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Not sure where I fit anymore and was wondering if you ladies might have me?

designer303designer303 member
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My story (hopefully short enough):  Started trying for LO#1 back in September '08.  Tried on our own until Aug '10 with no luck at all and thats when I started seeing my RE.  We saw her for 10 cycles before our miracle combo of Follistim/ IUI resulted in a BFP and we were blessed with our DS.   Since then I  have spent most of my time on my BMB and then when we started trying for our second (this summer), I was hanging around on TTGP.  I got a BFP on Dec. 16th and could not believe that we did it on our own, only to find out a week later that the Betas and progesterone were horrible and had a natural miscarriage on Dec. 24th.  I dont really feel like I fit in on TTCAL board as I know it can be hard to mention living children over there and I also feel like so many of the bad infertilty feelings have come back full force since my loss, so I feel a little too fragile to stay on TTGP.  I know I never posted on other infertilty boards mainly because I only found the bump after our struggle to get KU the first time around. 

I was back with my RE for the little bit of time that I was pregnant and they are folloiwng me now til my levels go all the way down.  I havent decided whether we are going to go back for infertilty treatments when we are cleared to try again or not.  Anyway I guess I was just wondering if maybe this board might be a good fit for me and wondered if you would have me? 

TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

Back with RE as of January 2014...

5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

April 2015 IVF#1

5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd :)

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Re: Not sure where I fit anymore and was wondering if you ladies might have me?

  • Jeffreysmom24Jeffreysmom24 member
    First, I am so sorry for your loss. I had 2 chemical pregnancies last year and feel like I still grieve for them. I hope this board will be a good fit for you! I mostly posted on my BMB before and never felt like the TTTC board was a good fit for me. Looking forward to getting to know you! Welcome!
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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    I am sorry to hear about your losses.  This does sound like the right place.  Welcome and Good Luck! 



      


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  • annibesannibes member
    I'm sorry about your losses. Welcome to 2IF. It sucks to have to be here, but if you have to be somewhere this place is great!
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  • designer303designer303 member
    Thanks for the welcomes, Looking forward to getting to know you ladies :)

    TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

    Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

    TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

    Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

    Back with RE as of January 2014...

    5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

    April 2015 IVF#1

    5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

    Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd :)

    Silly mugglesimage

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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Welcome, and I am so sorry for your loss.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    Sorry for your losses and struggles, sounds like you are in the right place! Welcome and hopefully good things to come!!!
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!     February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    You are in the right place, Welcome! I am so sorry for your loss, no one deserves that.
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Welcome. I suffered my first CP in Novemeber. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board!

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • Amerbutt81Amerbutt81 member
    Hello and welcome.  I am so sorry for your loss, I hope you find comfort here.  

    Also... looks like our sons are about the same age!
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  • SpooksterSpookster member
    So sorryfor your loss, Welcome and Best Wishes. 
    **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
    EDD- 06/13/2017
    **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
    TTGP's 2013 Sweetest Bumpie <3 



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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Welcome and good luck! I'm so sorry for your loss. 
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • BlackvelvetBlackvelvet member
    I'm on here and TTCAL over there you have to pretend that you have not ever had a child and it's not nice but that board has a lot more people.  I hope to get to know you where ever you end up.  There also seems to be two sets of emotions when you have IF and losses they are both heart breaking and can drive you crazy.
    Me DOR amh .64 ng/mL  
    DH Brain Cancer
    BFP #1 12/11/08 DS born 8/23/09
    BFP#2 10/13/11 DC 11/4/11
    BFP#3 12/6/13 Lost 12/29/13
    Told IVF is the only option and have not found a clinic that will take me.



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  • SoBelle09SoBelle09 member
    I'm so sorry for your struggles but this sounds like the right place for you!
    M/C 4/2008 BFP 7/2008 DS 3/1/2009 TTC #2 since May 2012 Lap - May 2013 - no findings Ectopic 9/2013 mtx HSG 10/2013 tubes open Nov 2013 Clomid Round 1 days 4-8: BFN Dec 2013 Clomid Round 2: days 2-6: BFN
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  • jb2rnjb2rn member
    Welcome, sorry you have to be here, and I am sorry for your loss. May you get your take home baby soon.
    b/w=FSH 15.6, AMH 0.4 surprise natural BFP on 3/12/11
    DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d

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