12.31.11 ~ DS2 born 2.4.14
DHvis hoping Momnesia kicks in and I'm back to wanting 3. We always said 2-4 and had been leaning toward 3, but right now 2 seems very good and complete so we'll see. I wasn't ready to try for #2 as quickly as I thought I would be so I guess I'm likely to change my mind.
I want 4. DH is on board for #3 but says #4 is up for debate. We are planning on TTC in August after an adult only vacation. If it weren't for vacation then I would probably start trying in May.
@bluecards- I felt that way until DS turned 5 months. I felt like if I got pregnant it would be the end if the world. Now I am just in the "I'm not quite ready but would survive" camp.
TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!! Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) #1 born December 2011
TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo #2 born May 2013
TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
#3 born August 2015 #4!!!!!!! due June 2017
I wanted 3 before I became a mother, and now I think 2 might be a good fit for our family. We'll see how we feel about it once baby girl is here. Right now we think we'll be done after 2. :-)
Re: 3 or more?
~ Married 10.30.04 ~
DS1 born 12.31.11 ~ DS2 born 2.4.14
~ Married 10.30.04 ~
DS1 born 12.31.11 ~ DS2 born 2.4.14
TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!! Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui)
#1 born December 2011
TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
#2 born May 2013
TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
#3 born August 2015
#4!!!!!!! due June 2017
IVF #1: 4-11-11= Transferred 1 beautiful blastocyst I named "Nugget"
5 Snowbabies! Beta#1 4/21= BFP! 226; Beta#2 4/25= 944
DS born 12/14/11
Baby #2 FET Nov/Dec 2013
12/13 Beta#1=BFP 349; 12/16 Beta#2=1,089. First ultrasound 12/26. DS#2 born 8/8/14
~~PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome~~
3 is up for debate. DH and I are open to it but I think we may be done at 2. Mostly because of financial reasons ( COLLEGE and retirement!).