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Evite etiquete

ConstanceGoodspeedConstanceGoodspeed member
edited January 2014 in January 2013 Moms
I've sent lots of evites to for bachelorettes, showers, etc. DS's birthday is the first time I'm sending evites to couples instead of individuals. 

Should I send to both spouse's email addresses? Some couples I only have one spouse's email address, so I can't set the evite so people can only rsvp for themselves. I need people to be able to say that 2 people are coming (their self and their spouse). But I don't want to send the evite to both spouses and have them both think they are replying for their family unit and both reply that 2 people are coming, because then my total count will read 4 instead of 2.

Obviously this is not a big deal, just curious what others have seen or done. 
IVF/ICSI #1 - BFP, DS born Jan 2013
IVF/ICSI #2 - BFP, DD born Feb 2015
IVF FET - BFP, due April 2017


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Re: Evite etiquete

  • this decaf lifethis decaf life member
    I don't really know what is proper but the last time we were invited to something only I received the invitation so I responded for our family.
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  • athomas2424athomas2424 member
    i've used eVites.com a few times and i always sent to everyones email address, even if husband and wife!  its never been an issue because either the husband talks to the wife first, etc........and the major this is that you can see who all responded already and what their person count is so if one spouse logged in he would see that the other already rsvp'd :-)  i think you could send to all email addresses and be ok :)
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