so my last pregnancy with the twins was very different obviously because i was considered more "high-risk." i originally started to see the OB in the nearest city to me, and then had an encounter with one of the doctors (who has since retired) who basically refused me an ultrasound after i hadn't had one since 19 weeks (i was 26 weeks at the time). long story short, i demanded one and circumvented him - that's when i was admitted to the hospital because one twin's cord flow was almost absent and she also had IUGR. i was followed in boston after that point and had 1-2 ultrasounds per week up until delivery.
anyway, i'm back at my original OB's office now with this pregnancy. i like my doctor quite a bit - i was so shocked at my last appt that i really didn't ask about ultrasounds during this pregnancy. however, i had my t/v us at 6.5 weeks and now my next appt is scheduled for 1/28, however i do not believe it is an ultrasound. my question is: is it once high risk, always high risk? it's not like i want to have a u/s per week, but i'm a little leary at only having one at 6.5 weeks and then another one who knows when (12 weeks?). i'm just scared that something similar is going to happen. and i'm also concerned that if i raise any concern to my doctor he's going to say that bc i had twins, it was more high risk and this is just a regular pregnancy. any ideas or thoughts? am i just being paranoid or is this a legit thing to ask? thanks!
Re: question for former high-risk moms...
I wasn't considered high-risk for my first pregnancy and it proceeded pretty normally up until delivery. For my second, I was over 35 and then had some bleeding early on and so that moved me not into a high high risk category but not necessarily just your normal pregnancy either. My doctor is a pretty understanding guy and basically told me that he'd let me get an ultrasound every week if it would make me feel better. My suggestion would be to talk to your doctor. Yes, a twin pregnancy is different than that of a singleton but I'm assuming that having a history of IUGR, even if it was with twins, moves you into a category of needing to be more closely watched. If you doctor isn't sympathetic to what are your legitimate and not overly crazy concerns then I'd suggest finding one who is. There's a big difference between saying hey, I want more monitoring and I want to come in every week.
(although, I will say that many docs don't do a ton of ultrasounds early on simply because there's nothing they can do to help a pregnancy that early on. It's normal to have one check for viability and then have another between 10-12 weeks for maybe a nuchal screening.)
Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12
Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck. Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.
This Cluttered Life
Married: 5/09 ~ TTC Since: 10/10 ~ PCOS ~ Progesterone from 10/10 - 2/11 ~ HSG on 3/18 - Clear ~ Started Metformin 1000mg & Clomid 50mg 2/11 ~ Metformin upped to 1500mg 4/6 ~ 6/7 Now going to SG and put on Clomid, Ovidrel, Gonal F, Prometrium, Estrace ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP!!!!!! March 6th our little man was born.
6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived
10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP
I had severe pre-e and IUGR with my first. I am not considered high risk this time and my OB said so long as my BP is staying low and everything is normal, she will not be referring me to an MFM.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
FWIW, I don't believe it is out of the ordinary to get so few ultrasounds in early pregnancy. With my boys, I wasn't supposed to get ultrasounds between weeks 9 (my first OB appt) and 18 (my anatomy scan). I think the issue with your history is more likely to be of concern later and that any additional scans wouldn't be considered until that time.
Congrats again on your pregnancy!
12dp5dt: 765; 15dp5dt: 1979; 17dp5dt: 3379...TWINS!!!!!
Our perfect baby boys were born at 36w1d!!
I was high risk and will always be because the problems were not just with the baby I have several
Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010
1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks
IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone)
Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure
Jan 2013 BFP
Humira,LIT,Prednisone, Lovenox, IVIG, Baby Aspirin
Miracle Born August 2013 Premature
Yours doesn't have to be a sad story