What are some names that you absolutely love and would be at the top of your list if it weren't for a bad association, be it personal, through pop culture, or otherwise?
DH and I are teachers so the lists go on and on... ELI!!! I have had 2 boys named Eli with TERRIBLE behavior! One was 3 years ago and then BAM I got another one this year!
Elizabeth - I love it but I used to know the world's worst person and her name was Elizabeth.
Such a shame. It's a great name with so many good nn options. There was a terrible girl in my high school named Elizabeth, and another one at my college. It was a Christian school and she gave up being mean to me for Lent. My husband also had an ex-girlfriend by that name. She wasn't mean or anything, she just rubbed me the wrong way.
Elizabeth - I love it but I used to know the world's worst person and her name was Elizabeth.
Such a shame. It's a great name with so many good nn options. There was a terrible girl in my high school named Elizabeth, and another one at my college. It was a Christian school and she gave up being mean to me for Lent. My husband also had an ex-girlfriend by that name. She wasn't mean or anything, she just rubbed me the wrong way.
Seriously about Lent? Wow. She sounds super fun. Sorry that happened to you.
Elizabeth - I love it but I used to know the world's worst person and her name was Elizabeth.
Such a shame. It's a great name with so many good nn options. There was a terrible girl in my high school named Elizabeth, and another one at my college. It was a Christian school and she gave up being mean to me for Lent. My husband also had an ex-girlfriend by that name. She wasn't mean or anything, she just rubbed me the wrong way.
Seriously about Lent? Wow. She sounds super fun. Sorry that happened to you.
Charles. The only good male family name unused by my nephews, and I love it, esp with NN Charlie, so I would love to use it. But my best friend from high school is Charles and my ex-boyfriend is Charlie, so either one alone, and definitely both together, take it off the table.
And all these people thinking its cute to name or NN their daughter Charlie are bumming me out. Oh and my DH's good friend just named his son Charlie
Fiona- my moms cat Levi Jesse Seth Ryan (past relationships) Jasmine- ex cheated on me with her Nicolette Chris Steven Stella- cousin named his daughter this,completely adorable but now it's off our list for good. Bella- stupid sparkly vampires just had to ruin it.
Soon to be mommy of 3! DS Grayson (3yrs) (Emergency Csec) DS Camden (1yr) (All natural Vbac) DD Isabella due 8/2/2014
Spencer Sebastian James Taylor Anything that can be shortened to Ash
There are probably more, but it is too early for ghosts of relationships past...
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Esme, because of twilight. And Paloma. I loved that name until I worked on a tv show and one of the characters was named Paloma and hearing it over and over, 16 hours a day, made me really sick of it.
But really any name I pick because everyone really hates the names I like and talks me out of them!
Scarlett- Gone With the Wind gave it a bad rep. Roxanne- Chicago/Sting Charlotte- Friend just named her kiddo this Sky- Currently owned by a girl who I don't exactly care for Sasha- Sasha Gray Mary-Jane- Pot references
Edward- Twilight Not too many boy names with this problem
Lindsey-DH's ex gf who he had two kids with before we met. Looove their girls but hate her. She makes nasty comments on Twitter with her friends about me and then tags me in it. She's 28. Grow up. She also threw hissy fits when I wanted the girls as flower girls. She just loves to cause problems.
Also can't us Thomas at all. Psychos in my family named that. Can't use Joshua, Ann, Jason or Chantal.
Margot- I love this name but dh knew one and apparently she was devil spawn.
Charlotte- good friend from school I lost touch with was named this. I feel it would be weird
Lucy- the name I gave my first car.
Graham- dh friend's name
Haha! My friend named his car Lucille! My car is Cornelius.
Inara - consort on Firefly Malcolm - "Mal" means bad, FI takes this to mean "bad comer" (thank Firefly for that too) David - FI's difficult former rooommate Solange - FI's not-so-nice grandmother. We love this name but cannot bring up the bad memories associated with the person. Nathan - Too many strange Nathaniels.
Re: Names that You Love with Bad Associations
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Most names are names with good associations that I don't want to lose by naming my own child the same name.
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Penelope - those dang Kardashians killed this name for me
DH and I are teachers so the lists go on and on... ELI!!! I have had 2 boys named Eli with TERRIBLE behavior! One was 3 years ago and then BAM I got another one this year!
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I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
And all these people thinking its cute to name or NN their daughter Charlie are bumming me out. Oh and my DH's good friend just named his son Charlie
Sigh
Brandon - I dated two guys with this name and it did not go well with either of them!
Those are the two names that are for sure off the table.
Kate
Dahlia-black dahlia ruins it for me but I love it
Daisy- I love this name so much but it's my parents cats name.
Atlanta
Drucilla
Draco
Ophelia
Vladamir
Lovely names, bad associations! I could definitely see these on my list if they were associated with good things.
My furchildren, Dorothy and Johnny
Levi
Jesse
Seth
Ryan (past relationships)
Jasmine- ex cheated on me with her
Nicolette
Chris
Steven
Stella- cousin named his daughter this,completely adorable but now it's off our list for good.
Bella- stupid sparkly vampires just had to ruin it.
DS Grayson (3yrs) (Emergency Csec)
DD Isabella due 8/2/2014
Conrad- its a great family name. Buuuut its also the name of my abusive xh
Nicholas - multiple difficult former patients
Sebastian
James
Taylor
Anything that can be shortened to Ash
There are probably more, but it is too early for ghosts of relationships past...
Charlotte born at 28w3d due to severe IUGR on 12.24.2012 Merry Christmas!
Missed M/C discovered 12.22.2014 at 8w1d measuring 6w3d
2015 was a year to test strength of both body and character, but it led us to this... BFP 01.26.2016 EDD 9.30.2016
Brett. A very disturbed guy I met in college who raped my best friend. That one is out.
Fiona. My SILs friend who is a selfish person and a weak mother.
Tyler. 3 ADHD boys with this name in one special education course I subbed. I can't shake the association.
Georgiana- SIL dog is George. They would always make fun of me
Nicola - DH's fat bitch of an ex is Nikki
Cora- an Ex of mine has a niece named this
Lorelei- I love it but my dad's ex wife is Laurel and my mom says it's too close.
Gabriel- a guy I knew, his last name- DH wasn't a fan of him
Roxanne- Chicago/Sting
Charlotte- Friend just named her kiddo this
Sky- Currently owned by a girl who I don't exactly care for
Sasha- Sasha Gray
Mary-Jane- Pot references
Edward- Twilight
Not too many boy names with this problem
4/25/14 12:41am
Also can't us Thomas at all. Psychos in my family named that. Can't use Joshua, Ann, Jason or Chantal.
Emily and Genivieve- DH dated both
I loved Olivia but Scandal has made it less likely that i will ever use it
Charlotte- good friend from school I lost touch with was named this. I feel it would be weird
Lucy- the name I gave my first car.
Graham- dh friend's name
Ryan- DH vetoed because he went to school with one who 'was a druggie'
ETA: Zane- an ex fling. No way would DH ever let me use it.
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Travis-ex fling, wouldn't be able to call my son that w/out thinking of him
Bianca-loved this name, a very permiscious girl ruined it.
Malcolm - "Mal" means bad, FI takes this to mean "bad comer" (thank Firefly for that too)
David - FI's difficult former rooommate
Solange - FI's not-so-nice grandmother. We love this name but cannot bring up the bad memories associated with the person.
Nathan - Too many strange Nathaniels.