So I have heard several people on TB discuss "natural" c-sections. I gather it is where several things are done to make the experience more natural...i.e. immediate skin-to-skin and breast feeding, etc.
With my c-section, they cleaned DS up and showed him to me briefly and then he got whisked off to the NICU and I didn't see him for the next 12+ hours. DH and my family got to visit him, but I didn't because I still had the epi in and was recovering. I don't think this helped the breastfeeding situation. I want to have a VBAC, but if that doesn't work out, I would at least like to have something a little less jarring than what happened last time. Can anyone tell me more about the "natural" c-section and what all it entails? How did you bring it up with your provider? Did the skin-to-skin happen why they were still sewing you up? Or after in recovery?
Edit: typo
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:


Re: Talk to me about "natural" c-sections
I had come in to L&D the afternoon before because I was bleeding. I was actually scheduled to be induced the following day. When they hooked me up for monitoring, they found that DS was having heart rate decels so they never induced, but decided to go ahead with a c-section. They gave me the option of waiting for my OB or having one then and there. I opted to wait, but due to the fact he was having the decels, they would not let me eat anything in case I had to have an emergency c-section. Then, my OB got there, but we got bumped for a more urgent c-section so I ended up not going into the OR until 1:30 the following day.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
To be honest, I don't think I want the drape dropped. I'm not squeamish about blood or surgery at all, but it was uncomfortable enough last time when they pulled her out that I wouldn't want to watch. I'll settle for arms out & skin to skin. I'm going to ask my nurse friend for the CS protocol to see what they do & the timing if it. I think they do skin to skin while they're still sewing you up for a certain amount of time, then go take their measurements, etc while they are finishing and bring baby back to you in recovery.
I'd ask your OB about it to see what they can do & what their opinions are about it. I have several NICU friends that attend CS, and they're always complaining about having to do skin to skin (even though they understand the importance, it's just harder than their usual routine). You may get some resistance if your hospital doesn't routinely do it, but as long as baby is stable you should be able to request it.
August '16-January '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI/TI = BFN
February/March '17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = BFN
April '17: Menopur + HCG + TI (due to too many mature follicles) = BFN
May '17: Took off due to cysts
June' 17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = Cancelled due to 8+ mature follicles
November '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI= BFN
December '17: Menopur + HCG + TI= BFP!!!! Due August 2018
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2613254/
I would expect most OBs to not want to do the delayed baby removal/uterine squish if that's not their routine. And the reason skin to skin is hard is because you only have one arm free, so the baby nurse and/or your H has to help hold the baby so it doesn't fall. There's enough room & doesn't compromise the sterile field at all.
Thanks for the link to the article. I did do an internet search (not on google) and only came cross a bunch of threads from babycenter. I did not know it was something that they had done actual medical research on. I honestly thought it was just a term coined here or on BC.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
I'm hoping this time things go more smoothly. I doubt I'll demand immediate skin to skin or any of that (mostly since I'm also having an ovary removed during the surgery, so I'll be in there awhile longer), but I have told DH that I want him to try to keep the baby in the OR as long as possible and let me see her for more than half a second. Not knowing what DS looked like for the entire first day of his life was disturbing and pretty upsetting. Then again, our situation could've been a lot worse and we were both well taken care of, so it's all good. I trust my doctor and the hospital staff, and I won't love my child any less if things don't go the way I want them to.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
If we have a similar experience this time (which I pray we won't), at least we'll be prepared and will know better how to react and what to ask for and what demands to make.
Oh, and I did have one picture, but he was swollen and bruised and his face was 50% covered by tubes and the CPAP, so that wasn't comforting at all. Ick.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
1. I want to see my baby RIGHT away as long as it is safe. With my son, I saw pictures of him that my husband took before he was introduced to me. I was the one who had done all the work of growing him and I didn't get to see him right away?!? (There was no medical reason not to have me see him.)
2. I want my baby with me in recovery if it is safe for us both. When I had my son, I didn't consider why it was that I was alone in recovery. The only thing wrong with me was that I was tired. There was nothing wrong with my son, but for some reason, they took him away to the nursery for 2 hours.
https://www.naturalbirthandbabycare.com/planning-a-family-centered-cesarean/
https://www.jaxmomsblog.com/babies/c-section-secrets-part-2-have-a-birth-plan/
DS#1 - Apr 22, 2010
DS#2 - Oct 26, 2012
DS#3 - May 28, 2014
ETA: wording
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
Here is another article about this topic. I just found it in my pins on Pinterest.