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Passing the time

I tend to shop A LOT for baby items, even though I don't quite have a baby yet. I like to snag up deals left and right and into the spare room they go! Before I knew it a nursery was formed!!  My nursery will be complete as soon as I get a high chair & changing table... Probably not good for my mental health, but oh well. lol. I figured why waste all this time? When I could be going ahead and getting ready for our next LO. I've even picked out future NAMES. Safe to say im obsessed.  :)

So for anyone else that has started their "Planned Parenthood" shopping also,

1) What all have you purchased?

2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?

3) How does S/O feel about you buying things?

4) Have you picked out your future LO's names?

5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around?

 

 

 

 

Re: Passing the time

  • 1) What all have you purchased? 

    Crib, Crib Mattress, Dresser, Stroller, car seat, Diaper genie, Bouncer, swing, Play mat, Pack n Play, Up right car seat (ya know for when the other one gets to small, lol)

     

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?

    Im buying everything in gender neutral colors, really hoping for a DS though.

     

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things?

    He is 100% supportive, We would rather get everything in advance and at a discount then wait until im actually PG and spend the pregnancy trying to get prepared.

     

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names?

    We've only picked out a DS name, and I chose Nathan, It means "God Gave" and I believe its quite fitting. Undecided on a middle name though.

     

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around?

    There are SO many new thing that have come out since DD was born, Im probably going to try all of them! lol :)

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  • 1) What all have you purchased?

      We haven't purchased anything because we still have everything left from Hunter.

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?

     Everything we bought the first go round was pretty gender neutral.  Our nursery that Hunter is in now is pretty gender neutral too-- it's an owl/woodland creature theme with greens, reds and blues-- so we shouldn't have to redecorate.  I would love love love to have a little girl, but something tells me when it's all said and done I am going to have a herd of boys.  

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? 

      If we have a girl, I am gunning for Elsie Diane.  Elsie is my grandmother's name and Diane is my husband's aunt who passed away 5 years ago. Beyond that, I really like Allison.  If it's another boy, the middle name will probably be James (after my brother) and I think I like Tyler or Trevor for a first name.  

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around?

      Apparently the miracle blanket was around when Hunter was born, but I knew nothing of it.  The next time around I am 100% getting a body pillow to support that big ole belly.  

  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    edited January 2014
    1) What all have you purchased? I don't let myself do any shopping. In fact I usually scowl as I go past the baby stuff in Target 

     2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design? Clearly we have girl stuff coming out our ears. I think "boy" colors would shock me! 

     3) How does S/O feel about you buying things?

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? We've always said Harrison for a boy after my Grandpa Harry. I really like Bailey or Hadley for a girl. 

     5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around? Those rocker bassinet things!! Where the heck were those 5.5yrs ago when DD1 was sleeping in her car seat? Def gonna get me one of those.

    Edit: Fixed the blob of words my ipad insists upon. Thank you, laptop.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • SM, this is why I am your SK because I LOVE your "Planned Parenthood" approach! It might get me in trouble but I love it!

    1) What all have you purchased? Cloth diapers, I pink sparkly heart them!

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design? I have picked pretty gender neutral diapers.

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things? He's okay with it as long as we can "afford it" wink, wink. We can always afford cloth diapers, haha!

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? Yes, well we've narrowed it down to the top two picks (and I have an extra one for a boy if DH will cave). Girl name will either be Arden Sophia or Shelby Iris.Boy name will be Mack Preston or Corban Preston unless we have twins or adopt twins then they would be Mack Everett and Corban Preston. I am working on get DH on board with Cormac Preston :-D

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around? All of them, bwahaha!

     

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    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • 1) What all have you purchased?

    Nothing.  I am in the "don't count your chickens before they're hatched" boat.  

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?

    If we have another girl I will just keep the nursery the same and move DD into the spare bedroom, making it her big girl room.  If we have a boy, I want to do the nursery in a nautical theme.  

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things?

    Like I said, I haven't bought anything but he would probably be ok with it if I did.  

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names?

    No first names picked out but I do have middle names picked out!  Joseph for a boy, it is DH's middle name as well as his father's middle name. Mary for a girl, it was my grandmas name who passed  away (we were close).

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around?

    I don't think that much has changed since DD.  I am sure there will be some new things out when we finally get PG that I will buy something.  All the big things we bought for DD were neutral so I can reuse them.  

    Married DH September 2008
    DD1 Born March 2012
    DD2 Due November 2014

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  • I won't let myself buy new but I bought mostly gender neutral items for DS and I have HOARDED EVERYTHING of his.

    I have sterilized bottles packed in ziplock bags and then packed into plastic storage containers.

    I kept ALL his clothes only throwing away stuff that was stained.

    Not only did I save it all but I took meticulous care of everything.

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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • KC1212 said:
    Not only did I save it all but I took meticulous care of everything.

    This is how I was with DD, but she's almost 7 now so I already passed every thing down to my nieces. Id be good to go if I would had saved stuff! :P
  • SM, this is why I am your SK because I LOVE your "Planned Parenthood" approach! It might get me in trouble but I love it!

    Lol, Well.. I look at it like this, Im buying this stuff at a major discount, (Im a clearance junkie) So if it doesn't work out, I can turn around and sell this junk for a much higher price and make a profit off of it. Hopefully that wont be necessary, but im not breaking the bank to stock up ykwim?  My Matching Crib & Dresser, solid wood from babies R us... (gorgeous btw) cost me 90.00 bucks! I can easily turn around and make 500-600 (If not more) off of the set. I know a lot of people think it's crazy of me to be buying things, but irdgaf, in the end Im either gonna have a baby im prepared for or one hell of an investment to cash in on! :P
  • Jen071407 said:
    Those rocker bassinet things!! Where the heck were those 5.5yrs ago when DD1 was sleeping in her car seat? Def gonna get me one of those.
    The rock n plays! I know those are so cool! :P


  • SM, this is why I am your SK because I LOVE your "Planned Parenthood" approach! It might get me in trouble but I love it!


    Lol, Well.. I look at it like this, Im buying this stuff at a major discount, (Im a clearance junkie) So if it doesn't work out, I can turn around and sell this junk for a much higher price and make a profit off of it. Hopefully that wont be necessary, but im not breaking the bank to stock up ykwim?  My Matching Crib & Dresser, solid wood from babies R us... (gorgeous btw) cost me 90.00 bucks! I can easily turn around and make 500-600 (If not more) off of the set. I know a lot of people think it's crazy of me to be buying things, but irdgaf, in the end Im either gonna have a baby im prepared for or one hell of an investment to cash in on! :P

    @+SouthernMomma+ I don't think you're crazy :) to each their own -kwim? I buy bulk pregnancy tests even though I know BFPs are not likely but take them anyway.

    I've started to hit the gym more here recently (there are zero pregnant people at the gym I've come to realize!) so it's been a haven for me lately (good for my waistline I suppose)

    I did almost buy a cute maternity top at goodwill once! Seriously was THISCLOSE :)

    I think we do whatever we can in this situation. If we have to indulge in a little bit of crazy to stay sane - so be it!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • 1) What all have you purchased? TWO big sister shirts. She grew out of the first one before she had a chance to wear it :( Recently I bought a 2 pack of pacifiers, and a 3pk of onesies  ( I blame you for that shit @southernmomma )

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design? The things I got were girl things, but I look for boy things too, I'm not really into gender neutral. People always need shit, so I will just donate what we don't need for another LO. 

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things? In general? He feels that I buy too many things. 

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? Yes, hundreds.  I'm going to put them all in a hat and pick out names by chance. I've also named @freakyfast's frosty Pentunia, and I love her. 

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around? Oh this reminds me, I got a free video monitor back when BRU was having that big sale on shit- so I shopped for DD but I got the freebies for future LOs, well actually I sent the free diaper bag to my sis.. I just kept the video monitor. 

     



    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • ( I blame you for that shit @southernmomma )

    I sowwie! :P 

     I've also named @freakyfast's frosty Pentunia, and I love her. 

    I just friggin died. lmao

     Oh this reminds me, I got a free video monitor

     Im so jealous -_-


  • My answers will be short.. 

    1) What all have you purchased?  Nothing

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?  No

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things?  He doesn't because I haven't. 

    Mrs Castillo has, as you know already.  

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around? Psh... everything will be new, since DS is 17.  



      


  • 4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? Yes, hundreds.  I'm going to put them all in a hat and pick out names by chance. I've also named @freakyfast's frosty Pentunia, and I love her. 

    Mrs Castillo is going to make a great Auntie! 



      


  • @SouthernMomma

    Your kiddo is oozing cutness in your sig pic =) 

    AFM: I havent bought not a one thing for a second LO, I have thought about it but I think that my family would think I have lost it. 

    I only have a girls name picked out for now and I am just in love with it but I have some close 2nd and 3rd choices too. 
    **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
    EDD- 06/13/2017
    **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
    TTGP's 2013 Sweetest Bumpie <3 



  • Spookster said:

    @SouthernMomma


    Your kiddo is oozing cutness in your sig pic =) 

    AFM: I havent bought not a one thing for a second LO, I have thought about it but I think that my family would think I have lost it. 

    I only have a girls name picked out for now and I am just in love with it but I have some close 2nd and 3rd choices too. 

    Awe, thank you! She's just as rotten as she is cute though lol

  • @SouthernMomma

    Your kiddo is oozing cutness in your sig pic =) 

    AFM: I havent bought not a one thing for a second LO, I have thought about it but I think that my family would think I have lost it. 

    I only have a girls name picked out for now and I am just in love with it but I have some close 2nd and 3rd choices too. 
    Awe, thank you! She's just as rotten as she is cute though lol
    Ha-Ha I FEEL your pain. Mine is three and hell on wheels somedays. Tell her not to throw something, she looks at the floor then looks at me out of the top of her head and then flings her toy. Just because I told her not too. 
    She has run aways from her teacher before and run into another class and made the whole bus late going home because they had to corral her onto the bus. 


    **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
    EDD- 06/13/2017
    **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
    TTGP's 2013 Sweetest Bumpie <3 



  • Spookster said:
    @SouthernMomma

    Your kiddo is oozing cutness in your sig pic =) 

    AFM: I havent bought not a one thing for a second LO, I have thought about it but I think that my family would think I have lost it. 

    I only have a girls name picked out for now and I am just in love with it but I have some close 2nd and 3rd choices too. 
    Awe, thank you! She's just as rotten as she is cute though lol
    Ha-Ha I FEEL your pain. Mine is three and hell on wheels somedays. Tell her not to throw something, she looks at the floor then looks at me out of the top of her head and then flings her toy. Just because I told her not too. 
    She has run aways from her teacher before and run into another class and made the whole bus late going home because they had to corral her onto the bus. 



    Lmao! She's a rebel mom! You're looking at it the wrong way, She is a leader :P Sky's just an asshole sometimes lol. I call her my sour patch kid because shes got all of her daddys charm, and all of my sarcasm! Recipe for disaster right there.
  • God bless those Rock and Plays.  Best thing ever.  I've taken three friends of mine to register and each time I'm like "zap this.  don't ask questions.  thank me later".

    You know what, I did buy Hunter a Big Brother t shirt at a consignment sale.  It's a 3T, and at the time I thought it would be too big for him to wear.  Welllll.... he'll probably be pushing into 4T over the summer.  Dammit.  
  • 1) What all have you purchased? Nothing.  I'm another one of the "not counting my chickens..." ladies

    2) Are you sticking to gender neutral colors, FX for a certain gender, or doing your own design?  If we have another boy, I'll move DS out of the nursery and will probably do a lot of DIY decoration for his new room.  If we have a girl, I will probably turn the spare bedroom into her nursery since it's already painted a girlish kind of color and I hate painting.  Again, I'll probably do some DIY decorations.

    3) How does S/O feel about you buying things? He doesn't pay attention to finances at all but I haven't bought anything anyway.

    4) Have you picked out your future LO's names? No, but I do think about it and pay attention to names I hear and like.

    5) Any new gadgets or gizmo's (baby related) that have come out since your DD/DS that you definitely want next time around?  A video monitor is one thing I wish we had invested in with DS, and I'll probably splurge on one with LO #2.  And if we have a girl, I'll probably buy some girly cloth diapers.  Nothing new though that I feel like I have to have.  

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • 1& 2- Mostly clothes, I can add tutu to the boyish outfits if girl and big sister shirts... She will probably grow out of soon... Stupid unknown

    3- Dh doesn't know, it turns into pity party for him that he has mfi and eff that- tired of hearing it when I'm trying go be positive and plan outfits over here,

    4- yes, and hubs thinks if girl we are naming after his mom- hahahahaha poor sweetie doesn't realize he only gets a few vetos and no votes... But I let him dream for sake of peace. Pm me if you want to know her name- it's awful- I'm just paranoid she'll

    5- not that I can think of, I found a few things, but they were around w dd just didn't know about them, like dragon stuffed animal attached to paci (not that dd took paci, but I got it for number two just in case)
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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    We can't wait to meet you!
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