Im a FTM, and have seen her on 3 and 4d ultrasounds, wiggling up a storm, but I cant feel it! Im not nervous, I know she is just fine.. Im just annoyed, I want to feel a flutter already, or a jab! Jeez!
Give it another week or two. First pregnancy I didn't feel kicks or anything till just after 21w. DH felt it at 24w. This time I started feeling it at 18-19
You may be feeling them, you might not know what it is. I had a couple of days where I thought I had a muscle twitch, turns out that was the first movement!
With my first I felt flutters at 16 weeks but not real movement until 22 weeks. With the second I felt him around 20 weeks. Just wait, soon enough your little one will be keeping you up all night kicking your bladder and having a dance party in your ute!
I have an anterior placenta which makes movement tough to distinguish. However there are times I feel her doing little flip flops here and there. I anticipate the next couple of weeks they will become stronger.
You will feel it soon enough! At about 17 weeks I started feeling an odd pressure on my bladder, like I had to pee, and then it would go away. If it had been my first pregnancy I would have had no idea what it was. Now at 25 weeks, she never stops moving!!! There is a lot of growing to be done in just a few weeks time, so you'll feel obvious twitches soon.
Re: 20 weeks, still dont feel movement. Ugh.
EDD #2 5.4.17
1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.
Delaney: Born 10/15/09
Gavin: Born 4/8/11
Baby #3: due July 10, 2014