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Christmas Party Drama, HELP!

jessicalynn0828jessicalynn0828 member
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So in my office i am the youngest, there is a guy here named Logan who is the only one closest to my age. We generally have a lot in common with working out and what not so of course we are friends. He has a crazy ex girlfriend that works upstairs. While we were at our Christmas party on Friday she text him "why are you showing her so much attention, is her baby yours" then another "you f***ed her, you impregnated her"

i have NEVER cheated on my boyfriend and i genuinely don't find Logan attractive anyway.

She is a very lucky girl i am not a psycho! i feel like most people would have yanked her by her hair for second guessing the father of their child. 


my dilemma now, now we are all back at work and she is sober, should i say something to her about how unprofessional and immature she was being? i was utterly disrespected since i don't even really know her, we have never spoke.  

I am the type of person to let things go, I don't do confrontation but this was done in the workplace and it bothers me.
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  • jessicalynn0828jessicalynn0828 member
    lyracelesti said:
    Are you in a company with an HR department? I think that your first stop should be with them, especially if she did so in a place where others could hear her.
    yes, i work for a highly respected property management company. 

    she supposedly was crying to her whole department about him and ranting nonsense the whole night so i'm sure other could hear.
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  • lest12lest12 member
    I would tell him it made me uncomfortable. If it escalates, I would go to a supervisor or HR, whichever is more appropriate.

     

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  • Valie18Valie18 member
    Make sure to keep a record of this text.

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  • MrsCase1MrsCase1 member
    jessicalynn0828 said:
    lyracelesti said:
    Are you in a company with an HR department? I think that your first stop should be with them, especially if she did so in a place where others could hear her.
    yes, i work for a highly respected property management company. 

    she supposedly was crying to her whole department about him and ranting nonsense the whole night so i'm sure other could hear.
    If she was a hot mess at a company party I would say let it ride because she is probably doing more to get herself fired than you could. I hate when people act a fool at work. Ugh. 
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  • mrsgyaraymrsgyaray member
    Don't say anything. Like it was mentioned before, she text him and not you. Not only that, but my philosophy is to let them look like the crazy one. Not you! 

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  • verydisgruntledpelican0091verydisgruntledpelican0091 member
    People get crazy when they drink, it sucks it came down on you but I would just be the bigger person and let it
    Go. Kill the crazy bitch with kindness. I'd bring her a cupcake. I sneezed on of course. Lol.
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  • verydisgruntledpelican0091verydisgruntledpelican0091 member
    OR I would get my fiancé to come into the office to pick me up for my break and make sure to say it loud enough
    "THIS IS MY BABY DADDY!"
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