Trouble TTC

Intro

Hi ladies! I've been lurking here for a few weeks and wanted to introduce myself- my name is Heather, I'm 29 years old, and lately I just feel like I need to talk to people who understand and are going through the same thing. Not many people know we're TTC, but it's hard to keep hearing "just relax and it'll happen", or "you must not be doing it right- it should only take a couple months". DH and I have been TTC for a little under a year.  I've been taking PNV since 12/12, using OPKs, and charting since February on Fertility Friend. My cycles started out fairly regular with late ovulation (cd25-27), and I've had a couple anovulatory cycles (68-79 days).

I was planning to wait the full year before talking to my ob/gyn about it, but when I went in for my annual in early December, she seemed concerned about my long cycles, especially since she knows we're TTC. She scheduled me for an ultrasound and cd3 bloodwork- bloodwork came back normal, and the only concern with the ultrasound was a 1.5 cm cyst on my left ovary, but it was collapsing on it's own, so she said she wasn't worried about it. DH has a SA scheduled with an RE for 1/6/14 and when I start my new cycle (hopefully in the 30-40 day range, not the 60-70), I'll schedule my HSG with the RE. I've researched the SA as much as possible to try to prep DH for it, but he doesn't seem nervous or worried (which is a good thing- I worry enough for the both of us). DH keeps telling me it'll happen when it's meant to happen, but I tend to be proactive (and sometimes impatient). This process has definitely made me better at being patient. My ob/gyn says that as long as the SA and HSG come back fine, she'd like to start me on a monitored clomid cycle (with the ultrasounds and bloodwork). I'm not sure it that would be through her office or the RE's.

I've been overweight for about 4 years, and started Weight Watchers (already down 10.8 pounds this month)- I have about 70 more pounds to lose to be in a healthy weight range. I'm definitely concerned that the reason we aren't getting pregnant is because of my weight, although my ob/gyn didn't seem to think it was a problem.

Everyone in this group seems so supportive and knowledgeable- I'm looking forward to getting to know you and learning from you.
Me: 29, DH: 29
TTC since: 2/13
Long, anovulatory cycles
Began fertility testing 12/13
Ultrasound and bloodwork: Everything looks good (according to my ob/gyn)
HSG: waiting to schedule
SA: scheduled with RE for 1/6/14

Re: Intro

  • Welcome! I'm fairly new to everything myself, but it sounds like you're on the right track. Hoping your stay here is short and sweet!

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    Me:28 DH:28
    TTC #1 since Nov '12
    DX: Non-IR PCOS & Hypothyroidism 
    BFP: 11/7/13 EDD: 7/18/14 Ectopic Tubal Surgery 12/18 
    2/5 HSG all clear!
    Femara 5mg + Trigger + IUI #1- 5 = BFN
    IVF #1 - 17R 15M 11F - Transferred 1 beautiful hatching blast on 9/26    4 Frosties
    Beta (10dp5dt) = 166  Beta #2 (12dp5dt) = 284  Beta #3 (14dp5dt) = 471  Beta #4 (18dp5dt) = 2032
    EDD: 6/14/15
    ~All are welcome~

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  • Welcome.  Good luck with all of the testing and appts.  Also, congrats on the weight loss.  I know how hard that is. 

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    Me 32 :: DH 41

     TTC since November, 2011

    DH's SA : Excellent

    Lap and Hysteroscopy June 2012

    DX: PCOS, Stage III Endo, slight Adenomyosis, blocked tube, and probable LPD

    Treatments:  6 Months Lupron Depot injections; 1500 mg metformin; 3 cycles of Clomid + TI = BFN

    3 endometrial biopsies all were "out of phase" 

    September - December, 2013:  Break to lose weight and get healthy

    40 lb weight loss but still not ovulating "in phase"  

    February - March 2014: bcps + follistim + trigger + TI = BFP

     Beta #1 (12dpo): 30; Beta #2 (18dpo): 500; Beta #3 (25dpo): 7,000!!! 

    1st u/s 4/16: One beautiful hb at 144 bmp 

    2nd u/s 4/29: hb at 166 bmp.  Graduated from RE!!

    TEAM PINK! 

    Baby girl arrived on Thanksgiving day weighing 7lbs 6oz and measuring 20 inches

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  • Welcome! Hope your stay is short.
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    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

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  • Welcome and good luck with your testing!
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    TTC #1 since January 2012  Dx: Unexplained infertility & hypothyroidism 
    8/13 BFP!    EDD:  April 25, 2014
  • Welcome and good luck :)




  • Welcome!
    Me: 34 | He: 40
    TTC since 08/2012
    DX: DOR




  • Welcome! I'm new myself and your words seemed to echo my own feelings! Congrats on your weight loss! That's awesome! I'm in the same boat, minus the awesome 10lbs loss :) Patience has been super hard for me too....hugs. I hope your stay here is short, but just wanted to tell you I've found such relief and comfort from these ladies in just a few short days here. Lots of baby dust your way! GL!

    Me:Hypothyroid DH: Type II diabetic. Together since 03/2007, Married 10/2011, D/C bc 10/2011. TTC: 11/2011. Charted BBT and CV along with OPK 10/2011-02/2012 Baseline labs 02/2012 WNL, SA 03/2012: botched sample by lab - destroyed hubby's confidence. 04/2012 Clomid 05/2012 Clomid 06/2012 Clomid 07/2012 Clomid and Ovidrel 08/2012 Ovidrel (I never knew that I was supposed to be monitored while on meds...I never was. I asked for u/s and other tests to see why we weren't getting pregnant, doc just kept giving me meds and telling me to go to his church for a "laying of hands") Stopped all monitoring/testing/temps, etc, Sex became a chore and we started to grow apart. At 12 mos I decided to look for another doc. 02/2013 consult with new doc....3 days later testing began...u/s, all good, HSG: all good, labs: all good, ovulating, etc. Started on Pregnitude. 04/2013 failed attempt for SA, 05/2013 failed attempt SA. 12/2013 SA: 3% morph, abnormal functionality. DH started Pycnogenol. RE consult 01/15/2014.

    ALL Welcome :)

     Expecting one baby bean!! EDD: October 3, 2014

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