Hey ladies. I need some advice/ thoughts or maybe a slap in the face because I am having a FTM freak out?
At my last weekly appt my OB told me she was scheduling me to be induced January 6th (41 weeks). She said that is the latest I can go past my due date of 12/30.
I am bothered that we have to schedule this now. The mental deadline is giving me anxiety. I really want to avoid being induced if possible. I have fears of a bad experience and my cervix not being "favorable". And I really wish H didn't tell his family the OB said this because they are very opinionated. "You don't need to force the baby out if she's not ready!" comments are not helping. I didn't ask to be induced people.
I know anything can happen between now and then. (Hopefully I go into labor on my own!!) I am just having a little mental freak out because she scheduled it. I guess?
I guess my question is...how late past your EDD will your OB let you go before scheduling you to be induced?
Sorry this got long. Thanks for reading!
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TTC #1 since 10/11

BFP #1-10/01/12 | ended in m/c11/19/12
Jan-2013-Cycle 10: Clomid 50mg + Trigger + TI = BFN
Feb-2013-Cycle 11: Benched due to cysts.
March-2013-Cycle 12: Clomid 100mg + Trigger + TI = BFP
4/22/13-Beta#1 33.9-- 4/24/13-Beta#2 117
EDD 12/30/13

Re: Inducing when past EDD
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13
induction due to HELLP
Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
That was a pretty shitty move on YH's part to tell his family without asking you first! It's none of their business what YOUR doctor has told you. Just because your doc made you schedule the date doesn't mean you're happy about it!
Don't get too stressed yet! There's time! I'll be sending you "go into labor on your own" thoughts.
Married: 9.22.12 - DD: 1.7.14 - EDD 2: 10.30.17 - J14 OG
I plan to keep the date scheduled. I think I just let it freak me out. :P And H's family drives me crazy, but that is a completely different issue.
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TTC #1 since 10/11

BFP #1-10/01/12 | ended in m/c11/19/12
Jan-2013-Cycle 10: Clomid 50mg + Trigger + TI = BFN
Feb-2013-Cycle 11: Benched due to cysts.
March-2013-Cycle 12: Clomid 100mg + Trigger + TI = BFP
4/22/13-Beta#1 33.9-- 4/24/13-Beta#2 117
EDD 12/30/13
Women who are induced due to being post-date, even if it's just one week, are LESS likely to need a c-section than if the pregnancy were allowed to continue another week or so! One thing postdates inductions prevent are babies who just grow way too big.
Oh, I am totally freaked out too! I think this is normal, especially at this point. Sorry for the crazy family tho! That we can't help. LOL
I totally understand the mental FTM freakout and worry about inducing when it seems your body is not ready. I was so worried I would be induced, labor a while and end up with a c-section anyway because I didn't let my body do its own thing. The only advice I can give to you is be honest with your doctors about your fears and your concerns and keep the communication with them open. There may be a legitimate medical reason why they want you to not go past a certain date but you wont know unless you ask. And ask specific questions. Don't be afraid to push until you feel you really understand what they are saying and why they are saying it.
Hang in there - I know what you mean about the mental aspect. I was sitting in her office yesterday thinking "what if she comes in and does a cervix check and I'm way dilated and she tells me I'm going into labor any minute" and thinking that as excited as I am (and as prepared as I think I am), it is still scary to think she could be here any minute and become my lifelong responsibility!!
Inductions really aren't that bad. I've had 2, and needed help with my 1st. If there is good communication between you and your OB, talk things out. I didn't know that my midwife was holding back and making some slightly bad decisions, until after DS1 was born.
DS1 born 11/3/06 * DS2 born 3/29/08 * DD born 3/15/11
Scarlett Mae born 1/14/14 Our family is now complete!
BFP #2 (5/18/13) due 1/26/14. Grow baby grow!
Its a surprise! Team green!