I thought I would just lump everything together, instead of posting a couple different things!
1) Is there such thing as a diaper that I won't have a blow out with? EVERY single time DS poops... blow out! I've tried a few different kinds of diapers, huggies gives him a wicked rash, pampers is good, but we blow out... luvs... blow outs... anyone found something that works??
2) I'm on the fence about sleep training, but getting up 3+ times a night (3 being a good night) is getting old really fast... any suggestions? Help me feel better about it if it comes down to it!
Thanks!!
Re: diapers... blow-outs and sleep training...
If you are blowing out every single time he shits, and you have tried every diaper out there, I think you are shit out of luck.
There are loads of sleep training options.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
He's not even close to the weight for the next size up... we're in size 3 and the tabs over lap and it goes up his back quite far so I don't think size is the issue... and it explodes out his back..
Maybe the diaper is too big?
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
As for sleep training, I don't think anyone can "talk" you into or out of it. It's a very personal choice and if you do decide that it's something you want to do, you really have to be all in and believe it's what's best for you and your family otherwise it's too easy to cave in and not follow through. It's hard, I won't sugar coat that, but at least for us, it was worth it. When we decided to sleep train, we were in a similar boat, where S would wake up 4-5 times a night, every night for over a month. I work, and I was literally a walking zombie. We did it over a weekend and although it was one of the toughest things I've ever had to do, she can now put herself to sleep, usually only gets up once a night to eat, and then I can put her back down without having to "hold" her for an hour before I could put her back into her crib. There are a lot of options if you're not ready for sleep training, but if you do decide that is the route you want to take, there are quite a few of us on this board who would be happy to share our stories with you and support you.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
Maybe plastic pants is the way to go. Lol
Using that shit (literally) as blackmail when he is a teen.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!