If my hubby didn't work from 2100-0730 we would have sex a lot more than we do. Right now the only nights he is home are Friday and Saturday and both nights we have sex. Now the 2nd week of my hubby's Christmas leave you best believe we did some making up for all the missed sex.... Every night for a week straight! Yes please
The last time we had sex was on December 21st. It was 2 months before that. I don't know what our problem is honestly. We have a few hours between when LO goes to bed and when we go to bed. I guess we're just lazy
I guess DH and i need a therapist. After we found out we were pregnant, he was too afraid to have sex, which I sort of understood. Some girlfrieds said their husbands were the same way. Then after we got the "all clear" after DS was born we were both afraid to go ahead with it, then after discussing the fact we just need to bite the bullet and do it, he confided in me that it was hard for him to get over the fact that DS came out of where he's supposed to go. Lately he's been more affectionate, but now I am afraid to get pregnant again, and I keep forgetting to take the pill. I refuse to get the shot or the ring so our only option is condoms or me remembering to take the pill.
I'm a terrible wife but we've only done it twice since DD was born. It hurts, I have no desire and DH works graveyard shift so he's only home two nights a week.
Re: Intimacy?
We've dtd more in the last week then we have since having lo.
Getting our groove back though.
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