About how are you splitting the gifts from you vs gifts from Santa, and about how many gifts are you giving your toddler this year? Our son will be 4 in February and we have mostly got more small things and one bigger toy, most of them I was thinking would be from Santa. I was just curious how everyone else does it.
Re: Ratio of Santa gifts vs Mom&Dad gifts.
DD is 2, so we got her a dollhouse and accessories (I am setting it up in her room when she is asleep so it will be the first thing she sees when she wakes up), some blocks and racetracks (she loves to play with cars), some books, a cute dress (which she won't care about), some pj's (she also won't care about) and that's it from us. In her stocking she's getting some candy, a stuffed animal, and a couple of My Little Ponies.
We celebrate St. Nicks so the kids get a shoe filled on the 6th and stockings on Christmas morning as well.
We went seriously overboard this year. DH insisted on more Santa gifts. We have about 5 Santa gifts, and a full stocking. We have about 6 gifts from Mom and Dad. DH's reasoning is it's our last Christmas with one child, and to do it while we can.
So we do 2 "big" presents, one at Chanukah, one at Christmas. (This year a skateboard and a bike). Then he gets smaller presents at Chanukah and a smaller present from Santa at Christmas (this year Santa is bringing a backpack).
We spend Christmas with DH's family, so Santa fills our stockings while we're out of town and we open them when we get home.
I'd say it's about 50/50.
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All Santa. It was always like that in my house. Anyway is fine but weird statement on "we work hard, I don't need someone getting all the credit". I don't need credit from my children- the joy on their faces Christmas morning is gift enough.