June 2014 Moms

"I'm not touching you!"

You guys remember that commercial with the siblings where one is hovering ever-so-close to the other and taunting, "I'm not touching you"? I was reminded if it today. I had three people -not one, not two, but three - who started to touch my belly but stopped just short of making contact and just kinda kept their hand there for a minute like it was resting on a force field or something. I don't know if I had an involuntary facial expression that gave them pause or what, but it was really weird. Either go ahead and touch it, ask permission, or don't even try. A mixture of those options is just awkward.

Anyone else have this strange halfway belly grab?

Re: "I'm not touching you!"

  • That is really weird and sketchy. I've only had one person touch mine. She is my moms friend and she did it early on at like 11 weeks when I didn't really have a belly. So it was ultra weird. 
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  • My drunk SIL did this to me all night last night a Christmas gathering. The "force field " is a good way to describe it. The most annoying part was she kept saying "I'm not touching your stomachs, I know you don't like that."
    Well I don't like you strangely hovering over me, either!
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  • I had a work meeting in Dallas and everyone felt the need to touch my belly. I tried to do the arm across my belly to block and take a step back but they would just move around my arm and touch a spot. This happened 7 times before we broke for lunch. Weirdest part was this was my first time meeting them in person since my location is in Houston.

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  • This is one of those things that has never bothered me, which is weird, because I hate to be touched in general.
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  • I become like a puppy at about 7 months.. The baby is so low now it makes my skin crawl!! Please step away from my blump!!!
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  • My mom and SIL have touched by belly. With them I am fine. I told H that if his mom touches it I will likely punch her.
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  • I've had a couple co workers who think it's okay to touch my stomach. I'm like you do realize you're not touching the baby, you're touching my squished organs? Haha

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  • When i was pregant with my son and people would try to touch i'd tell them i was fat not pregnant. I have personal space isues anyway so don't grab my belly

    Ready or not here we go !
     
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