Any of you thinking about working on adding another one already? We had to do IVF to get DS and our doctors said the best chance would be to try fairly soon after. I'm lucky and our DS is a very good baby so that helps a ton.
Ha sorry to disappoint that it wasn't about pooping! I don't post often, mainly just browse through others posts but thought I would get some feedback.
I got PG with #2 when #1 was almost 7 months old. It was crazy-cakes! We had to REALLY try for DD1 so we were thinking we would have to do the same to get PG again... not so much! LOL! She was our very happy surprise baby.
Having them close is really stressful, but I love it. I'm a little jelly of girls who have plans for another baby or 2 in front of them. I enjoy pregnancy, labor, babies, etc - but we are very concretely done.
We have two and we are done. We got pregnant with the second right after our son's second birthday. I thought having them 3 years apart would be easier but I don't know if it's any easier or harder than having them closer together. It's hard either way.
Our dd's are 2 years apart. I had a csection with both and my dr reccomends waiting a year to try for #3. Dh and I will discuss in June to see what we want to do. I g back and forth.
I always thought I wanted 2 and I'm pretty sure I still do, but I can't conceive of being a good mother to two kids right now. I feel like I'm having a hard enough time doing a good job with one. Plus, life has dealt us a couple rough breaks lately so it's not responsible for us to try again right now. We'll get back on our feet, for the 400th time and then reopen the discussion.
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A month and a half ago I was all for it...now I'm wondering if I could handle it! S was so easy for the first 3.5 months. Lately things have become more challenging. Maybe it's the 4 month wakeful? We needed help with S due to male infertility issues, so we will definitely need help again. For that reason alone I'm not on bc. We had originally talked about starting iui again in feb. I plan to see how the next 2 months go and we'll decide from there .
Mine are 2 years and 3 weeks apart. It's kind of crazy right now...but slowly getting better.
I originally wanted a 3 year seperation. DS1 was the easiest baby until about 2 years to the day!!! If I hadn't gotten a surprise BFP when I did I would have probably put off #2 a while longer. DS2 is a walk In the park compared to my two year old terror.
We need to decide how many more kids we want to have before we know when we are going to try again. Problems need to get sorted out, my business needs to take off, and we need to see how the addition of a 5th child/teenager next year is going to rock the house before we know if one or two more children are in our future.
Mine are 2 years and 3 weeks apart. It's kind of crazy right now...but slowly getting better.
I originally wanted a 3 year seperation. DS1 was the easiest baby until about 2 years to the day!!! If I hadn't gotten a surprise BFP when I did I would have probably put off #2 a while longer. DS2 is a walk In the park compared to my two year old terror.
I've said it more than once recently that the 3.5yo is more challenging than the twins put together.
Mine are 2 years and 3 weeks apart. It's kind of crazy right now...but slowly getting better.
I originally wanted a 3 year seperation. DS1 was the easiest baby until about 2 years to the day!!! If I hadn't gotten a surprise BFP when I did I would have probably put off #2 a while longer. DS2 is a walk In the park compared to my two year old terror.
I've said it more than once recently that the 3.5yo is more challenging than the twins put together.
I've heard my friends say 3 years old is way more challenging than 2 years old.
Re: Trying for #2
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BFP #1 mm/c at 12w1d
No more surprises for us.
Having them close is really stressful, but I love it. I'm a little jelly of girls who have plans for another baby or 2 in front of them. I enjoy pregnancy, labor, babies, etc - but we are very concretely done.
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try for #3. Dh and I will discuss in June to see what we want to do. I g back and forth.
Our first two are 18 months apart. I will not do that again... Plus we are finished at 3!
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We needed help with S due to male infertility issues, so we will definitely need help again. For that reason alone I'm not on bc. We had originally talked about starting iui again in feb.
I plan to see how the next 2 months go and we'll decide from there .
I originally wanted a 3 year seperation. DS1 was the easiest baby until about 2 years to the day!!! If I hadn't gotten a surprise BFP when I did I would have probably put off #2 a while longer. DS2 is a walk In the park compared to my two year old terror.
I'm scared!