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aschultz9aschultz9 member
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Well here I am again and I'm angry. Really really angry. I talk to women all week long who have no business having babies and I'm losing another one. Wtf. It's too early for us to confirm and I am not bleeding. So I potentially sit through Christmas and New years waiting.
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    I'm sorry. :(  Was the end of the pregnancy verified by a doctor? If you haven't started cramping or bleeding maybe there is still hope. What makes you think things are over?
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • aschultz9aschultz9 member
    My betas did not rise. Stayed exactly the same. The Dr won't do anything until I am far enough to confirm with US which is going to be couple weeks by the time I can go in due to work. Sadly I know there is no hope. Thank you.
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  • BKRR0913BKRR0913 member
    I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. I feel the same way with my job, women getting pregnant left and right who have no business being pregnant. I was 12 1/2 weeks pregnant when I lost my baby the day before thanksgiving. Again so sorry you are going through this.
    BFP 09/2013....missed miscarriage diagnosed 11/27/2013 size 12weeks 3days...D&C same day.
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  • JmeJoLee83JmeJoLee83 member
    So sorry and it's totally not fair. Just remember this was not caused by anything you did or didn't do. T & Ps heading your way.
    First time mommy-to-be
    E.D.D. June 1, 2014

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  • MrsG80inTNMrsG80inTN member
    I'm sorry for all you are going through.

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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  • aschultz9aschultz9 member
    Thanks. Still waiting. No bleeding. No nothing. Why can't I have a miscarriage like a normal person so I can just move on with my life.
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  • kikimeemeekikimeemee member
    aschultz9 said:
    Thanks. Still waiting. No bleeding. No nothing. Why can't I have a miscarriage like a normal person so I can just move on with my life.
    I'll be "abnormal" with you.  :)   Found out 11/25 that fetus had no heartbeat.  Cramps all the days after but by 12/16 still no activity to expel, so I had a D&C that day.   I felt like a freak that things just didn't pass.  My HCG levels were still increasing but not enough for a viable pregnancy.  I had 3 ultrasounds weeks apart and no heartbeat yet my body still had increasing HCG levels.  I read lots of posts if quick MCs but mine sure wasn't.   You're not alone and I feel for you.   (And how difficult over the holidays...)
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