Before learning that I was having twins, I was very much set on an intervention-free natural birth. I'm delivering with an OB, who is very supportive of this in general. With twins, the issue is always the delivery of Baby B. He is 100% comfortable with a vaginal delivery, as long as Baby A has a vertex presentation. However, it is not uncommon for Baby B to have "issues" once Baby A has been delivered, due to any number of things (e.g., closing of the cervix, quick change in presentation, etc). Because of this it is quite possible to have to deliver Baby B by cesarean after a vaginal delivery of Baby A.
Now. I've been very impressed my my OB's model of care. I was working with a midwife for my first pregnancy (which, unfortunately ended in miscarriage), and I was very much looking forward to the midwifery model of antepartum care and childbirth. My OBs answers have all been "right". I can have delayed cord clamping and immediate skin to skin. There is no "time limit" for labor. There is no time limit for Baby B after Baby A has been delivered (so I can labor for as long as necessary for Baby B after Baby A's delivery, provided that there are no significant signs of distress). I can use a shower or whirlpool or all sorts of other types of labor "gear" to aid in pain relief and labor progression if I want. Lights are low and the rooms resemble my bedroom at home. They will happily do intermittent monitoring, etc.
But. He highly recommends an epidural anesthetic with twins because of the higher likelihood of needing an emergency cesarean for Baby B (or of needing him to reach into my uterus to pull Baby B out to avoid a cesarean if possible).
Ultimately, this is about the healthy delivery of my babies and not about what I necessarily want out of a birth experience. What I don't want is to have to have general anesthesia for an emergency cesarean and for my husband and I to miss their birth. And I don't want to expose the babies to the risks of general anesthesia.
One option is to have the epidural placed but to not administer the anesthetic until late in labor, just before the pushing stage. That way is it there "in case," for the part where the risks are greater for twin deliveries, but I can still mostly labor without it. I just hate that I have to push with an epidural in. But again, it isn't about me.
I'm not sure what I'm asking of you all, but I just wanted to put my current labor thoughts out there for some validation, support, and/or suggestions. I've never been through labor and delivery before (much less twin delivery!), so I wanted to see if my idea of the "late" epidural is a reasonable one. Or if there are any other mothers of multiples who have had or desired to have a natural delivery.
Thanks, guys!
18 months of active trying
3 failed letrozole cycles
2 failed letrozole/IUI cycles
BFP on the 3rd (and final) letrozole/IUI cycle before IVF
It's TWINS!
Re: Twin delivery
I was also warned that even if both babies are in good positions, the incidence of a c-section for B goes up quite a bit if babies come preterm. Since my DS came at 27 weeks, if I go into labour really early I might go for the late epidural just to be safer for babies.
TTC #2 since July 2010
March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days