We've slowly been transitioning from 3 to 2 naps. Today, for example, was the perfect schedule - up ay 7:30, 2 naps, last nap ended at 4, bed by 7. HOWEVER, My problem is that he is treating bedtime as the 3rd nap, so he is up after about 20-30 mins and is wide awake for another 2 hours. What should I do? keep him up longer between the 2nd nap and bedtime? we're doing the 2-3-3 and he's been waking up at 7:30-8 am lately.
Re: 2 to 3 nap help
Are his other naps only 20-30 min too? Or is he just waking this early at the bedtime? My daughter does this when something is off (teething or other pain etc), she wakes after 1 sleep cycle (45min). I just go in and lie with her for a few minutes and she passes back out. Sometimes she's will play a few minutes but I just snuggle and do not engage and then she clues in that it's still time to sleep.
If he tends to have 20-30 min naps then he may just think this is a 3rd nap. Does he typically respond to rocking or something that would cue him that it's still sleep time? We've had many periods (again teething, wonder weeks etc) where my daughter has done this and not gone back to sleep, so we just go with it and let her get up and play for a few hours then put her back to bed. After a few nights she goes back to her usual routine. Daddy enjoys the extra play time with her in these stretches.
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