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Diganoised with Downs, were on in our 20's complete shock.

Hey everyone, I'm a first time mom, our daughter was born on nov 18 2013,  i was faced with finding out my daughter was DS, however i had a perfect pregnancy and had no clue. Our baby girl has CAV canal defect and requires open heart surgery anywhere from3-6months age,we were finally able to take her home after spending her first month of life in the NICU. I was wondering if anyone had to go through this surgery and how long was the recovery and of course from a moms point of view I know what the drs tell us but its nice to hear from someone in our shoes.  or have someone who can relate.
Mrs.Louviere

Re: Diganoised with Downs, were on in our 20's complete shock.

  • No experience, but I hope that all goes well for you guys.  

    I have a MOMS club friend with a DD just slightly younger than DS1.  She went through the exact same situation (although, she was in her late thirties).  They had the open heart surgery around 3.5-4 months, and when I met her her DD was 9 months old and playing around with the other kids at playgroup.  
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  • No experience, but I'm praying for your family!
  • My cousin has a young baby with DS that required the same surgery your daughter will need.

    Honestly, the first 6 months for them were really difficult. She had trouble gaining weight and was kind of lethargic.

    Once she was 6 mos and had her surgery she improved tremendously. She had a great deal more energy and it was obvious she felt much better. She has healed beautifully and is almost walking on her own. They do Occupational Therapy a couple times a week and that has been very beneficial as far as helping her become somewhat mobile.

    As I recall recovery took about a month and impeded her ability to crawl since her chest was still healing. Her scar is much smaller than what I would have imagined.

    The heart repair was performed just over a year ago and she is the sweetest, most content little girl you could ever meet. She's so delightful and always smiling.

    Good luck to you. There are a lot of resources out there and I would encourage you to find a support group if you can. It's helped my cousin meet other parents that share her experiences.
  • I don't have any experience, but wanted to send my thoughts and prayers. Our sweet babies share a birthday :)
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  • No experience, but I highly recommend you check out the species needs board here. I bet someone there can help you connect with other mothers.

    https://forums.thebump.com/categories/special-needs


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  • No experience just sending thoughts and prayers I hope everything goes well!
  • No advice but sending creepy internet hugs and t&ps for your family.
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  • I second the special needs board suggestion! I'm sure you will find many wonderful mommies on there that have gone through what you are going through!
  • There were two babies born into my extended family with DS. One had heart surgery very young and one did not. Both are happy and healthy adults now. 
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