July 2014 Moms

Vanishing Twin & Worries

So, we lost one of our babies. I went in for a routine ultrasound the day before Christmas Eve and they discovered an empty sac. They had me follow up with a Level 2 ultrasound (which I had this morning) to confirm. They think it stopped growing around 7 weeks, but we had already seen its heartbeat. We're really sad, but thankful that we still have one baby that is growing strong!

We did IVF, so I know I am 10 weeks, 5 days but the baby is measuring 11 weeks, 4 days with a heart rate of 165. They said that its nothing to get excited about, but that they will be interested to see what the 18 week ultrasound shows. Now that freaked me out! What would there be to be concerned about with a baby measuring a little larger?

Finally, they said that my thyroid is enlarged. They checked my TSH level and it came back normal. When she called with the result she said she was shocked that the level was normal based on how enlarged my thyroid is and that they would check again around 28 weeks... Then she said- "it's nothing we would treat while you're pregnant anyway.." What is that supposed to mean? Has anyone experienced this during their pregnancies? I think my nurse might just have a strange bedside manner that makes me extra anxious... I see my doctor in about a month (who I love) and hope that she can ease my mind!
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Re: Vanishing Twin & Worries

  • MalLanningMalLanning member
    edited December 2013
    I changed OB's for the reason that they refused to treat my onset of diabetes, my development of asthma and my bronchitis because he was concerned about everyone else rather than me. My baby is measuring three days ahead. They told me that was a great thing that it may not always continue to measure ahead but as long as the baby doesn't start measuring behind, there's no worries at all.

    Right now, if you have the slightest concern with your doctors or nurses or u/s techs, consider changing docs.

    Edit: I'm sorry you lost one of your twins. By your right, at least you have one strong, healthy baby! Two babies are expensive anyway! :-P
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  • I'm so sorry you have lost one of the twins.  I am wishing your other twin the best.  Sending lots of hugs and thoughts and prayers as you deal with these mixed emotions, concerns, and subtle excitement.
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  • I'm so sorry you lost one of your twins.  We had a vanishing twin during my son's pregnancy and it is heartbreaking.  We do have a very healthy little boy out of the pregnancy, but it is still sad to think of the baby we lost.
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  • Oh my heart goes out to you. A loss is a loss and it's ok to feel it, but it's great that you can focus on the healthy LO.

    We also did IVF and I think it was also our 10 week 5 day US the hb was 178 which our OB said was right on target. What was the size?

    I'm not sure what your nurse meant. I think you should call back and express your concern and need for clarification. My TSH shot up early on, so my OB did another test about a week later for the TSH and the T3. The explanation I got was that the TSH value can be artificially raised because pregnancy hormones can mimic (Especially in the beginning when hcg spikes) it and the T3 value would be a more accurate reflection of my thyroid function. The TSH dropped but not completely and the T3 was normal. Maybe you could ask if it would be worth checking your T3.
  • I'm sorry for the loss of one of your twins. ((Hugs))
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  • Sorry to hear about the loss of one of the twins, but glad that the other is doing well.

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  • Sorry for your loss.
    My baby is measuring ahead too, the radiologist did not seem concerned at all. DS also measured ahead but was born just after his due date at a healthy 8lb 12oz & 22inches.
    The only thing I could think of is if the head measurement was on the larger side Relative to baby's body. That could be a sign of hydrocephalus (fluid in brain)
  • Im so sorry for the loss of one of your babies. Praying for you that the other baby continues to grow healthy & strong. <3 

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  • I'm sorry about the loss of your twin. 

    You may want to make an appointment with an endocrinologist just in case.  I had an enlarged thyroid as well last pregnancy and they did an ultrasound of my thyroid and put me on synthroid.  Who knows, maybe your numbers may be borderline normal... you may just want to have an endocrinologist look.  It won't hurt.

    Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy.  IVF is hard to go through... but it is so worth in the end :)
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  • Thank you for your kind words everyone! I will definitely have a list of follow-up questions for my doctor when I see her in 3 weeks. I think they only tested my TSH (which was 1.1)- at least that's the only result that was posted in my chart online... If it's still enlarged at that time, I'll schedule an appointment with an endocrinologist or insist on further testing. The not knowing what's causing the enlargement is making me the most worried...
    You guys have made me feel better about the baby measuring 5 days ahead. (That was based on the crown to rump length- not just the head). My husband and I are both really tall and my 2.5 year old is off the charts in height (he always measured a little small in utero, though)...
    And so begins the constant momma worry... ;))
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  • FWIW- I'm pregnant with an FET baby and it also keeps measuring rather ahead. At 12w1d it was measuring 12w6 days. It was about the same at the 10 week ultrasound.

    Because of the fertility treatments, it can really throw you off. My OB was not concerned at all.

    Sorry to hear about your loss. :(
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  • I'm sorry for the loss of your one twin.

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