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PSA about when to move on to PGAL.

toomanycats1toomanycats1 member
edited December 2013 in TTC After a Loss
Just wanted to post a reminder to the newbies that the time to move over to PGAL is when you have a BFP, and NOT when you see a heart rate and believe everything is viable.  Unfortunately, if you're pregnant, you no longer "belong" to this board.  

This just happened, and I want to prevent it from happening in the future if possible.  

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    uneek1323uneek1323 member
    Seriously??  :-w

    Thanks for posting this.
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    Poppy715Poppy715 member
    Yikes. Not cool. I'm sorry she did this. Very inconsiderate. image
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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    edited December 2013
    Thanks Sweetie!! I saw this happen earlier and wasn't cool with either but didn't know how to address it.
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    toomanycats1toomanycats1 member
    Even more inconsiderate when you factor in she re-introd a week ago. Testing late or not, she probably had an inkling she was pregnant.

    Me: Endometriosis, PCOS, Insulin Resistance, Estrogen Dominance, Irregular Cycles
    DH:  100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
     BFP #1 (Surprise!)  "Monkey"- 09/16/2006. DS born 06/01/2007.   
    BFP #2  "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d 
    BFP #3  "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d 
    BFP #4  "Star" EDD 07/06/14- MC 11/28/13 @ 8 weeks
    BFP #5 "Baby J"- 02/07/14. DS born 10/29/2014 My Rainbow!
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    toomanycats1toomanycats1 member
    blackbird818 said:
    Thanks Sweetie!! I saw this happen earlier and wasn't cool with either but didn't no how to address it.

    Ordinarily I would feel the same and probably wait for someone else, but it really ruined my morning so I couldn't let it go.

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    DH:  100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
     BFP #1 (Surprise!)  "Monkey"- 09/16/2006. DS born 06/01/2007.   
    BFP #2  "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d 
    BFP #3  "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d 
    BFP #4  "Star" EDD 07/06/14- MC 11/28/13 @ 8 weeks
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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    edited December 2013

    HelloSweetie1 said:
    Even more inconsiderate when you factor in she re-introd a week ago. Testing late or not, she probably had an inkling she was pregnant.
    I agree since she already got in for a u/s today at 6wks+.
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    uneek1323uneek1323 member
    I'm sorry to those who saw it. ((hugs))
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    luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    I missed this. But, seriously? Not ok.
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    E&B0811E&B0811 member
    Thought I was crazy and overreacting. So glad to not have to add this to my list o'crazy

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    gscovillegscoville member
    Whaaat? This would be one of those times I'm glad to be on the West coast and so a few hours delayed from things like this. Sorry you had your morning ruined so ((hugs)), but thank you for taking the time to post the PSA.


         

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    E&B0811 said:
    Thought I was crazy and overreacting. So glad to not have to add this to my list o'crazy
    Oh you're still crazy, love ;)
    But no worries b/c we're all crazy in these here parts lol 8-}
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    PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    I missed this clearly. Who did it?

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    Drgn30Drgn30 member
    What the fuck? This makes me irrationally angry.

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    BKRR0913BKRR0913 member
    So sorry to all who saw the post. I didn't see it but just very sorry for those of you who did. So wrong.
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    BethKate2BethKate2 member
    So, she knew she was pregnant and just kept posting here as if she wasn't? Not cool.


     

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    luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    I just looked for it. Being dishonest like that is a huge slap in the face to all the members here.
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    uneek1323uneek1323 member
    edited December 2013
    She's obviously not hiding it, so why should we? No one should have to go on PGAL if you're not ok with it. It was p3ng1nn or however you spell it.
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    ktlovess said:
    Thank you for posting this! It bothered me too! I went so far as to check her post history - which was 8 something (my time) on here, and then 9:30 on PGAL. That hurt. Boo.
    I did the same thing! Thinking maybe I was confused. Nope not confused!
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    BethKate2BethKate2 member
    edited December 2013
    ktlovess said:
    blackbird818 said:
    ktlovess said:
    Thank you for posting this! It bothered me too! I went so far as to check her post history - which was 8 something (my time) on here, and then 9:30 on PGAL. That hurt. Boo.
    I did the same thing! Thinking maybe I was confused. Nope not confused!

    @blackbird818 - I was wrong! Her times overlapped more than that :(
    Yeah, it actually looks like she might've posted here even after her intro on pgal. Hopefully she at least has the decency to wait a while to add a ticker to her siggy.


     

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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    Well I saw her post over there first and congratulated her. Then came here and was like wait she's posted here :-/ cue the confusion. I mean just move on....that's what we all want but it's kinda cruel to still be hanging out here when you've known you were pg
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    uneek1323uneek1323 member
    In general, this board is very forgiving with a sincere and thought out apology. Unfortunately, I'm not and I have a pretty good memory. She's burned a bridge with me for sure.
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    blackbird818 said:
    Well I saw her post over there first and congratulated her. Then came here and was like wait she's posted here :-/ cue the confusion. I mean just move on....that's what we all want but it's kinda cruel to still be hanging out here when you've known you were pg
    It's beyond cruel.

    It's gross, disrespectful and effing obnoxious. Way to rub a pregnancy in all our faces.


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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    I agree @PinkCamino. I wonder what she'll have to say for herself in response to your comment on her PGAL intro
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    blackbird818 said:
    I agree @PinkCamino. I wonder what she'll have to say for herself in response to your comment on her PGAL intro
    I could care less.
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    RustyGirl3RustyGirl3 member
    Wow...this is really surprising and unfortunate.

    I am curious to see her response. 

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    HoneydewchestnutHoneydewchestnut member
    I don't see how someone could think that was okay
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    KMW08KMW08 member
    Thank you ladies for making a post about this. I saw her pgal intro but not her post here after. I didn't have time to make a post earlier, but not only is what happened NOT ok, I also felt betrayed that she waited so long to intro--after having an US, so that means she continued to post here while knowing she was ktfu.

    ktfu minus the kt is how I feel towards her atm.

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    stefugestefuge member

    Wow.  That is all.

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    E&B0811E&B0811 member
    jalara48 said:

    And after her "pregnancy dream"??

    And posting on my coping thread telling me that it's just survival. Bah

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    BethKate2BethKate2 member
    jalara48 said:
    And after her "pregnancy dream"??

    I know, right?


    E&B0811 said:
    And after her "pregnancy dream"??
    And posting on my coping thread telling me that it's just survival. Bah
    I'm sorry. :( That's what gets me about this. I totally understand waiting to intro on pgal and continuing to lurk here, but posting here as if she was still ttcal when she knew she was pregnant is just insulting.


     

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    alilbearalilbear member
    I can't help but to think she knew she was KTFU when she re-intro'd here only about a week ago. I just don't get it.

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    ngolimentongolimento member
    Wow, just... wow. Why not be up front?Why be creepers and underhanded? I'm not gonna lie, I'll lurk here after/if I get KU, but I would totally post a 'moving on out' thread, not prance around and pretend nothing's going on.

    Maybe she misses the attention? What a weirdo.
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