TTC After a Loss

New Here

Hey everyone I'm new to these boards! 
I've been looking for an outlet or something with people who could possibly understand what it is that I am going through. My husband and I conceived in July 2012 we were so happy and everything was going great all of my hormone levels were right on track!  I started to feel funny around July 31st with pains I just assumed were gas... needless to say that wasn't the case and I had a corneal ectopic pregnancy at 8  weeks. I lost my left Fallopian tube and part of my uterus. Since then we have been trying and nothing has been happening I ended up switching doctors because mine wouldst do anything to help us because "i'm only 25," My new doctor who is wonderful has been such a great help and started me on this natural product called Pregnatude. I haven't noticed a difference in anything but we will see. She had scheduled me for an ultrasound and I recently got the results back and they found a cyst on my right ovary, needless to say I am even more devastated by this. Phew that was a lot to cover, I would love to hear if anyone has had any similar situations as me or just to say hello! Thanks again ladies and I look forward to getting to know everyone

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  • Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!
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  • I am sorry for your loss. I am glad you found a new doctor you like.
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
  • I am so sorry for your loss and struggles.  I hope you find all that you need and more here.  

    Just curious - has your new dr discussed doing a PCOS work up?  Our TTCAL blog here...clicky is a great resource full of information!  Best of luck to you on this crazy journey.
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    10/05/2005: Adpoted DS - Funniest boy ever!
    09/2007: Ectopic with rupture - lost right tube | 09/2012: Ectopic - saved the left tube
    08/05/2013: BFP not ectopic | EDD: 4/22/2014 | 09/15/2013: Miscarried at home
    Underwent Gastric Bypass 01/06/2014 to help with PCOS and weight.  Lost 186 lbs - had to TTA for 1 year
    Burned the bench 01/20/15 - Medicated Cycle with Clomid and HCG trigger shot on 02/08/2015
    ++++ BFP 2/17/18 ++++  EDD 10/26/2015
    "Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost." ~ Romans 15:13 
  • Thank you so much for showing me this the thought actually never crossed my mind to ask about this. I have an HSG test that I need to do after this cyst clears up but I may make a phone call to ask about this in the mean time! Thanks so much again!
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
    BFP #3: EDD 1/27/15 Please be our rainbow! ...Team Green


  • So sorry for your loss. welcome to the board

    BFP: 9/21/13 | EDD:5/31/14 | MC confirmed:11/6/13 | D&C:11/12/13
    BFP: 1/14/14 | EDD: 9/21/14 | MC confirmed: 2/3/14 | D&C: 2/4/14
    DX 3/18/14 (Complete) Septate Uterus | Resection 4/22/14
    BFP: 8/5/14 | EDD: 4/19/15
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  • So sorry for your loss welcome to the board.



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    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • Sorry for your loss, and your doctor not want to treat you because of your age. I'm curious if you don't mind me asking, what is Pregnatude and what does it do?
    Me: 34 DH: 38 3/2009: Married 3/2012: Started TTC (Unofficially, because I had 2 sizable fibroids and wasn't sure I could conceive) 5/2012: Miscarried @ 7.5 weeks 6/2012: Diagnosed with two massive fibroids, myo recommend 9/2012: Robotic Myomectomy performed 1/2013: Green light to start TTC 8/2013: HSG, diagnosed with small polyp(s), D&C to remove polyps 9/2013: OB/GYN recommends IUI w/Clomid, Consulted with ND to remedy Estrogen dominance/short luteal phase/fibroid growth 10/2013: Lack of Ovulation due to Progesterone Cream prescribed by ND 11/2013: Cut back PC dosage, actively TTCing now My chronicles: www.reproactivechic.blogspot.com
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I am glad to hear you found a doc you like.
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • I'm sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board.
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     ~Married August 27, 2011~

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  • Im so sorry for your loss and everything you have been through. Welcome to the board.

    BFP 11/21/13 --- EDD 07/25/14 --- MC at 5 wks 2 days

          Me: 25, MH: 29, Married since 6/2011

  • I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you and the new dr are on the same page now. Welcome to the board.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
  • I am so sorry for your loss and all you have been through. ((Hugs)) welcome

    Married DH 3/14/09

    TTC Since Jan 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS Jan 2013
    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, the loss of your tube, and the cyst. You have been through so much. Welcome to the board sweetheart
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss (((hugs))). Welcome to the board.
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • I am sorry for your loss, and for your crappy old doctor. Welcome to the board. I'm glad to hear you have found a new doc who you like and who is willing to help you.






     


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  • Welcome and so sorry for your loss and all that you are enduring. I hope that this doctor is able to help you. 
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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  • Welcome to the board and I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
  • I'm sorry about what you've had to go through. Hugs. 

    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • Welcome. I am sorry for your loss. 

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  • I'm very sorry for your loss and all of your struggles!  I don't really have any advice for you.  I did lost one of my fallopian tubes due to a cyst, but my doctor says that doesn't mean that my chances of conceiving are 50% less than that of a woman with two tubes.  Sometimes, your body figures it out and kicks the other ovary into ovulating multiple months in a row.  I'm glad that you switched doctors and I hope your time here is short! 
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    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • Sorry for your loss, and welcome to the board. I hope you'll find the ladies here are able to help you feel better about things... I certainly have!
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic and lost my right tube. A year before be got PG, I had a dermoid removed from my right ovary. PM me if you want to talk about it and I will tell you my experience. ((Hugs)) and welcome. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
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  • I'm sorry for your loss and the loss of your tube (((hugs))).

    I'm glad that your new doctor seems to be so proactive! Cysts are very treatable. Have you talked to your doc about doing a tubal dye study to make sure your remaining tube is clear? I know that would be one of my paranoid worries after an ectopic.

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  • Welcome to the board, and I am so very sorry for your loss.

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          ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • I am doing this after my cyst clears up im a little freaked out about doing it while the cyst is still present. Have you had this done before?
  • So sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Welcome!
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
    ALL WELCOME -
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  • Welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss and for all you've been through thus far.  I hope that you find comfort here and that you are able to get answers that lead to your rainbow.

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

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  • So sorry for your loss and struggle.
    I'm glad you found a doctor you are happier with.
    Welcome to the community.

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14

    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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  • So sorry for your struggles. Welcome to the board and I hope you can find some comfort here
    Me: 33 DH: 38 
    BFP 1: 10/06/13 // MMC/D&C:12/16/13 (Partial Molar)
    DS: 5/4/15
    BFP 3: 10/26/16//EDD: 7/2/17

          
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss and everything you have gone through. It has helped me to be on this board and to have women to relate to. There are so many times in my regular day that I have to watch friends and family enjoy their children or pregnancies and I have to keep hush hush, or having them not understand my fears and pain. To come here and unload that pain and then have people UNDERSTAND has helped me a lot. I hope the same for you.
    Me: 27, DH:33 Married Sept. 18,2010image 
    BFP Oct. 15, 2013 , EDD June 22, 2014 (Two days before DH's birthday).  
    HB found @ 6wks, NMC @ 8wks LO stopped developing.
    Currently TTC

  • Thank you so much I can totally relate right now! It feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant either by trying or by accident and its like ahhh! I have voiced my sadness to my DH and my best friend and they just dont understand the sadness/jealousy.
  • @agibel I'm so sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic last july which was caught early because I had already had a loss (they did an US at 5 weeks).  I'm doing the HSG (dye test) so I can't attest to anything about it.. but I do think it will put my mind at ease once I know.
    I hope your new medicine helps and I'm glad that you've found a doctor that is more proactive.
    DH and I are 29.  Married 7-17-10
    Started actively TTC January 2013
    BFP #1 - 2/3/13, EDD - 10/11/13, natural MC 3/21/13 
    BFP #2 - 6/8/13, EDD - 2/20/14, ectopic, MTX given 6/26/13 
    BFP #3 - 12/10/13, chemical pregnancy
    RPL - normal  ..  HSG - clear
    BFP#4 - 2/2/14, EDD 10-19-14 - Beta #1: HCG 64, Progesterone 41
  • I am sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Having a doctor you like is huge. I'm glad you have that. I hope your stay here is short and sweet.

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    BFP 5/19/2013. MC 7/2/2013 (9w6d) with est. loss at 8w. Miso 7/3/2013 and emergency D & C 7/6/2013.

    BFP#2 11/6/2013.  CP 11/14/2013.  

    BFP #3 12/13/2013.  Beta #1 @ 15dpo- 239. Progesterone 27.  Beta #2 @17dpo - 90.  CP 12/21/2013

    Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  -Philippians 4:6-7

    All PgAL and PAL welcome.

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