UPDATE: Trying Not To Freak Out

Re: UPDATE: Trying Not To Freak Out

• CaraH member

  January 2014

  I am so sorry. My prayers are with you.

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• QOTR member

  January 2014

  I know this isn't the news you wanted to hear.  Big hugs to you.   I hope that you are surrounded with support and have good resources available to help you navigate your path.  Take care of yourself.  
  

  Me-41, Hubby-40.
  1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
  2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
  3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
  August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
  Dear Son born 5/28/14

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• Melissa72777 member

  January 2014

  I know this is not the news you were hoping for and are probably feeling very overwhelmed right now. I hope you are able to find out as much information as you can to help you in your journey. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  Melissa

  

   

    

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• Beachgal72 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear this news. Sending strength to you and your family.
  

  

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• ChrisB member

  January 2014

  I know this isn't the news you were hoping for and I'm sure you will be overwhelmed with information. Take it day by day. Thinking of you!

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• jbelle member

  January 2014

  Everyone else has said it better than I can. Thinking of you and your family.

  AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!

  

  jbelle

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• jg1011 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. This is hard to accept and deal with. I pray that your doctors are helping you navigate this and are providing you some resources. Take care.

  

   

  

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• kelley72 member

  January 2014

  Prayers for your comfort and babies continued growth and health.  I hope you receive the support and resources you and your family need!

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• stina76 member

  January 2014

  Sending thoughts and prayers your way.  

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• springbeduk2 member

  January 2014

  So sorry!  Sending (((((hugs)))))) and positive thoughts for getting through this difficult time, and for getting the information and resources you need and also for space to make your decisions and to trust in your own wisdom that you will find the path that is right for your family.  

  Me: 39  DH: 44  together since 2000 married 9/2004 TTC #1 since 2/2012
  

  BFP #1 6/5/2012  m/c 6/15/2012 about 5w3d   BFP #2 6/?/2013 m/c 7/1/2013 5w 3d

  BFP #3 8/25/2013  EDD 5/7/2014    DD A. born 5/8/2014!!  Love!!!!

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• URMySunshine77 member

  January 2014

  @chance_encounters,

  
  

  I came back to check on you. I'm sending you and your family love and peace. As PPs said, I hope that you receive the resources and support you need. Much love.

  
  

  
  

  
  

               

    "It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt

  
  

                                               
  

  
  

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• chance_encounters member

  January 2014

  @URMySunshine77 I am still mentally numb from everything. I have an Amnio scheduled for Monday so we will be able to get a few more answers. They also want to do a more in depth U/S too. We should have answers by Thursday.

   

  Paige 8/5/99, Kara 7/22/03 and Benjamin 1/19/13

    

  
  

  10 losses 1996-1998, 2 losses 2001-2002, 3 losses 2010-2012, loss 1/2014

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• lizok22 member

  January 2014

  Hang in there.  i am thinking and praying fro you.
  

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• zazu13 member

  January 2014

  I'm sorry you are having to process this difficult news. Hugs for you and your precious little one.

  Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

  IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

   IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

  IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

  FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

  **new RE**

   IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

   IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

  9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

  Twin girls! 3/6/14

   

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• wolcottmom member

  January 2014

  XOXOXOXO.  My heart is with yours right now.  If I could hug you, I would.

  <a href="http://www.thebump.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Parenting Advice"><img src="http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt19850a.aspx" alt=" Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker" border="0"  /></a>
  

  
  
  
  
  Me:39 & DH:40 ~ TTC #2

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• DawnHope member

  January 2014

  Sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  Me-42 DH-43 TTC #1 since 3/11

  HSG 7/11 showed possible blockage

  8/11 BFP, then early m/c  (Natural)

  9/11 blood tests reveal Factor V Leiden (heterozygous)

  11/11 Hysteroscopy revealed uterine septum, which was repaired

  12/11 1st round of Clomid (100mg)=BFN

  1/12 2nd round of Clomid (100mg)=BFN 

  2/12 Repeat HSG=All clear 

  2/12 IUI with injectables #1=BFN 

  3/12 natural cycle=BFN 

  4/12 IUI with injectables #2=C/P 

  7/12 IVF #1=30ER, 9F, 3T, 1 Frostie 7/29=BFP! 

  8/27/12 No Heartbeat. Waiting to M/C 

  9/13/12 D+C

  12/12 Operative Hysteroscopy 

  1/31/12  IVF#2 ...BFP 2/6 m/c 2/12 methotrexate due to presumed ectopic

  July '13 IVF #3: 13R, 10M, 8F=BFP

  1st Beta=549  2nd Beta 594 3rd Beta 422. M/C #5

  IVF#4 in November=BFP…TWINS!!!!!

  
  

  

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• Clamorel member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry to hear you got this news. I'm sure it's a huge shock. Wishing you lots of support and peace for the weeks and months ahead

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• 2redtulips member

  January 2014

  I am sorry. Thinking of you! {{{hugs}}}

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  First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss
  
  

  
  

  
  

  
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• dannie2011 member

  January 2014

  Thoughts and prayers,  Hugs

  
  

  
  

    

  
  

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• AnnieA75 member

  January 2014

  Sending you hugs and prayers
  

  
  

  

  
  

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• Stillharbor member

  January 2014

  I'm sorry you're not getting the news you'd like, but I'd also like to express my congratulations on your up-coming bundle of joy. Please, I am being sincere. All our test results came back normal, but when LO was born we found out she had Down Syndrome (also with a heart defect). The best advise we ever got was this; "she is a baby, treat her no different than any other baby, enjoy her." OMG! She is wonderful! She draws people to her. We can't go anywhere without someone wanting to stop and talk with HER, not us, but her. When she smiles, it's not just an expression on her face, she smiles with her whole body. You will soon have a beautiful LO to snuggle, coo, and tickle. Enjoy the baby days, the Down Syndrome is just a label.

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