When my wife and I found out she was pregnant we both took a step back in that regard. We did it a few times, but I think the thought that there was a baby "right there" kind of creeped us out a little. It was very strange because I found her very very attractive and incredibly sexy, but the irrational thought that the little guy might know what was going on made us both somewhat uncomfortable.
For me, my wife had bad morning sickness for the first trimester so she was the one that was not interested. The 2nd trimester does get better, but at the end of the 3rd trimester she is big enough that only certain positions few good for her.
my wife and I had a very active sexual life before she got pregnant. After we found out that she was pregnant it's essentially stopped and our son is two and a half months old. Its incredibly frustrating, I know. You just have to make you needs known
Re: Sex
I'd say your feelings are perfectly normal.
Pretty normal stuff. This is the biggest change of your life that you are about to experience. Sex tends to take a backseat as a result.
2nd trimester you guys will have a bunch of opportunity to catch up. She will make sure of that. They turn into sex maniacs!!
Its incredibly frustrating, I know. You just have to make you needs known